Many guys often make mistakes that they are not aware of. What seems like an indisputable truth or a sweet saying can only cause irritation and make women move away from their partners. Here are some of the most common things that really spoil your union.
Too frequent compliments
Some men sometimes overdo it with compliments thinking that women love with ears. It is unnecessary to remind your beloved about how beautiful she is every hour. At a minimum, the woman will decide that the partner doesn’t attach importance to the words. As a maximum, she may think that a man is not able to show attention differently.
Introducing to parents
Acquaintance with parents should ideally occur when you both are dear to each other. Typically, such a meeting can be held after several months after you start dating, not when you find someone and want to introduce each of them to parents after a few dates.
Talking about money
Any statements of men about their own finances, as a rule, cause women either boredom or annoyance. If he tirelessly talks about how much he makes, it looks like a banal boast and a desire to attract a girl exclusively with his own means. If a man, on the contrary, complains about the prices in the cafe and his low salary, the woman will instantly want to run away from him. Regardless of the size of the partner’s wallet, a girl doesn’t need to know everything about him at least at the beginning of a relationship.
“Random” messages
Sometimes there are moments when the game of silence is dragged on, and it’s time to write to your girlfriend. Then the guys send supposedly random messages. However, as experts say, it doesn’t happen just like that. It is better to call your woman than to puzzle her with such games.
Talking about exes
Just one question: why? And it’s not even about watching exes’ photos on social media or calling your woman to spend time together. It’s especially annoying when you start comparing your current girlfriend with her like “but my ex cooked better” or “my ex’s mother treated me better than yours”. Firstly, such comparisons will not lead to anything good. It is unlikely that the girl will compete with your past love in various skills. Secondly, you can be sent back to the often mentioned ex because if you put her as an example, then you think she is better.
Conviction that a woman must
There is a category of men whose women are more like slaves. They never help them clean the house or in raising a child because this is a “female” job. It is normal if a man fully provides for the family and really gets tired more than a woman. But when a man watches football or goes to a bar with friends, and a woman who is tired after work makes a lot of things, this will not lead to anything good.
Dependence on a mother
Each girl wants to see in you an adult and independent person who knows how to solve problems, without calling a mom. Sounds rude but this is reality. Another important point: you shouldn’t let your mother into your little world with a girl. Yes, your parents may not like her, but you live with her anyway. So, the most advantageous position is to try to make them friends. If your attempts failed, then, at least minimize their communication for your own peace of mind.
Constant complaints
If you complain about life, about the ex, about the boss all the time, then you can forget about love from girls. She wants to see a man next to her. If you whine all the time, then urgently get rid of this habit. Otherwise, the girl will simply leave you. You have to be strong. You are a man!