Kate Garraway details ‘frustrating’ reality of caring for her husband Derek Draper in a candid post

Kate Garraway has revealed she often feels ‘frustrated, depressed and emotional’ as she opened up about caring for her husband Derek Draper. 

The Good Morning Britain host, 55, made the revelation on World Mental Health Day on Monday, as she paid her respects to other carers.

Derek is one of the UK’s longest-suffering patients of Covid after being admitted to hospital with the virus in March 2020, only returning home in April 2021, where he receives round-the-clock care. 

The TV personality said: ‘In the documentary [Caring For Derek] you saw me frustrated, depressed, emotional, and I’ve been all of those and more in recent weeks and months and more’.

‘Because that’s the thing with caring, you want it to carry on because you want the person to be surviving and still with you, so that you CAN care for them, but there isn’t an end point and it doesn’t get any easier.’

Hard work: Kate Garraway revealed she often feels ‘frustrated, depressed and emotional’ as she opened up about caring for her husband Derek Draper

Taking to Instagram, Kate shared a video as she spoke to the camera from her back garden. 

She captioned the post: ‘Hello everyone – thank you for voting for our documentary ‘Caring for Derek’ – am so chuffed it’s been nominated for an #NTAAWARD this Thursday’. 

‘We made the film to highlight the challenges and rewards of being a carer, but since then things haven’t got any easier either for Derek and I, nor for the millions of other carers right across the UK’. 

‘@carersfirst have done some research & the economic crisis has left many feeling suicidal , hundreds of thousands with mental health issues & more than 93 percent say they can’t sleep because they are so terrified about the future’. 

Tough: Derek is one of the UK's longest-suffering patients of Covid after being admitted to hospital with the virus in March 2020, only returning home in April 2021, where he receives round-the-clock care (pictured together earlier this year)

Tough: Derek is one of the UK’s longest-suffering patients of Covid after being admitted to hospital with the virus in March 2020, only returning home in April 2021, where he receives round-the-clock care (pictured together earlier this year)

Candid: The Good Morning Britain host made the revelation on World Mental Health day, saying she desperately wants the father of her two children to survive

Candid: The Good Morning Britain host made the revelation on World Mental Health day, saying she desperately wants the father of her two children to survive

Honesty: She captioned the post: 'Hello everyone - thank you for voting for our documentary 'Caring for Derek' - am so chuffed it's been nominated for an #NTAAWARD this Thursday'

Honesty: She captioned the post: ‘Hello everyone – thank you for voting for our documentary ‘Caring for Derek’ – am so chuffed it’s been nominated for an #NTAAWARD this Thursday’

‘On #worldmentalhealthday I have been thinking about what so many are going through. If you haven’t seen #caringforderek it is still on the @itv hub.

‘And if you feel moved to vote, then the link is in my bio – carers and anyone with a long term illness would feel so grateful not to be forgotten’. 

It comes after Kate reflected on Derek’s recovery from Covid on ITV’s DNA Journey last week.

The television personality appeared on the show with fellow presenter Alison Hammond to retrace her ancestry but began by telling how Derek ‘remains very damaged’ as she spoke about her current family situation. 

Speaking on the show Kate said: ‘2020 was a devastating year. With Derek, he got very sick very early on in the pandemic and has remained very damaged.

Tough: It comes after Kate reflected on Derek's recovery from Covid on ITV 's DNA Journey on Thursday night

Tough: It comes after Kate reflected on Derek’s recovery from Covid on ITV ‘s DNA Journey on Thursday night

‘That is quite well documented because for a lot of people, he’s come to symbolise the fight that goes on.’

Kate also praised Alison – who she appeared on the show alongside – for being such a support to her during the difficult times with Derek.

‘Alison, she was messaging me to say she was thinking of me in that way,’ Kate explained.

Kate shares her two children – William, 13, and Darcey, 16 – with her husband and juggles raising her kids with looking after Derek and hosting Good Morning Britain.

Friends: Kate also praised Alison - who she appeared on the show alongside - for being such a support to her during the difficult times with Derek

Friends: Kate also praised Alison – who she appeared on the show alongside – for being such a support to her during the difficult times with Derek 

The broadcaster revealed in July that Derek was back in hospital, however he has since returned home.

He was released from hospital last year but still requires round the clock care and daily medication amid his ongoing battle with long Covid.

Kate previously admitted that if left unaided for over three days, Derek could die. He is bed-stricken, with Kate doing much of the caring herself.

Also on DNA Journey Alison delved into her past during a trip to Jamaica with Kate.

The star, 47, was told about her great great great grandfather Jean Marie Escofferey who was deported from Jamaica to the Dominican Republic unlawfully.

Recovery: Speaking on the show Kate said: '2020 was a devastating year. With Derek, he got very sick very early on in the pandemic and has remained very damaged'

Recovery: Speaking on the show Kate said: ‘2020 was a devastating year. With Derek, he got very sick very early on in the pandemic and has remained very damaged’ 

Alison then found out that he had been wrongfully accused of criminal activity regarding the selling of guns before a public enquiry proved him innocent and was returned to his home town.

