Defiant couples have forged ahead with their plans to tie the knot – but many have had to adjust their dream days amid the coronavirus epidemic.
With new government advice being dished out daily, bride’s-to-be across the nation have had to make the difficult decision to cancel their upcoming nuptials – but others have come up with creative ways to ensure they can still say, ‘I do.’
Melanie Murphy, from Ireland, took to Instagram and shared a snap of herself and her husband Thomas – before explaining she wasn’t wearing her actual wedding dress, nor was it their planned wedding day – in their perfect venue with all of their dear friends and family.
She penned: ‘It’s not the one I’ve lived out in my head a thousand times as we planned away – *but* this man, folks, is now officially my husband!’
Melanie Murphy, from Ireland, took to Twitter and told how she had to adjust her wedding due to updated Irish government advice on coronavirus prevention. Pictured, with her husband, Thomas
Melaniie explained: ‘This isn’t my actual wedding dress and this wasn’t our big, planned wedding day’ (pictured)
It comes as the Archbishop of Canterbury Justin Welby suspended Church of England services amid coronavirus lockdown but weddings and funerals could still go ahead.
Due to updated Irish government advice on coronavirus prevention, Melanie and Thomas had to cancel their wedding ceremony and reception, which was due to happen this week.
‘We couldn’t, in good conscience, go ahead with it when we’d be putting people at risk against government advice and of course we were sad and angry and we’ve lost a considerable amount of money on deposits & non-refundables,’ she said.
The newly wed continued: ‘At 2pm yesterday we said our vows in a registry office. We were going to do this anyway, a few days ahead of a humanist ceremony in Wicklow (was meant to happen Saturday coming).’
Melanie, who also shared this adorable snap on social media, penned: ‘A fancy wedding is a privilege, a bonus, a cherry on top kinda thing. Love is all we need during these difficult times’
‘We did so in the presence of some family members as witnesses and in spite of the simplicity, it was *so* special…dad walked me down the aisle to ‘A Gift Of Thistle’ from Braveheart and we finally got to exchange our wedding rings. Tears all round.’
Melanie went on to explain that while they still plan on having a big celebration down the line in a couple of years, a strong marriage is what they really care about.
‘A fancy wedding is a privilege, a bonus, a cherry on top kinda thing. Love is all we need during these difficult times. Anyway f**k, lads, I’m a WIFE!’ she added.
Brentford-based couple Salman Shaheen and Anna Ward, who got engaged in Spain in September last year, were meant to be celebrating their special day at the end of May, but have taken the difficult decision to reschedule.
Brentford-based couple Salman Shaheen and Anna Ward were meant to be celebrating their special day at the end of May, but have taken the difficult decision to reschedule
They spent last weekend on the phone frantically re-organising their nuptials, due to be held at Strawberry Hill House in Richmond, south west London, because they were concerned about the risk it could pose to their parents and elderly relatives who are in the high risk category for catching coronavirus.
Salman, 35, told MyLondon: ‘We were really excited about it…We were preparing for the wedding, we had just booked the cake, Anna had got her dress. We booked the string quartet and a DJ.
‘Slowly this coronavirus was creeping and creeping up and at first we had a discussion, should we postpone the wedding? At that moment it was a month ago, only a small handful of cases here in the UK. But in the last week everything kicked off.
‘Unfortunately the peak is slap bang when we’d have our wedding. We have got family, relatives who are in the higher risk category… It would be such a shame if they couldn’t come.’
The couple got engaged in Spain in September last year but were worried about the health of their older relatives if they went ahead with their May wedding. Pictured: Anna after the surprise proposal
He added that ‘a cloud of fear’ was gathering over what was supposed to be the happiest time of their lives.
It’s likely the couple, both former journalists, will also have to abandon their planned hen and stag dos. Anna was due to be heading to Spain while Salman was looking forward to a London pub crawl.
Luckily Salman and Anna have managed to reschedule their big day for September, by which point they hope the UK will be over the worst.
The venue has been very accommodating and allowed them to move the dates, as has the registrar and suit hire company.
‘Fingers crossed we don’t have to postpone it again,’ Salman told FEMAIL.
He also expressed his wish to thank Strawberry Hill House and Madeleine’s cakes, as well as Richmond Council for their help and support.
Meanwhile Lauren and Tom, from London, booked a barn-style venue back in April 2019 – near to where the bride-to-be grew up – and are still unsure whether their dream day will go ahead.
Lauren and Tom, from London, are still unsure whether their dream wedding in a barn-style venue will go ahead on May 2
‘The process of planning the wedding has been loads of fun – family and friends have been really involved in the process, invites have gone out, dresses and suits bought, a ridiculous amount of decorations made – many personalised with the May 2020 date. To be honest, everything has gone without a hitch… until now,’ explained Lauren.
‘We first heard about coronavirus at the start of the year, but thought nothing more of it. Then the stories started getting worse and the paranoia set in.’
The couple’s final wedding planning meeting took place a few days after the worst stories about coronavirus came out – and Lauren says the venue have been very reassuring.
‘They’ve said they wanted to go full steam ahead until they heard otherwise,’ said Lauren. ‘We asked about postponing but were told that wasn’t possible for the time-being – they’d only cancel if the government said they had to.’
‘A few days on and our stag and hen do have been cancelled (and we assume the same for our honeymoon abroad).’
‘We’re also guessing the wedding won’t be going ahead. We intend to speak to the venue again very shortly.’
While the couple fortunately have insurance, they are left unsure as to how much this will cover, or whether suppliers will be available at a later date.
‘It’s the not knowing that makes it worse,’ said Lauren. ‘When should we even reschedule it for, if we can? We’ll never get this time back and it’s ruined what is meant to be one of the happiest times of our lives.’
And Holly Eason and her fiancé, who have been planning their April wedding in their hometown of Tokyo, have had to cancel everything due to risk of guests being exposed to infection.
‘I couldn’t forgive myself if our celebration became the cause of a serious health condition,’ Holly said, speaking to the BBC.
‘I’m also worried that my dad and my brother wouldn’t be allowed to enter Japan. We just don’t know what the situation will be at the time and I wouldn’t want to go ahead without them being here.’
Her father Mike, who lives in Leciestershire, added the family are now struggling to get refunds and are looking to lose around £5,000.
Meanwhile, Saavan Nathwani and Risha Modi, from Harrow in London, told how in just one week, they were due to celebrate their dream wedding in Tuscany, Italy.
‘In a matter of one week, our world was turned upside down, when the outbreak in Italy was announced,’ said Risha, speaking to the publication.
‘We had been planning for this wedding for nearly six months. We both work full-time and even though it has been a stressful and bumpy road, the only thing that kept us going was knowing we would marry one another.’
Saavan Nathwani and Risha Modi (pictured), from Harrow in London, were looking forward to their holiday in Tuscany