Woman is horrified after bridezilla asks her not to attend her wedding because her recent stillbirth will ‘take the attention off her’ on her ‘special day’
- A wedding guest has shamed her former friend – the bride-to-be – on Facebook
- She had a stillborn baby in October and the wedding is scheduled for February
- The bride noted that her guest was still ‘not over what happened’ with her baby
- So she asked her not to come to the celebration for fear of taking attention
A wedding guest who was left devastated by the loss of her baby two months ago has been asked by the bride not to attend the ceremony because she might take the ‘attention’ away from her.
The conversation between the former friends happened over Facebook, with the guest, from Brisbane, saying she needed a ‘minute to process what the f*** had been said’.
‘This dumpster fire of a bride is getting married in early February and I would’ve been heavily pregnant as I was due at the end of February. But my daughter was stillborn in October,’ the guest said.
The conversation between the former friends happened over Facebook with the Brisbane-based guest saying she needed a ‘minute to process what the f*** had been said’ (stock image)
‘It’s been a s***ty time and both my partner and I are still just trying to get through each day and up until now everyone has been understanding and kind to us.’
The chat began when the bride asked whether her companion was still coming to her nuptials.
‘I think maybe you shouldn’t. I don’t mean to be harsh but I thought you’d be over what happened by now,’ she said.
‘But you cried today just because some lady had a baby and its just a bit dramatic and lots of people don’t know yet because apparently you aren’t ready to tell people.’
The chat began when the bride asked whether her companion was still coming to her nuptials
She argued that if her friend wasn’t prepared to tell people about it, she shouldn’t attend the wedding.
‘I’m trying to be as nice about this as I can but everyone will be asking why you aren’t pregnant and I don’t want them to be distracted from making me feel special,’ the bride continued.
‘What happened sucks but I thought you’d had long enough to get over it so it wouldn’t be a problem.’
Her friend was deeply troubled by the rescinded invitation, despite the bride insisting she meant ‘no offence’.
The bride doubled down on her point saying that ‘she just wants to be the most important person on the day’ and if she announces her stillbirth on social media, no one will ask at the wedding
‘So let me get this straight. You don’t want me at your wedding because the fact that my baby f***ing died might ruin your day,’ the friend replied.
The bride doubled down on her point saying that ‘she just wants to be the most important person on the day’ and if she announces her stillbirth on social media, no one will ask at the wedding.
This wasn’t something her friend wanted to do so she immediately cut off all ties.
‘You know what… you enjoy your wedding without me. I hope our friendship is worth all the attention you so desperately need you giant trash pile of a human,’ she said.
The bride called her ‘selfish’ for wanting to distance herself before delivering one final, nasty blow.
The bride called her ‘selfish’ for wanting to distance herself before delivering one final, nasty blow
‘Its been two months now, how much time do you really need? It’s not like you knew her,’ she said.
There was an outcry of anger over the messages, which were later shared in a wedding shaming group online, with many saying she should never be forced to ‘move on’.
‘I can’t express how much contempt I have for this woman. My warmest of love for you and strength to continue to heal,’ said one woman.
‘Wow! Grieving is a process, different for everyone. What a colossal b****. Better off without that negativity in your life,’ said another.
Others wanted to show the screenshots to the bride’s husband-to-be so he could ‘make a decision’ about who he is choosing to be with.