Jean was then given £16,000 in damages – which would be worth around £50million in today’s money. 

After hearing Alison’s story many took to Twitter to react, with one saying: ‘@AlisonHammond’s family story is emotional inspiring amazing story. A film waiting to be made & should be …..real life & a history that everyone should know.’

Story: Also on DNA Journey Alison delved into her past during a trip to Jamaica with Kate

Story: Also on DNA Journey Alison delved into her past during a trip to Jamaica with Kate

Another said: ‘Loving this episode of DNA Journey. I love the story of Alisons relatives fighting racial injustice and opposing slavery. Fantastic, moving and LOL funny.’

A third wrote: ‘Watching #DNAJourney is always such a rollercoaster of emotions but I absolutely love it!’

Also on DNA Journey Kate discovered she is related to the creator of Paddington Bear, Michael Bond.

On the show, Kate was introduced to Karen Jankel, the daughter of the late author, as it was revealed the pair share the same three times great-grandparent.

They shared an emotional embrace after aptly meeting near the London train station that bears Paddington’s name.

The children’s book character famously arrived in London from the deepest, darkest jungles of Peru and first appeared in print in 1958 in the book A Bear Called Paddington.

Karen told Kate she wanted to introduce her to her ‘famous brother’, before revealing a stuffed toy of Paddington Bear – complete with a travel tag reading ‘Darkest Peru’.

‘Paddington and I grew up together,’ she told her.

‘The reason is that my father was Michael Bond, the creator of Paddington, which means that of course you are also related to Michael Bond.’

She said of the marmalade-loving bear: ‘He was always part of my family. He is so real to our family, and now to your family too, because he is a member of the family.

‘He used to sit on the table at meal times and my father used to talk to him and talk through him to us. Of course, I never knew anything else because he was always around.’

Reaction: After hearing Alison's story many took to Twitter to react, with one saying: ' @AlisonHammond's family story is emotional inspiring amazing story. A film waiting to be made & should be .....real life & a history that everyone should know'

Reaction: After hearing Alison’s story many took to Twitter to react, with one saying: ‘ @AlisonHammond’s family story is emotional inspiring amazing story. A film waiting to be made & should be …..real life & a history that everyone should know’

Karen also showed Kate her first edition copy of A Bear Called Paddington, signed by her father in September 1959.

‘It was always my absolute favourite growing up,’ Kate admitted.

‘It has been said to me over the years that I do have a touch of Paddington Bear about me and that is because without meaning to, he does cause an extraordinary amount of chaos.’

The TV star also joked she used to regularly eat marmalade sandwiches during her time at university.

British author Michael Bond published more than 20 books featuring Paddington Bear before his death in June 2017 aged 91.

Surprising news: Also on DNA Journey Kate discovered she is related to the creator of Paddington Bear, Michael Bond

Surprising news: Also on DNA Journey Kate discovered she is related to the creator of Paddington Bear, Michael Bond

His creation – known for his battered hat, suitcase and duffle coat – remains a classic of children’s writing and featured in a sketch with the Queen during her Platinum Jubilee celebrations this year.

The Queen had delighted millions of viewers after appearing in the comic sketch with the bear to kick-start the Party in The Palace Jubilee Concert on June 4. 

The pair had tapped out the beat of Queen’s We Will Rock You anthem together on china teacups using silver spoons as a unique way of getting the celebrations under way.

The sketch, which the Queen spent half a day filming, was hailed by Britons as better than her Olympic opening show cameo with James Bond.

After Queen Elizabeth II’s death on September 8, people also left Paddington Bear toys outside Buckingham Palace in memory of Her Majesty.

Emotional social media users also shared poignant tributes showing the Queen walking into the sunset with Paddington after the sad news of her death.

The Paddington books have sold more than 30million copies worldwide and been translated into approximately 30 languages.

Wow! On the show, Kate was introduced to Karen Jankel, the daughter of the late author, as it was revealed the pair share the same three times great-grandparent

Wow! On the show, Kate was introduced to Karen Jankel, the daughter of the late author, as it was revealed the pair share the same three times great-grandparent

The episode of DNA Journey also saw Kate visit Bristol with Alison Hammond to hear about her distant relative Frederick Lambert, her first cousin three generations removed.

Frederick lived and worked as a photographer in the city during the 1840s while still a teenager.

In a preview clip, shared to Instagram by Alison, Kate and the This Morning host joked that they could find out they were cousins on the show.

‘Would it change how you was with me?’ Alison asked Kate. ‘Do you think you’d come around to my house more often?’ To which Kate humorously replied: ‘Well look… do you think you’d invite me?’

DNA Journey airs on Thursday on ITV at 9pm. 

A timeline of Derek Draper’s coronavirus battle

MARCH  2020

Kate revealed she and Prince Charles had got ‘relatively close’ at the Prince’s Trust Awards on March 11 – Charles was diagnosed with coronavirus in mid-March.  

She said: ‘Around the 29/30 March, I came home came in and said [to Derek] ‘god you look ill.’

