The Bachelorette’s Ali Oetjen told a friend she was ‘f**ked up’ and ‘didn’t know what she was doing’ on the night she allegedly cheated on her ex-boyfriend Grant Kemp.
Daily Mail Australia has obtained bombshell text messages Ali, 32, sent to Sabrina Jaragosky-Hicks that show her apparent desperation the morning after the incident.
Sabrina claims she was with Grant when they both allegedly walked in on Ali receiving oral sex from another man on his staircase. The supposed cheating incident happened at Grant’s LA home in March this year.
EXCLUSIVE: ‘I was so f**ked up and don’t know what I was doing’: More bombshell text messages have emerged from the day after Ali Oetjen ‘cheated on her ex-boyfriend in LA’
In a text message sent on March 13, Sabrina asked Ali, ‘Yo, are you okay and safe?’
Ali then replied: ‘I’m in a hotel room and [Grant] doesn’t want to see me so I’ve booked a flight home tomorrow night.
‘I was so f**ked up and don’t know what I was doing. I hate myself for losing the one man I love more than I’ve loved anyone. Thanks for asking.’
Sabrina responded: ‘He will come around I’m sure.’
Later on, Ali wrote: ‘It was a horrible night… I don’t want to lose him.’
Witness: Daily Mail Australia has obtained texts Ali sent to Sabrina Jaragosky-Hicks (pictured) that show her apparent desperation the morning after the incident. Sabrina claims she was with Grant when they both allegedly walked in on Ali receiving oral sex from another man
Regrets: In a text message sent on March 13, Sabrina asked Ali, ‘Yo, are you okay and safe?’ Ali replied: ‘I’m in a hotel room and [Grant] doesn’t want to see me so I’ve booked a flight home tomorrow night. I was so f**ked up and don’t know what I was doing’
Dumped: Later on, Ali wrote to Sabrina: ‘It was a horrible night… I don’t want to lose him’
It’s over! The following day, on March 14, Ali texted Sabrina asking: ‘What did he [Grant] say? I’m leaving tonight and he doesn’t want to see me.’ Sabrina replied: ‘He’s done’
The following day, on March 14, Ali texted Sabrina asking: ‘What did he [Grant] say? I’m leaving tonight and he doesn’t want to see me.’
Sabrina, who presumably had spoken to Grant, replied: ‘He’s done’.
It comes after Daily Mail Australia published corroborative text messages exchanged between Ali and Grant on the night of the alleged cheating.
In a series of SMS conversations leaked last month, the account manager begged for forgiveness and claimed there was ‘no excuse’ for her behaviour.
‘I wasn’t even functioning babe!’ It comes after Daily Mail Australia published corroborative text messages exchanged between Ali and Grant on the night of the alleged cheating. Pictured on Bachelor In Paradise in 2017
The supposed incident took place in March, after Ali flew to Los Angeles to visit her then-boyfriend Grant, 29.
The couple fell in love on Bachelor in Paradise, which was filmed in 2017 and aired in early 2018.
At the time of the ‘cheating’ scandal, they were in the middle of a long-distance relationship, with Ali living in Adelaide and Grant based in America.
In happier times: The couple fell in love on Bachelor in Paradise back in 2017 (pictured), before splitting in March amid sensational claims of infidelity
Speaking with The Kyle and Jackie O Show in May, Grant said of the alleged incident: ‘I had left to go and find my friends. I came back inside [my house] and a man was going down on her on my stairs. So I kicked her out that night.’
Ali previously described Grant’s accusations as ‘horrible’, but has not denied them.
However, the text messages obtained by Daily Mail Australia appeared to verify Grant’s version of events.
‘There’s no excuses’: One of the texts supposedly showed Grant confronting Ali over her ‘infidelity’. She did not deny anything and responded, ‘I wasn’t even functioning, babe’
The text messages highlighted Ali’s apparent desperation in the moments after Grant supposedly he caught her engaging in a sex act with another man on his staircase.
‘I can’t even walk up those f**king stairs again without thinking of that. So f**k no, not seeing u (sic),’ wrote Grant.
Ali then replied: ‘I wasn’t even functioning babe, there’s no excuses! And I understand we’re over but we should talk’.
In another screenshot, Ali expressed concern that Grant had made an attempt to contact one of her friends.
‘How could you? I’m a good person,’ she wrote, to which Grant responded, ‘Oh f**k off, I walked in on you [receiving oral sex from] my homie in my own house,’ before blocking her.
‘I’m a good person’: In another screenshot, Ali expressed concern that Grant had made an attempt to contact one of her friends
Begging for forgiveness: Later in the exchange, Ali wrote: ‘Baby, you know this is not my character to do something like this’
Elsewhere in the exchange, Ali wrote: ‘Baby, you know this is not my character to do something like this’.
‘Doesn’t f**king matter you did it, on a Monday,’ Grant swiftly replied. Ali then begged him: ‘Pls baby, can I take it back pls’.
The text messages also alluded to problems in Grant and Ali’s relationship in the weeks leading up to their break-up.
‘I was not in my right mind that night, we should have never gone out partying when we were so emotional and disconnected,’ she wrote.
‘I was not in my right mind’: The text messages also alluded to problems in Grant and Ali’s relationship in the weeks leading up to their break-up
The screenshots also featured texts in which Ali begged to see Grant again before she leaves America.
‘I’m staying here. Do u never want to see me again? Baby, you know last night was messed up! It’s not me!!!!! It’s not me!! Pls baby, I can’t go without seeing you’, Ali pleaded.
‘I can’t believe this has happened. Me and you were meant to be it! Pls give me a second chance?’
Daily Mail Australia has contacted Channel 10 and Ali Oetjen for comment.
‘Can we pls talk’: The screenshots also featured texts in which Ali begged to see Grant again before she leaves America
Not on good terms: In the lead up to The Bachelorette’s season premiere, Ali claimed she ‘felt sorry’ for her former flame and accused him of using her name to stay in the headlines
In the lead up to The Bachelorette’s season premiere, Ali claimed she ‘felt sorry’ for her former flame and accused him of using her name to stay in the headlines.
Speaking to Mamamia last month, she said: ‘What Grant is saying about me is just horrible. If you have an ex saying stuff about what you discussed in your relationship – someone that you trusted – and now it’s out there, it’s not very nice.’
Ali added that she had ‘definitely’ moved on from Grant.
‘It’s really annoying,’ she said. ‘I feel like he’s just someone who’s trying to ride this wave and get his name in the headlines all the time and he’s succeeding.’
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‘It’s not very nice’: Ali previously described Grant’s accusations as ‘horrible’, but has not denied them. Pictured on Bachelor In Paradise in 2017