DIY SOS viewers left in tears as team help mother whose ex-military husband died of a rare cancer

DIY SOS viewers were left in tears after the team transformed the home of a grieving mother whose husband died of a rare cancer before he could finish their home renovations. 

Last night’s emotional episode, which aired on BBC One, saw presenter Nick Knowles joined by designer Gabrielle Blackman, their team of builders and decorators, plus volunteers from the local community. 

The team met Lindsey McAuley, a midwife from Kettering, Northamptonshire, whose husband Shaun died around six weeks after being diagnosed with an aggressive cancer last year. 

Former soldier Shaun had been intent on finishing their renovation work but tragically passed away before he could complete the project – leaving Lindsey and her four children unable to live in the property. 

The mother-of-four, who had two children with Shaun and two from a previous marriage, revealed that one of the last things her husband said to her was: ‘Sorry I’m leaving you with such a mess’. 

Lindsay was over the moon with the renovation, and was particularly emotional that the team fulfilled Shaun’s wish of having a large kitchen (pictured after renovation) which could serve as the heart of the house

The mother-of-four, who had two children with Shaun and two from a previous marriage, revealed that one of the last things her husband said to her was: 'Sorry I'm leaving you with such a mess'

Lindsey McAuley, a midwife from Kettering, Northamptonshire, appeared on last night's DIY SOS on BBC One where she teared up at the memory of her late husband Shuan

The mother-of-four, who had two children with Shaun and two from a previous marriage, revealed that one of the last things her husband said to her was: ‘Sorry I’m leaving you with such a mess’

Lindsay met Shaun in 2016 through a dating app after Shaun had left the military where he served as a Royal Engineer for several years. 

‘He loved being in the military’, said Lindsay. ‘He did quite a few tours, he did Afghanistan, Ireland, Germany. He had so much passion for it but he left because a as family man he didn’t want people at home worrying if he was on tour.

‘He was compassionate, he was loving, he loved to love people, he just loved. He was just such a nice person to be around.’ 

Shaun instantly hit it off with Lindsay’s two daughters, with the mum revealing: ‘He was so good with them. He treated them so well. 

In just one week, the DIY SOS team managed to finish full renovations on the house, transforming the property from an 'uninhabitable' place to a stylish and comfortable family home. Pictured, the new living room

In just one week, the DIY SOS team managed to finish full renovations on the house, transforming the property from an ‘uninhabitable’ place to a stylish and comfortable family home. Pictured, the new living room 

Lindsay's bedroom was transformed into a stylish room complete with photographs of herself and her late husband dotted around the room in his memory

Lindsay’s bedroom was transformed into a stylish room complete with photographs of herself and her late husband dotted around the room in his memory 

The home, which was left with no running water or bathroom, was kitted out with a chic new upstairs bathroom

The home, which was left with no running water or bathroom, was kitted out with a chic new upstairs bathroom 

Lindsay's garden was totally transformed after the team renovated their house in just one week

Lindsay’s garden was totally transformed after the team renovated their house in just one week 

‘He loved them straight away, they love him straight away. It just felt really right from the beginning.’ 

The couple had their first baby together, Leo, in 2017 and soon after purchased their family home together, a modest two-bedroom house with two rooms on the ground floor. 

Lindsay and Shaun planned to extend the property, with the initial idea to have a builder work on the shell of the extension but for Shaun to fit the interior to save money. 

‘Once he started a project he was brilliant with it. He couldn’t wait to get started’, said Lindsay. 

The happy couple with their son  Leo and Lindsay's daughters from a previous relationship

Former soldier Shaun, pictured with Lindsay in hospital, had been diagnosed with a rare form of cancer after developing a urine infection and noticing a pain in his lower back

The happy couple with their son Leo and Lindsay’s daughters from a previous relationship (left). Former soldier Shaun, pictured with Lindsay in hospital, had been diagnosed with a rare form of cancer after developing a urine infection and noticing a pain in his lower back

The happy couple purchased their first home together in 2017 and planned to extend the property, with the initial idea to have a builder work on the shell of the extension but for Shaun to fit the interior to save money

The happy couple purchased their first home together in 2017 and planned to extend the property, with the initial idea to have a builder work on the shell of the extension but for Shaun to fit the interior to save money

The couple soon had their second son, Zac, but the pandemic meant their extension was continuously delayed. When the building work eventually began, the couple moved to Lindsay’s parents house.

