‘All eyes on you, you have become the punchline… again’: Tammin Sursok writes a letter to her ‘fat’ 13-year-old self as she shares an unrecognisable throwback snap from her youth
Tammin Sursok has penned a heartbreaking open letter addressed to her ‘fat’ 13-year-old self, offering a glimpse into her traumatic school days.
The 35-year-old actress, best known for playing Jenna Marshall on Pretty Little Liars, also shared a rare throwback photo of herself as an overweight teenager.
Tammin’s emotional letter, which was posted to Instagram, referenced several real-life incidents from her youth – including being humiliated by a boy she had a crush on, mocked at the swimming pool and bullied by a female classmate.
‘You have become the punchline… again’: Tammin Sursok has penned a heartbreaking letter addressed to her ‘fat’ 13-year-old self, offering a glimpse into her traumatic school days
After sharing these distressing memories, Tammin concluded the 600-word letter by reassuring her teenage self that she will eventually reach a healthy weight and discover the power of self-confidence.
‘Things won’t happen overnight, you won’t feel resilient right away, most of the time you will walk through your life feeling stuck,’ she wrote.
‘But I’m here, standing on the sidelines, looking at you, my 13-year-old self, and I want you to know you’re going to be more than okay.’
All’s well that ends well: Tammin concluded the letter by reassuring her teenage self that she will eventually reach a healthy weight and discover the power of self-confidence. Pictured with her daughters earlier this year
Body battles: In October 2016, Tammin told New Idea that she was once obsessed with her looks after ‘weighing 95 kilos at 14’. Pictured left: Tammin aged 14, and right: Tammin aged 33
In October 2016, Tammin told New Idea magazine that she was once obsessed with her looks after ‘weighing 95 kilos at 14’.
But becoming a mother for the first time in 2013 changed her attitude to weight.
‘The minute I had my daughter [Phoenix], I stopped caring about what everyone thought about me. I used to be really obsessed with my image – I fixated on it a lot,’ she said.
‘I really struggled with the first two years [after giving birth]. I felt really lost, I didn’t know which way was up. I was exhausted. I wasn’t eating, I wasn’t taking care of myself.’
Blast from the past! Tammin launched her career on Australian soap Home and Away. Pictured on the show with fellow actress Bec Hewitt (née Cartwright)
Several years ago, Tammin shared another lengthy Instagram post reflecting on her weight struggles as a teenager.
She posted a photo of herself aged 14, alongside the inspirational caption: ‘For all of you being bullied out there. This is me.
‘Growing up, I was overweight and spent most of my adolescence being bullied because of it.
‘I definitely wasn’t the popular girl but it didn’t define me. You can be anything you want to be in your life. It’s your choice which path you take.’
‘The minute I had my daughter, I stopped caring about what everyone thought about me’: Tammin has previously said that becoming a mother in 2013 changed her attitude to weight and body image. Pictured with her daughter Phoenix in 2016
‘Don’t let other people’s words give you your self worth. You are beautiful. I was beautiful. It just took me a long time to love myself,’ she concluded.
Tammin, who launched her career on Australian soap Home and Away, married film producer Sean McEwen in 2011.
The couple have two daughters: Phoenix Emmanuel, born in October 2013, and Lennon Bleu, born in January 2019.
Hot mama! Tammin, who is best known for playing Jenna Marshall on Pretty Little Liars, has a sensational figure today. Pictured during a photo shoot in LA on July 14, 2014