A dating coach has claimed that women who look and sound expensive are less likely to have men interested in pursuing them — and ‘that’s OK.’
Nelly Sudri, 28, a matchmaker in Beverly Hills, California, has nearly 785,000 followers on TikTok, where she shares dating advice for ‘high value singles.’
The content creator, known as @ask.nelly, went viral after detailing why exceptional women have a harder time finding men who want to pursue them.
‘Ladies, the more expensive you look and the more expensive you sound… the smaller your dating pool is going to be,’ she said.
Nelly Sudri, 28, is a dating coach and matchmaker in Beverly Hills, California, who works with ‘high value singles’


The content creator, known as @ask.nelly, went viral on TikTok after detailing why women who look and sound ‘expensive’ have a smaller dating pool
Sudri explained that it can be anything from your education and worldliness to your luxurious designer wardrobe that makes you come off as expensive.
‘You know who you are, by the way, if you’re in this category,’ she noted.
‘A lot of men, while they might pursue you for their own personal ego validation, will have a hard time committing to you because your presence makes them feel insecure.’
This is because ‘men are hardwired to be providers,’ according to the dating expert.
‘If they see someone like you, they might feel like, “I can’t provide anything for her that she doesn’t already have,” or “I can’t impress her the way I can impress a woman who doesn’t have all those things,”‘ she said.
‘So they will go for a girl who makes them feel a lot more in their masculine energy and sometimes it’s not about you. It’s just about them and their own complex.’
Sudri went on to compare dating a high-value woman to buying a new Bugatti, which costs $1 million or more, depending on the model.
‘Bugattis are beautiful, luxury, expensive cars, but there’s a reason not a lot of people walk into that dealership,’ she explained.


Sudri claimed that a lot of men have a hard time committing to these types of women because their ‘presence makes them feel insecure’

Sudri went on to compare dating a high-value woman to buying a new Bugatti. ‘There’s a reason not a lot of people walk into that dealership,’ she explained
‘Not a lot of people can afford them, and even the people who can afford them sometimes feel insecure about the fact that someone could steal the car, or they don’t want to drive around something that flashy.
‘So I’m not saying turn yourself into a Toyota or a Benz,’ she added, ‘but don’t be surprised when not lot of people walk into your dealership if you’re giving out that expensive vibe.’
‘Hold out for the right customer,’ she advised, writing in the caption: ‘Not everyone can afford you and that’s OK.’
Sudri’s video has been viewed 2.8 million times and has received more than 3,000 comments in less than a week.
‘My dating pool is a teacup. I dress very classy, upscale, not too revealing, am fit, and take care of myself. No men ever approach me or talk to me!’ one woman griped.

The dating coach said that expensive women need to ‘hold out for the right customer’










Sudri’s video has been viewed 2.8 million times and has received more than 3,000 comments in less than a week. Many women said they could relate to what she said
‘A guy told me I look expensive before and I literally only wear sweat sets,’ someone else shared.
‘Be expensive! Men should choose their price range and stay in their lane,’ another responded.
Others insisted that there are benefits to knowing your worth and waiting for the right partner.
‘It’s a good thing to have that small dating pool. It means you are keeping a high standard,’ one viewer argued.
‘I came to peace with this. I will never lower my standards for anyone anymore. Been there, done that — it’s not worth it,’ someone else commented.
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