A man with nine ‘wives’ has claimed he had to create a ‘sex rota’ to schedule in all of his lovers, but admitted it’s been ‘tough’ and struggled to cope with the mammoth challenge.
Arthur O Urso, from Brazil, made headlines last year after he collectively married his nine girlfriends in a bid to ‘celebrate free love’ and ‘protest against monogamy’.
Arthur and his first wife, Luana Kazaki, started off as swingers, and after meeting eight other women decided to formalise their union at a Catholic church in São Paulo, although it was not legally binding because polygamy is illegal in the country.
Arthur O Urso during his wedding ceremony to his nine wives, who all claim to enjoy the sex life with their husband
The Instagram model and his original wife Luana Kazaki, who were both swingers before they met eight women to join their marriage officially
There have been ups and downs in the relationship, with one wife divorcing the group.
And Arturo soon found himself struggling to balance the needs of all his partners, and claims he felt forced to introduce a sex schedule to ensure everyone was getting their fair share of lovemaking.
But it proved tricky for the Instagram model who found the set-up to be too structured and stressful.
Arthur, who dreams of having ten wives and a child with each of them, said: ‘Our sex life is really fun and pleasurable, and initially I tried to have sex by appointment.
While Arthur insists his wives don’t mind how often the others make love to him, he says jealousy crops up when it comes to gifts and said: ‘When I’ve given one of them an expensive gift and another a smaller or cheaper one, there has been jealousy among them’
Arthur hanging out with his wives: The husband insists his sex life is now fun and pleasurable and unique and enjoys the fact they’re all different in bed
‘But following a timetable caused a lot of problems and sometimes I felt like I had to have sex because of the schedule, and not for pleasure.
‘On other occasions I had sex with one wife while thinking about another.’
The issues in the bedroom soon caused Arthur to give up the sex rota altogether and focus instead on letting things ‘flow naturally’.
The father-of-one admits his sex life is now better than ever, saying: ‘It doesn’t take long to get attention or affection when you have so many wives,’ he added.
‘It didn’t seem right so we got rid of it and now the sex flows naturally, it’s been great.
‘It is very fun, pleasurable and unique to experience everything collectively, and they are all very different in bed.
‘One of them, I won’t name her to keep her privacy, likes to be dominant and I like a woman who tells me what she wants.’
The father-of-one, pictured on his ‘wedding’ day, said his dream is to have ten wives and a child with each of them because otherwise ‘it would be unfair’
Arthur O Urso during his wedding ceremony to his nine wives in July 2021
While Arthur insists his wives don’t mind how often the others make love to him, he says jealousy crops up when it comes to gifts.
He said: ‘When I’ve given one of them an expensive gift and another a smaller or cheaper one, there has been jealousy among them. I’m still learning about our relationship.
‘They all demand attention, affection and sex to be part of our everyday life, and I can’t do more for one than the other.
Arthur has racked up 50,000 followers on Instagram from sharing sex tips and his unconventional relationship.
Arthur already has a daughter but said ‘The love I feel for each of them is the same. I think it would be unfair to only have children with one or two of them’
One wife has had enough of the living arrangement and will be leaving the marriage
One wife, however, had enough. Last month, Arthur, who also runs an OnlyFans account with his wives, revealed one wife will be leaving the marriage.
He said: ‘She wanted me all to herself. It didn’t make sense – we have to share. I was very sad about the separation and even more surprised by her excuse. She said that she was missing a monogamous relationship.
‘My other wives thought her attitude was wrong and that she accepted the marriage for adventure and not for real feelings.
‘I know I’ve lost a wife, but I’m not going to replace her yet.’
Despite his plans to hold off on marrying anyone new for the time being, Arthur hopes to marry two more women to bring his number of wives up to an even 10.
He added: ‘I have a dream. My wish has always been to have 10 wives. I only have one daughter, but I want to have [a child] with each one of my wives.
‘The love I feel for each of them is the same. I think it would be unfair to only have children with one or two of them.