Secrets of Meghan’s letter to Thomas Markle, according to experts

Handwriting experts have analysed a letter sent by the Duchess of Sussex to her estranged father shortly after her wedding to reveal the insights it gives into her character. 

The bombshell five-page letter, sent in August last year, saw Meghan accuse Thomas Markle of breaking her heart ‘into a million pieces’ by giving interviews to the press, fabricating stories and attacking her new husband.

Today the UK’s leading handwriting expert Emma Bache claimed the ‘highly-stylised’ letter suggested Meghan was ‘ultra cautious’ but also a ‘showman and a narcissist’.

 The bombshell five-page letter, sent in August last year, saw Meghan accuse Thomas Markle of breaking her heart ‘into a million pieces’ by giving interviews to the press. Pictured is an extract 

She told MailOnline: ‘Meghan shows a highly stylised and slow handwriting. She is ultra cautious, is well aware that the world has their eyes on her and that is just how she likes it. 

‘This is not a spontaneous or intellectually creative woman but a consummate performer and strategist.

‘There is a strong right slant and her letters have often been retraced. There is enormous emotion as well as energy but she is both self aware and self orientated. 

‘However she suffers from anxiety and in this instance her usual regularity and over control of pen strokes does show some wavering and a slight uneven baseline – she is showing some wavering of self control. But not much!’

Bache continued to analyse other stylistic features of the letter that could give an eye into Meghan’s mind.  

‘The pressure of the pen is strong – she is physically and sensually as well as materially motivated,’ she said. 

‘The somewhat incongruous and visually dominating leftward upper zone flourishes appear to be tacked on – this is the 21st Century female equivalent of the Dandy, the fop or indeed the showman – and yes the narcissist.

‘There are circles within circles in the smaller letters which show her secrecy and unwillingness to reveal her true inner thoughts .

‘She is stubborn and unlikely to waiver in her thoughts but she is ambitious, very hard working and driven.’

Thomas Markle revealed the full content of a five-page letter written to him by his daughter the Duchess of Sussex

Thomas Markle revealed the full content of a five-page letter written to him by his daughter the Duchess of Sussex

This image shows how certain aspects of Meghan's personality are reflected in the letter, according to the experts who spoke to MailOnline 

This image shows how certain aspects of Meghan’s personality are reflected in the letter, according to the experts who spoke to MailOnline 

Two handwriting experts give their views on Meghan’s letter  

 Tracey Trussell

Her emotional barometer (seen in the handwriting slant) is set to the right, which means that emotional responsiveness is high – Meghan wants to be friendly and cooperative, she wants to communicate and express herself.

Also, the spacing of the words is tellingly quite wide and irregular, which also tells us that she gave great thought and consideration to the content of what she’s saying, to the extent that it was naturally causing her to feel quite a bit of anxiety. 

This matter is clearly affecting Meghan deeply.

She has strong left tendencies (where her endstrokes sweep up and backwards), which reveal how much she reflects about things that have happened to her in the past, and how it’s impossible for her to forget people who have meant so much to her in her life.

And the elaborate strokes or embellishments that sweep across the tops of words (which incidentally are added as a superfluous addition afterwards) look like little protective umbrellas, giving further credence to her deep feelings on the matter. 

They also reveal her vulnerability – the chink in her armour. Surely this is enough proof how much Meghan cares? It must be exhausting for her!

 Emma Bache

 Meghan shows a highly stylised and slow handwriting. She is ultra cautious, is well aware that the world has their eyes on her and that is just how she likes it. This is not a spontaneous or intellectually creative woman but a consummate performer and strategist.

There is a strong right slant and her letters have often been retraced. There is enormous emotion as well as energy but she is both self aware and self orientated. However she suffers from anxiety and in this instance her usual regularity and over control of pen strokes does show some wavering and a slight uneven baseline – she is showing some wavering of self control. But not much!

The pressure of the pen is strong – she is physically and sensually as well as materially motivated.

The somewhat incongruous and visually dominating leftward upper zone flourishes appear to be tacked on – this is the 21st Century female equivalent of the Dandy, the fop or indeed the showman – and yes the narcissist.

There are circles within circles in the smaller letters which show her secrecy and unwillingness to reveal her true inner thoughts. She is stubborn and unlikely to waiver in her thoughts but she is ambitious, very hard working and driven.

Tracey Trussell, a consultant graphologist at Handright, also offered an analysis of the letter. 

She warned that not being able to handle the original pages made it difficult to make an exact assessment of the handwriting pressure – a key indicator of the writer’s feelings – but said it still contained several insights. 

