A woman has revealed that she’s in a three-way relationship with her boyfriend and another woman, despite the fact her strict Catholic parents would disown her if they found out.
Priscilla Soares, 25, from Bridgeport, Connecticut, had long dreamed of getting married and having children, and never considered a polygamous relationship before meeting real estate investor and travel vlogger Jak, 26, whose real name is Stephen Bolden, in March 2017.
Jak doesn’t believe in monogamy and thinks if he wants something, he should have it, as long as it makes him and anyone else involved happy.
Having dated for almost two years, they added Pamela Dejesus, 21, into their relationship in February 2019 and the three of them now travel the world together.
But despite his girlfriend’s initial reservations, Jak insists the set-up has actually improved their relationship, saying: ‘The strength of our relationship grew because our personal foundations were rooted in a truer understanding of who we are and what we want.’
Priscilla Soares, 25, from Bridgeport, Connecticut, dreamed of getting married and having children before she met travel vlogger Jak, 26, whose real name is Stephen Bolden, in March 2017. The two invited Pamela Dejesus, 21, into their relationship in February 2019 (pictured left, Pam, and right Pri)
Jak argues the setup allows them all to ‘be who we are’ as well as providing them with ‘more money’ and a deeper understanding of themselves (pictured, Pam, Jak and Pri on the Amalfi Coast)
Priscilla had long-dreamed of getting married and having children in a monogamous relationship before she met Jak, who has always believed in open relationships (pictured together)
Jak took vacations every month and was always upfront with Priscilla about the variety of women he bedded and his strong desire for multiple sexual experiences with multiple women.
He believes he has a higher purpose and part of that purpose is to pursue his passions, one of which is women.
Priscilla and Jak travelled the world together and shared many new experiences and over time, heterosexual Priscilla found herself experimenting in three-way sexual experiences with Jak and other women.
Jak said: ‘I played the role of the leader, provider, creator and Pri played the role of the nurturer, homemaker and supportive loving energy.
Jak believes one of his higher purposes in life is to pursue his passions, one of which is women (pictured left to right Pam, Jak and Pri)
Priscilla suggested Jak had always been ‘upfront’ about his desire not to be monogamous, with the pair dating for two years before inviting Pamella to join their relationship (pictured left to right, Jak, Pri and Pam)
‘The dynamic of our relationship was essentially that we were free of boundaries or limitations and could do what we pleased as long as we were safe, honest and clear in our communications and intentions.’
He went on: ‘Pri’s preference was investing her love into one man, while being open to meeting and exploring sexual relationships with females.
‘I was focused on my businesses and my perceived higher purpose; my philosophy was to pursue my passion and accept whatever crossed my path as long as it added in some way to my mission.’
Meanwhile Priscilla also explained how their relationship dynamic worked in the beginning, saying: ‘If he happened to meet a woman that, by his standard, was attractive, positive and progressive, there was no good reason to inhibit an emotional or sexual relationship forming.’
The couple started dating women together before Jak met Pamela in February 2019, who had also come from a strict heterosexual background (pictured, Pri, Jak and Pam in Venice)
Jack said he doesn’t believe in ‘falling in love’ but instead argues it as ‘a choice’ to form deep emotional bonds with other people (pictured Pri, Jak, Pam in Interlaken)
‘Jak was upfront about having no desire to be monogamous so the bond between us continued to grow despite his intimate relationships with other females.’
She continued: ‘Throughout our first two years of being together, he would explore relationships with other girls. If they were sexually stimulating, we would enjoy them together on a playful basis.
‘Eventually we began seeing if it would make sense to take it further than that and started dating women together.’
In February 2019 Jak met Pamela, who is also from a strict heterosexual background, having been friends with her on Facebook for a while.
Pamella was the first woman that the couple found they were both ‘physically, emotionally and mentally’ attracted to (pictured, Pri, Jak and Pam)
Jak says the throuple are ‘just growing and experiencing life’ together (pictured, Pri, Jak and Pam pictured together)
He began dating and sleeping with Pamela and naturally wanted his experimental girlfriend to meet her and for the three of them to go to bed.
Both Jak and Pri were attracted to Pam on more than a sexual level, finding themselves drawn to her personality too, they all formed a bond and within three months had ‘chosen’ to walk into a loving, three-way relationship with her.
The throuple argue the newly formed relationship provides them all with more financial stability, more creative ideas for ways to work and more people to join together in providing for each other as well as more bodies to have fun with.
While Jak and Pri were content with their sexually explorative relationship, all three feel they did not find true happiness until they bonded together as a trio.
Both of the women believed in monogamy, and identified as heterosexual before they met Jak and fell for him (pictured together in Venice)
Travel vlogger Jak argues humans should ‘eat from every fruit bearing tree the world blesses us with’
Jak explained: ‘We’re not so sure there’s a such thing as falling in love. People say they ‘love’ people and in reality are in toxic, terrible relationships.’
‘We believe love is a choice. It’s a door we choose to walk through, not something we fall into.
‘Pam was the first woman that we were both physically, emotionally and mentally attracted to that also met all of the criteria that both of us had for a potential life partner, she was the one who fully solidified the fact that we were indeed “polyamorous”.
‘We were just growing and experiencing life; seeking new references and diving deeper into the mystery of discovering who we really are.
The throuple say they don’t believe in falling in love, and instead ‘choose’ to be in love every day because they are a ‘stronger force together’
The trio believe their way of life is the key to happiness for them, despite Pri and Pam’s families not knowing about their relationship
‘Once Pam came into the picture we had found our destination.’
Jak said he believes the set up has actually improved their relationship, explaining: ‘None of us care for labels. This dynamic is simply what resonates with our spirit. We all feel more fulfilled in this kind of relationship than any other we have experienced.
‘This is a situation that puts you in a better position to grow and develop rather than forcing us to deny innate tendencies and desires in our psyche.
‘Better sex, more money, more minds and ideas in the mix and more hands to do the work.
Priscilla’s family ‘barely know anything’ about her lifestyle, because she fears she would be ‘disowned just for coming out as queer’ (pictured, with Pam)
‘We developed much better communication, higher capacities of trust, understanding and forgiveness and to better balance our expenditure of time, energy and emotion.
‘We choose to be in love every day, because we are a stronger force together and happier than apart.’
Now they explore the world and explore how a three-way relationship promotes and stimulates mental growth.
The trio believe their way of life is the key to happiness for some, with Pamela saying: ‘Polyamory/non-monogamy isn’t a new weird thing. It’s in our nature.
Priscilla keeps her relationship secret from her family because her parents ‘aren’t open to homosexuality’
‘It’s in the animal kingdom. It’s part of our history. It’s honestly a natural and beautifully empowering way of life.’
‘We don’t limit ourselves based on arbitrary conditions and we are able to continue to explore the things that peak our interest without fear of judgement or guilt.’
But despite how happy they are together as a throuple, they feel forced to keep their relationship a secret from Priscilla’s family, with Jak saying: ‘Pri’s family barely know anything because we know her parents won’t accept it and she will be disowned just for coming out as queer.
Having invited Pamella into his relationship with Priscilla, Jak believes love ‘does not and should not have rules’
‘Pri’s parents aren’t open to homosexuality or anything but the Catholic Church. Love does not and should not have rules.’
He added: ‘See and experience life. Eat from every fruit bearing tree the world blesses us with.
‘The earlier you start believing in yourself and forming good habits, the better your chances of having a positive impact on society and living a fulfilled life are.’