However soon after starting renovations Shaun fell ill with a urine infection and doctors found a mass in his lower back.  

‘It just started off with a urine infection and a little bit of pain in his lower back’, said Lindsay. ‘When he first went to the doctors he felt okay. 

‘They found this mass and it was about four days after they found the mass he had really severe pain and ended up back in hospital, at that point we didn’t know what the mass was. 

After being diagnosed with a rare form of cancer and having the tumour removed, Shaun managed to make it home from hospital to celebrate his son Zac's first birthday

After being diagnosed with a rare form of cancer and having the tumour removed, Shaun managed to make it home from hospital to celebrate his son Zac’s first birthday 

However a couple of weeks later Shaun ended up back in hospital, where he celebrated his son Leo's birthday for the last time before passing away in November

However a couple of weeks later Shaun ended up back in hospital, where he celebrated his son Leo’s birthday for the last time before passing away in November 

‘A couple of weeks after that we found out it was a really rare cancer. It was just a massive shock, he was so well and fit and healthy someone who had never been ill before ever.’ 

Shaun had the tumour removed along with a kidney and a large part of his bowel, leaving him using a stoma. 

‘Shortly after Shaun had his operation he was desperate to get home for Zac’s first birthday’, explained Lindsay. ‘He made it home and then a couple of weeks later it was Leo’s birthday. 

‘Unfortunately he was in hospital for that, Leo visited him in hospital but unfortunately that was the last time he saw him.’ 

The family were informed that the cancer had spread to Shaun’s lungs and liver and was terminal. Doctors said that with chemotherapy, the dad would have a further 18 months to live.  

Former soldier Shaun had been intent on finishing their renovation work but tragically passed away before he could complete the project

Former soldier Shaun had been intent on finishing their renovation work but tragically passed away before he could complete the project

After Shaun's death, Lindsay was left with a home that had no kitchen, bathroom, running water or power and sent five months living out of suitcases at her mother's house

After Shaun’s death, Lindsay was left with a home that had no kitchen, bathroom, running water or power and sent five months living out of suitcases at her mother’s house

However a blockage in Shaun’s stoma meant his treatment was delayed, and the aggressive form of cancer spread so quickly that he died just two days after.  

Lindsay said: ‘One of the last things he said was, sorry i’m leaving you with such a mess. He became unwell at the end of September and he died on the tenth of November.’ 

After Shaun’s death, Lindsay was left with a home that had no kitchen, bathroom, running water or power and sent five months living out of suitcases at her mother’s house.  

In just one week, the DIY SOS team managed to finish full renovations on the house, transforming the property from an ‘uninhabitable’ place to a stylish and comfortable family home. 

Lindsay was over the moon with the renovation, and was particularly emotional that the team fulfilled Shaun’s wish of having a large kitchen which could serve as the heart of the house.  

Viewers were left in tears after the episode, with one writing: 'Such a wonderful build tonight for a wonderful family. Very much deserved'

Viewers were left in tears after the episode, with one writing: ‘Such a wonderful build tonight for a wonderful family. Very much deserved’

‘He would love this, she said. ‘He would absolutely love this. This would be his dream kitchen I think. It’s just better than we could have ever thought I can’t believe a week ago it was just a pile of mess.’ 

Viewers were left in tears after the episode, with one writing: ‘Such a wonderful build tonight for a wonderful family. Very much deserved’. 

‘Great episode of @DIYSOS . The DIY SOS team and the volunteers who help are just amazing This program always brings me to tears They make such a huge difference to lives of families’, wrote another. 

A third said: ‘Nick Knowles and team, fantastic programme tonight. I love what you do, in these dark times it’s fantastic to see what a team of fabulous people can do to change the whole world for one family in need of a helping hand at their darkest hour. Well done all.’ 

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