After 18 years of living and working as a professional dominatrix, there is little that Mistress Tokyo hasn’t seen.
From ‘golden showers’, torture, beatings, kidnapping fantasies and performance of invasive procedures, the latex-clad fetishist is open to just about any sexual desire.
But there are two request Sydney-based Mistress Tokyo flat out refuses to fulfill for her clients.
After 18 years of living and working as a professional dominatrix, there is little that Mistress Tokyo hasn’t seen
The first involves ethnicity.
Speaking to news.com.au, Mistress Tokyo revealed the disappointing frequency of the requests and said she refused to vilify a single ethnicity in her work.
The second sinister fantasy that her moral compass simply refuses has to do with children.
Mistress Tokyo has never engaged in acts with people who fantasize, reference or discuss minors, or people who are under the age of consent.
Mistress Tokyo has never engaged in acts with people who fantasize, reference or discuss minors, or people who are under the age of consent
In the era of 50 Shades of Grey, of preconceptions and misconceptions, Mistress Fetish values the importance of distinguishing her craft from what she believes is abuse on the big screen.
‘That is one of the biggest misconceptions about what I do. That it’s all 50 Shades of Grey. That it’s abusive. That spaces are not held with consent.’
The nature of consent is upheld with the utmost scrutiny and respect, and the process before the act is crucial, she told news.com.au.
Tokyo establishes safe words, limits and boundaries with her subjects before the performance begins.
She says people see the blood, the whips and the beatings, but they don’t see the intricacies behind those physical entities.
They don’t see the relationship and requests behind the physical gratification.
In the era of 50 Shades of Grey, of preconceptions and misconceptions, Mistress Fetish values the importance of distinguishing her craft from what she believes is abuse on the big screen
Whilst encouraging people to push their limits and boundaries by opening up their minds, she respects where each client draws the line.
‘There’s things I’ve come to enjoy that I didn’t initially understand, like golden showers. I never used to understand that, but 18 years on I have a different perspective. You don’t have to love it. Just try it.’
A golden shower is a slang reference to a person urinating on another to experience sexual pleasure.
The most significant thing that people don’t understand regarding her career as a dominatrix and the entire fetish for bondage, domination, sadism and masochism (BDSM), is why.
‘People are seeking an out. They want to take on different contexts, personae and they seek some sort of embodied experience,’ she says.
She says people see the blood, the whips and the beatings, but they don’t see the intricacies behind those physical entities