She told MailOnline: ‘Meghan’s handwriting is very stylised, revealing her perfectionist streak and desire to hide her true feelings under wraps.

‘However, there are other clues. The whole piece of writing has clockwork regularity, and the rhythm is stilted and contrived, which shows how much self-discipline Meghan exerts to keep her emotions and actions under control, so she doesn’t do or say the wrong thing.

‘There are also many starting and covering strokes at the beginning of words – in the vertical axis (seen in the thickness of letters) – which also tells us how much thought she has given to writing this letter, and how hard she was trying to say the right thing and be the strong person. 

‘These almost invisible accoutrements reveal how something that has happened in the past has been a source of disappointment for her.’

Handwriting slant can also offer an impression of the writer’s character, Trussell said.  

‘Her emotional barometer (seen in the handwriting slant) is set to the right, which means that emotional responsiveness is high – Meghan wants to be friendly and cooperative, she wants to communicate and express herself.

‘Also, the spacing of the words is tellingly quite wide and irregular, which also tells us that she gave great thought and consideration to the content of what she’s saying, to the extent that it was naturally causing her to feel quite a bit of anxiety. This matter is clearly affecting Meghan deeply.

‘She has strong left tendencies (where her endstrokes sweep up and backwards), which reveal how much she reflects about things that have happened to her in the past, and how it’s impossible for her to forget people who have meant so much to her in her life.’

Meghan’s sad opening message to ‘Daddy’ as she sits down to pour out her heart to her estranged father over five handwritten pages

Meghan’s sad opening message to ‘Daddy’ as she sits down to pour out her heart to her estranged father over five handwritten pages

The Duchess claims Mr Markle causes her pain by being manipulated in the media but he insists ‘I love her with all my heart’

The Duchess claims Mr Markle causes her pain by being manipulated in the media but he insists ‘I love her with all my heart’

Mr Markle insists: ‘I sent Meg and Harry a text telling them I wasn’t coming. It was too dangerous after my heart attacks’

Mr Markle insists: ‘I sent Meg and Harry a text telling them I wasn’t coming. It was too dangerous after my heart attacks’

Mr Markle says he only asked for help to move house and that any ‘modest’ financial gifts from Meghan were ‘greatly appreciated’

Mr Markle says he only asked for help to move house and that any ‘modest’ financial gifts from Meghan were ‘greatly appreciated’

Her father says: ‘I didn’t stop answering my phone. I was in hospital with a heart attack! Meg and Harry knew what was going on’

Her father says: ‘I didn’t stop answering my phone. I was in hospital with a heart attack! Meg and Harry knew what was going on’

Mr Markle comments: ‘I have no idea what this means. This is pure Harry. Americans don’t use the “rabbit hole” expression’

Mr Markle comments: ‘I have no idea what this means. This is pure Harry. Americans don’t use the “rabbit hole” expression’

Meghan complains Thomas sided with her half-sister Samantha in criticising her, but he insists: ‘I never wanted Meg to suffer.’

Meghan complains Thomas sided with her half-sister Samantha in criticising her, but he insists: ‘I never wanted Meg to suffer.’

Trussell also highlighted the embellishments in Meghan’s handwriting, including the strokes that sweep across the tops of words. 

She said: ‘They look like little protective umbrellas, giving further credence to her deep feelings on the matter. 

‘They also reveal her vulnerability – the chink in her armour. Surely this is enough proof how much Meghan cares? It must be exhausting for her!’

In the letter Meghan admonishes her father, in anguished tones, for siding with her half-sister Samantha – who has attacked her in the press – while she ‘silently suffered at the hand of her vicious lies’.

She goes on to complain that Mr Markle has made no attempt to contact her – and chastises him for falsely telling journalists he is the one who has been shunned – a criticism her father vehemently refutes.

She also accuses her father of snubbing her and Prince Harry’s offers to help when he pulled out of attending their wedding following two heart attacks and accuses him of being ungrateful for money she has given him.

The former award-winning Hollywood lighting director, who now lives in Mexico, said that he never intended to make the handwritten missive public ‘out of respect for Meghan’ – but says he has been forced to do so now because its contents have been falsely portrayed.

Contrary to claims made by the Duchess’s friends, he said the letter made no attempt to heal their bitter rift. ‘I thought it would be an olive branch. Instead, it was a dagger to the heart,’ Mr Markle, 74, said last night.

He dismissed suggestions he has made no attempt to patch things up since her wedding. He showed this newspaper texts which he says prove he reached out multiple times to his daughter and the son-in-law he has never met.

