RHOC’s Tamra Judge loses her cool at best friend Shannon Beador on her birthday after hurt feelings

They’re the longtime best friends who have continued to share a strong bond on The Real Housewives of Orange County.

But Tamra Judge and Shannon Beader’s friendship may now be on the rocks after Monday night’s episode. 

All there to enjoy a day of golf to celebrate Shannon turning 54, the longtime BFF’s got into a huge fight that saw the birthday girl storm off in tears. 

 

She's had enough: RHOC's Tamra Judge lost her cool at best friend Shannon Beador on her birthday after hurt feelings on Monday night's episode

She’s had enough: RHOC’s Tamra Judge lost her cool at best friend Shannon Beador on her birthday after hurt feelings on Monday night’s episode

‘Too bad,’ said Tamara when her co-star Kelly Dodd pointed out that she had upset Shannon. 

‘This is so typical of Shannon. Shannon’s really good at making situations about her. Too bad.’ 

The spat that saw all the co-stars get worked up came about following last week’s episode when Shannon opened up about her bitter divorce from her ex David.

Doesn't care: 'Too bad,' said Tamara when her co-star Kelly Dodd pointed out that she had upset Shannon

Doesn’t care: ‘Too bad,’ said Tamara when her co-star Kelly Dodd pointed out that she had upset Shannon

No sympathy: 'This is so typical of Shannon. Shannon's really good at making situations about her. Too bad' 

No sympathy: ‘This is so typical of Shannon. Shannon’s really good at making situations about her. Too bad’ 

Hitting her where it hurts: The spat that saw all the co-stars get worked up came about following last week's episode when Shannon opened up about her bitter divorce from her ex David

Hitting her where it hurts: The spat that saw all the co-stars get worked up came about following last week’s episode when Shannon opened up about her bitter divorce from her ex David

After she had heard that Emily’s husband, Shane, had asked Gina Kirschenheiter to leave his house as she was being too loud when the kids were trying to sleep, she said his behavior reminded her of how her ex had treated her. 

‘When you were talking about that he was yelling or something, “get out of my house” or whatever, I could see that happen in my marriage,’ she said to the group minus Emily. 

‘I walked on eggshells around him because he would be upset if there was loud noise when the kids were trying to go to sleep.’  

Talking behind her back: But by the time the comments and discussion got back to Emily, she took it as the girl's thought Shane was 'absusive'

Talking behind her back: But by the time the comments and discussion got back to Emily, she took it as the girl’s thought Shane was ‘absusive’

Is she to blame? Gina was the one who told Emily about the group's discussion regarding her husband

Is she to blame? Gina was the one who told Emily about the group's discussion regarding her husband

Is she to blame? Gina was the one who told Emily about the group’s discussion regarding her husband 

Turning to mom: Earlier in the episode, the blonde beauty revealed her frustrations towards the birthday girl as she opted not to turn to her for help on her health and fitness journey

Turning to mom: Earlier in the episode, the blonde beauty revealed her frustrations towards the birthday girl as she opted not to turn to her for help on her health and fitness journey

But by the time the comments and discussion got back to Emily, she took it as the girl’s thought Shane was ‘abusive’.

And while the entire cast, who were all quite intoxicated, appeared to be caught up on how it got back to Emily and who it was who called Shane ‘abusive’, things were already on the rocks between Tamra and Shannon.

Earlier in the episode, the blonde beauty revealed her frustrations towards the birthday girl as she opted not to turn to her for help on her health and fitness journey. 

Friendship on the rocks: 'It actually makes me mad. She sees the healthy lifestyle that we live. Instead I'm going with her to pick out gym equipment and she's hiring some trainer. We have trainers - we have one who can come to your house if you want. I just wish that she would trust me'

Friendship on the rocks: ‘It actually makes me mad. She sees the healthy lifestyle that we live. Instead I’m going with her to pick out gym equipment and she’s hiring some trainer. We have trainers – we have one who can come to your house if you want. I just wish that she would trust me’

New hobby: The cast all went golfing for Shannon's birthday 

New hobby: The cast all went golfing for Shannon’s birthday 

Safe to drive? All enjoying a few drinks, they tested each other's abilities to drive the golf buggy by breath testing each other 

Safe to drive? All enjoying a few drinks, they tested each other’s abilities to drive the golf buggy by breath testing each other 

Speaking with her mom, Tamra said: ‘I wish Shannon would talk to me.’ 

‘It actually makes me mad. She sees the healthy lifestyle that we live. Instead I’m going with her to pick out gym equipment and she’s hiring some trainer. We have trainers – we have one who can come to your house if you want. I just wish that she would trust me.’

‘I take a lot with Shannon,’ she continued venting to her mom Sandy. 

Putting her fitness first: And although Tamra did feel neglected in the friendship, Shannon did in fact get inspired by her and hire her own trainer to push the 40 pounds she recently gained

Putting her fitness first: And although Tamra did feel neglected in the friendship, Shannon did in fact get inspired by her and hire her own trainer to push the 40 pounds she recently gained

Fitness journey: 'I want my stomach to go in further than my boobs. That's my goal,' she told her male trainer, adding that she didn't feel comfortable or confident to go out and date being the weight she was

Fitness journey: ‘I want my stomach to go in further than my boobs. That’s my goal,’ she told her male trainer, adding that she didn’t feel comfortable or confident to go out and date being the weight she was

‘There’s a lot of dumping on me and telling me what’s going on and there’s a lot of negativity. I get off the phone and I’m drained. She never asks, “How’s Eddie doing? What’s going on?” She never asks. She doesn’t care.’ 

And although Tamra did feel neglected in the friendship, Shannon did in fact get inspired by her and hire her own trainer to push the 40 pounds she recently gained. 

‘I want my stomach to go in further than my boobs. That’s my goal,’ she told her male trainer, adding that she didn’t feel comfortable or confident to go out and date being the weight she was.  

The Real Housewives of Orange County will return next Monday at 9pm ET on Bravo.

The drama continues: The Real Housewives of Orange County will return next Monday at 9pm ET on Bravo

The drama continues: The Real Housewives of Orange County will return next Monday at 9pm ET on Bravo

 

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