Half of moms feel stress of crafting a ‘perfect Christmas’

If you are experiencing mounting stress as the holiday season progresses, know that you are not alone.

As the nation advances through the festive season, 31 per cent of Americans find this time of the year ‘frantic’—and almost half of mothers feel the pressure of trying to craft the perfect Christmas, according to a new study.

The study, commissioned by the US Highbush Blueberry Council, a professional organization of blueberry growers, examines people’s stress levels and related behaviors during the holiday season.

Seasonal worries: As the nation advances through the festive season, 31 per cent of Americans find this time of the year ‘frantic’, according to a new study (stock picture)

Timeline: According to the study, holiday-induced stressed begins around December 13, worsens on average from December 18, and peaks at 2:05 pm on Christmas Day

Timeline: According to the study, holiday-induced stressed begins around December 13, worsens on average from December 18, and peaks at 2:05 pm on Christmas Day

It found that the ‘festive stress’ timeline extends throughout December, with initial bursts of holiday-related stress popping up around December 13 for the average respondent.

For anyone feeling less than on top of things, the turning point from mild to severe stress comes on December 18. It then peaks on Christmas Day at 2:05 pm, just as many families are sitting down to dinner. 

To keep pace with their chaotic schedules, an impressive 49 per cent of people turn to coffee, while one in six consume energy drinks.

Meanwhile, 74 per cent of people overload on snacks and treats to get them through. Comparatively, only a quarter turn to fruit for a burst of energy.

All this emotional eating can add up and create even more negative emotions, with 60 per cent of those polled saying they experience guilt for their eating habits over the holidays. 

In response to holiday-induced stress, some find themselves craving time alone. The average person takes five periods of ‘me time’ away from the festivities in a bid to re-energize, according to the study.

Caffeine: To keep pace with their chaotic schedules, an impressive 49 per cent of people turn to coffee, while one in six consume energy drinks

Caffeine: To keep pace with their chaotic schedules, an impressive 49 per cent of people turn to coffee, while one in six consume energy drinks

Perfectionist? The pressure to have a 'perfect Christmas' also takes its toll on 41 per cent of Americans, who confess to working 'too hard' to achieve it

Perfectionist? The pressure to have a ‘perfect Christmas’ also takes its toll on 41 per cent of Americans, who confess to working ‘too hard’ to achieve it

Relaxing: The average person takes five periods of 'me time' away from the festivities in a bid to re-energize, according to the study

Relaxing: The average person takes five periods of ‘me time’ away from the festivities in a bid to re-energize, according to the study

Tasks: For 56 per cent of people, anxiety-inducing activities include gift shopping. Crowds and lines also feature for 54 per cent of people, and cleaning for 45 per cent

Tasks: For 56 per cent of people, anxiety-inducing activities include gift shopping. Crowds and lines also feature for 54 per cent of people, and cleaning for 45 per cent

They might be particularly likely to take a break after one of the holiday activities they deem most stressful.

For 56 per cent of people, these anxiety-inducing activities include gift shopping. Crowds and lines also feature for 54 per cent of people, followed by cleaning (45 per cent), knowing what presents to buy (38 per cent), and cooking (36 per cent).

The pressure to have a ‘perfect Christmas’ also takes its toll on 41 per cent of Americans, who confess to working ‘too hard’ to achieve it. The percentage jumps to 49 per cent for mothers, who experience additional pressure to pull off a dreamy holiday gathering.

No wonder, then, that the findings showed that they struggle to stop and refuel properly. Six in ten moms say they find it hard to slow down and enjoy the festive season.

When Americans do find time to unwind, the most popular methods include listening to music (for 53 per cent of people), watching a favorite show or film (45 per cent), taking a nap (43 per cent) or enjoying a snack (42 per cent). 

WHAT ARE THE MOST STRESSFUL PARTS OF THE HOLIDAYS? 

 1. Gift shopping

2. Crowds and lines

3. Cleaning

4. Knowing what presents to buy

5. Cooking

6. Shopping for food

7. Deciding how much to spend on other people

8. Decorating

9. Wondering whether the kids will be happy with presents

10. Wrapping presents

11. Hosting

12. Family politics and making sure everyone is treated fairly 

 13. Working out how to visit everyone 

14. Deciding what kinds of food to prepare

 

 15. Picking a place to spend Christmas Day

16. Hearing constant Christmas music

17. Old arguments being brought up

18. Someone else drinking too much

19. Handling home repairs and upgrades

20. Deciding whether or not to put Christmas spending on the credit card

21. Having to work too much over the holiday (or having a partner in that situation)

22. Dealing with a partner who doesn’t help out enough when hosting people

23. Other people being too jolly

24. Having a new recipe turn out badly

25. Deciding whether to go out for Christmas dinner or stay at home

 

 

 Source: Study commissioned by the US Highbush Blueberry Council

 



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