The US magazine People claimed to ‘put the record straight’ over the Duchess’s relationship with her father and criticism of her style as a Royal.

It was based on interviews with five friends – at least one of whom is thought to be one of the Duchess’s co-stars in Suits, the legal drama in which she starred for six years.

The Duchess came under fire over her apparent decision to allow her confidantes to defend her in the extraordinary interview, without, it is understood, involving Kensington Palace.

The palace has refused to comment on whether the magazine’s anonymous sources had co-operated at the direct request of the Duchess or with her tacit approval.

Thomas Markle says: ‘I’ve never attacked Harry. I asked him to man up’

Thomas Markle says: ‘I’ve never attacked Harry. I asked him to man up’

He insists the Duchess is mistaken: ‘I have only ever spoken out in response to fake narratives and lies’

He insists the Duchess is mistaken: ‘I have only ever spoken out in response to fake narratives and lies’

The Duchess refers to the MoS paparazzi photos story, right, but he insists he continued to reach out

The Duchess refers to the MoS paparazzi photos story, right, but he insists he continued to reach out

In her letter to her father, the Duchess begged him to stop attacker 'patient, kind and understanding' Prince Harry

In her letter to her father, the Duchess begged him to stop attacker ‘patient, kind and understanding’ Prince Harry

Former Buckingham Palace press secretary Dickie Arbiter, who worked for both Prince Charles and the late Diana, Princess of Wales, feared the decision would only exacerbate issues.

He said: ‘Assuming – and as these sources are anonymous we don’t know for sure – that this was done with her agreement, it has opened a Pandora’s box. The issue with her father is an open wound and I’m not entirely sure it is the best idea to aggravate that.’

Last night, Mr Markle said it was unfair for his daughter’s friends to use the media to ‘spin a line’ while he was being criticised for ‘giving a handful’ of interviews to the press. In the article last Wednesday, the Duchess’s friends said that she was devastated by his response to the letter, in which he suggested father and daughter pose for press pictures.

One friend said: ‘She feels like “that’s the opposite of what I’m saying. I’m telling you that I don’t want to communicate through the media, and you’re asking me to… Did you hear anything I said?” ’

Mr Markle said he had suggested the photo op as a way of showing the world they could be friends again, describing the Duchess’s reading of it as ‘tragic misunderstanding’ he wishes he could put straight. The rift between the Duchess and her father began after The Mail on Sunday revealed, just days before her wedding in May last year, that he had colluded with the paparazzi to stage a series of lucrative photo opportunities.

Such was his humiliation that he offered to pull out of attending the Royal Wedding and was later prevented from going after suffering two heart attacks.

Since then, he has given a series of damaging interviews in which he has spoken of his dismay at being cast adrift by his daughter and the Royal Family.

Emma Bache’s first book, Reading Between The Lines, is published by Quercus on the 30th of August 2018.            

 Thomas’s Anguished Reply 

The Duchess insisted she phoned him, but he had no missed calls

The Duchess insisted she phoned him, but he had no missed calls

Mr Markle says he never attacked Harry, but feels he should have met him before the wedding

Mr Markle says he never attacked Harry, but feels he should have met him before the wedding

Mr Markle insists his bid to reduce press intrusion was ‘completely misinterpreted’

Mr Markle insists his bid to reduce press intrusion was ‘completely misinterpreted’

Mr Markle says he never heard from his ex-wife after his plea to help him heal the rift

Mr Markle says he never heard from his ex-wife after his plea to help him heal the rift

How Meghan’s media fightback led her father to reveal letter he wanted to keep secret 

The Duchess’s father told no one about her letter and planned to ‘keep it totally private out of respect for her’ – until her friends launched their ‘attack’ on him last week.

Following Meghan’s ‘Duchess Difficult’ reputation and stories of her allegedly petulant behaviour like firing off 5am emails to staff and demanding air freshener be sprayed around musty St George’s Chapel, Windsor, Meghan is said to have authorised five of her closest friends to speak to US People magazine to correct the falsehoods.

The article painted Meghan in a glowing light, while insisting the negative stories about her were lies. But Mr Markle says Meghan’s decision to reveal the private letter in the pages of the magazine left him with no choice but to go public: ‘The letter was presented in a way that vilified me and wasn’t true,’ he said last night. ‘It was presented as her reaching out and writing a loving letter in the hope of healing the rift, but the letter isn’t like that at all. Meghan can’t have it both ways. She can’t use the press to get her message across but hang me out to dry. I have the right to defend myself.’

Experts have claimed the Duchess is walking a dangerous path by allegedly bypassing the palace press office.

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