‘He said he had a headache, numbness in his right hand, and was struggling to breathe,

‘I rang Dr Hilary (Jones) and tried to get through, he talked to Derek. He said put me back on, I think you need to call an ambulance’

Derek, 52, was taken into hospital on March 30 and remained in an unresponsive condition. 

APRIL  

Kate and her children isolated at home after she displayed ‘mild symptoms’.

Kate said: ‘Derek remains in intensive care and is still very ill. I’m afraid it remains an excruciatingly worrying time.

‘I’m afraid he is still in a deeply critical condition, but he is still here, which means there is hope.’ 

MAY 

Kate said: ‘The journey for me and my family seems to be far from over as every day my heart sinks as I learn new and devastating ways this virus has more battles for Derek to fight. 

‘But he is still HERE & so there is still hope.’

That month, Kate and her family took part in the final clap for carers

She said: ‘I’ll never give up on that because Derek’s the love of my life but at the same time I have absolute uncertainty’

JUNE 

On June 5, Kate revealed Derek is now free from coronavirus but continues to fight against the damage inflicted on his body

JULY 

On July 5, Kate revealed Derek has woken from his coma but he remains in a serious yet critical condition.

On July 8, she announced she would be returning to GMB, after being urged by doctors to ‘get on with life’ during Derek’s recovery.   

She added that Derek had ‘opened his eyes’ after waking from his coma, but has been told his recovery could take years.  

On July 13, Kate returned to GMB for the first time since Derek was hospitalised.    

On July 28, Kate revealed she’d paid an ‘extra emotional’ first visit to Derek, and admitted she’s ‘frustrated’ by his slow progress.

AUGUST

On August 14, Kate reassured GMB viewers that Derek was ‘still with us,’ but it was ‘a waiting game.’ 

On August 19, Kate revealed she celebrated Derek’s birthday with their two children, and described the day as ‘challenging’ for her family. 

 SEPTEMBER  

At the end of September, Derek reportedly becomes the longest surviving patient with coronavirus after spending 184 days in and out of intensive care.

Kate reveals Derek has lost eight stone during his battle.

The presenter announces she is returning to her Smooth Radio show so Derek can hear her voice. 

OCTOBER

On October 30 Kate reveals that Derek has spoken for the first time in seven months, saying the word ‘pain’ to his wife, who watched on ‘in tears’ over FaceTime. 

Kate says a day later that her husband no longer needs a ventilator to breathe. 

NOVEMBER 

Kate reveals her family car has been stolen in latest ‘body blow’ to her family life, as kind-hearted fans offer their cars to help.

She says she feels ‘physically sick’ at the prospect of facing her first Christmas without Derek.

DECEMBER 

The GMB star tells viewers it is her dream to visit Derek on Christmas Day.

She also reveals she missed two weeks on GMB after her children were exposed to the virus, but thankfully she and the kids tested negative.

On December 17, Kate has an emotional conversation live on GMB with two nurses who treated Derek when he was first admitted to Whittington Hospital in North London. 

On New Year’s Eve she reflects on a ‘calamitous’ Christmas without Derek, as her house was flooded and she struggled to get a food delivery slot until her pal Emma Willis stepped in to help.

JANUARY 2021

Kate reveals she and her children got to visit Derek in hospital over the Christmas period, and it was the first time her family had seen him since he was hospitalised.

She also says she’s banned from seeing him due to new restrictions introduced during the government’s third lockdown. 

FEBRUARY 

Kate reveals she is unsure how much Derek will ‘ever be able to recover’ following warning from doctors that he may never wake from his coma 

MARCH

Kate revealed that was in the process of adapting her home to suit Derek’s needs when he is finally released from hospital, in the ITV documentary Finding Derek.

The programmed was praised by viewers for offering a heartbreaking look at the long-term effects of coronavirus.

Kate also revealed that Derek has ‘no muscle left’ since battling Covid

APRIL

Kate revealed that Derek was finally allowed to leave hospital, but would require round-the-clock care once he was returned home.

MAY

Kate revealed that despite now being home with his family, his communication abilities were ‘minimal’ and he ‘couldn’t really move’

DECEMBER

During an appearance on Piers Morgan’s Life Stories, Kate revealed that Derek had said ‘I love you’ for the first time.

After celebrating Christmas, Derek was also pictured in a wheelchair during a trip to the pantomime with his family

JANUARY 2022

Kate revealed that Derek was ‘very fatigued’ and ‘very weak’ following the family outing, adding: ‘I don’t know what this year is going to bring.’

FEBRUARY

Kate offered a glimpse into the daily struggles of looking after her husband amid his battle with long Covid in the documentary Caring For Derek

She also revealed that Derek would die within three days if he was left alone to care for himself.

JULY

On July 6, Kate revealed that Derek had been re-admitted to hospital after suffering a ‘downturn,’ and in a later interview said she takes things ‘day by day.’

On July 20, it was reported that Kate had pulled out of hosting Good Morning Britain to be at Derek’s bedside after he took a ‘very serious’ turn for the worse. 

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