A 50-year-old single mum of three from Melbourne said she had the best sex of her life with a man almost 30 years younger than her – after she left a note on the young man’s car.
Despite their 26-year age difference, Katie told FEMAIL the sex with the young tradie was ‘mind blowing’ – so much so that the menopausal mum said she will never have sex with older men again.
‘We met about 20 times and got hot and heavy in his ute each time,’ she said. ‘The chemistry was electric. My age didn’t faze him, in fact, he said it was the biggest turn on for him. The sex was the best I have ever had. I felt like a teenager again.’
Katie saw the handsome stranger every morning on the daily commute to work in their suburb on the outskirts of Melbourne.
‘This gorgeous guy would get on my train, and I was memorised by how handsome he was, how young and fit he was, with dark skin, and tradie overalls. I knew I had to talk to him,’ she said.
A woman, 50, left this note on a young tradie’s ute with her phone number after he caught her eye on the train. He swiftly replied and they engaged in a three-month steamy affair
Despite their 26-year age difference, Katie told Samantha X (pictured) that the sex with the young tradie was ‘mind blowing’ – so much so that the menopausal mum said she will never have sex with older men again
After watching him for a week, she wrote a note with her number and carefully slid it behind the wipers of his ute. ‘If this is the hot tradie, I would really like to know your name. I have seen you on the train a few times.’
Hours later, she got a response from the lucky tradie: ‘Hahahaha so what made you leave a note, how’d you know it was my car?’.
Katie went onto say she had been with older men, and it was ‘boring’ and she was looking for something casual and fun.
‘I told him I was 50, thinking that might put him off. But he said he just wanted me more and that he loved older women.’
The pair met up two days later.
Hours later, she got a response from the lucky tradie
‘It was instant attraction. We got hot and heavy in his ute. The sex was mind-blowing,’ she said.
It was the first encounter of many, with the fling lasting months. And it wasn’t just meet ups in the car park; the frisky duo exchanged up to 300 texts and regular phone sex during their steamy encounter.
‘I felt alive again, I felt reborn, I felt powerful,’ said Katie, who works as a cleaner for a local hospital. ‘I couldn’t believe a young handsome man would ever want to be with an older woman, but I was wrong.’
Katie’s love life had been dead for five years. After marrying at 21, having three kids, and a divorce at 37, her only lover after was had a man two years her senior. They dated on and off for years, but Katie said she was bored.
‘He was old beyond his years, he kept whinging about his ex, and he had more issues than a weekly magazine. He’d let himself go in the looks department and sex was always over before it started. There was no foreplay, no exploring each other’s bodies.’
They met up two days later. ‘It was instant attraction. We got hot and heavy in his ute. The sex was mind-blowing,’ she said.
After they called it quits, Katie resigned herself to the fact that at 50, she was over the hill and past it.
‘I thought that was it, I was closed for business. I was lonely and my only outlet was watching movies on a Saturday night alone. I had no confidence, and my self-esteem was the lowest it had been ever.’
It wasn’t until she invested in a sex toy that the single mum started to explore her own body. With her self-discovery, her sexual desire came back – and that’s when she spotted the handsome stranger on the train.
Sadly, their fling ended after three months, with the tradie admitting he was in an unhappy relationship at home. ‘He thought I was going to blow up and ruin his life, but I’m a grown-up woman. I got what I wanted, so did he. I didn’t want to pursue anything deeper, and I certainly don’t need the drama.’
Katie’s message to women over 50 is that ‘your life isn’t over’. ‘Put yourself out there. Don’t be scared. There are lots of young men out there that would jump into bed with you and make you feel desired again.’
Katie is now on the hunt for younger lovers and jokes ‘as long as it’s legal, they’re never too young.’
‘I’d never go back to older men. Having sex with a younger man gave me the confidence to now approach more younger men. I felt appreciated, desired and wanted – whereas with older men I felt everything was on their terms. I’m single, I don’t want a boyfriend, I am not desperate, and I am not dead. My sex life is just beginning.’
Katie’s message to women over 50 is that ‘your life isn’t over’.
‘Put yourself out there. Don’t be scared. There are lots of young men out there that would jump into bed with you and make you feel desired again.’
Here are Katie’s 3 reasons why older women should only date younger men:
1) Younger men are more adventurous. They enjoy foreplay and last longer in bed. Plus it’s never a one hit wonder.
2) There’s more banter with younger men, more humour and they’re playful. They understand it’s just sex and they’re happy to let you get on with your life afterwards.
3) They have respect and admiration for older women and love the way older women have more confidence in bed.