Three ways women can increase their SEX appeal

It’s hardly surprising to learn that men are visual creatures and the initial attraction they feel towards a woman comes entirely from the way they look.

Relationship and dating expert, Louanne Ward, believes women can harness that fact and use their sex appeal to score the date they’ve been looking for – without the need to go online.

‘That doesn’t mean to say you have to be a nine out of ten or an eight out of ten, you just have to have a certain sex appeal and know about the art of connection,’ she said in her latest Facebook video. 

So what elements can help enhance your appeal? Louanne suggests dressing for your body shape, having a genuine smile and focusing on your character are the keys to success. 

 

So what elements can help enhance your appeal? Louanne suggests dressing for your body shape, having a genuine smile and focusing on your character are the keys to success

1. Men are visual and women are auditory

The glamorous dating expert explained that women should do the best they can with what they’ve been given appearance-wise.

‘Think about what you’re wearing and dress to show off your best assets. Think about your body shape and what you’re wearing to accentuate that,’ she reiterated.

‘There is also a very easy way to raise your femininity and feminine power which naturally attracts a man and that is to wear sexy lingerie.’

While not all men will be able to see what you're wearing underneath your clothes, it's that alluring confidence women get from a lacy bra and underwear that might be the ticket to building a lasting connection

While not all men will be able to see what you’re wearing underneath your clothes, it’s that alluring confidence women get from a lacy bra and underwear that might be the ticket to building a lasting connection

While not all men will be able to see what you’re wearing underneath your clothes, it’s that alluring confidence women get from a lacy bra and underwear that might be the ticket to building a lasting connection.

‘You have to dress from the ground up. If you feel sexy underneath it raises your sensual ability to connect with a man.’

By far the biggest ‘secret weapon’ in your arsenal though is a warm smile. 

‘Men are drawn to this,’ Louanne said, mentioning it as the top physical attribute men look for in a woman.

By far the biggest 'secret weapon' in your arsenal though is a warm smile

By far the biggest ‘secret weapon’ in your arsenal though is a warm smile

Top physical attributes men look for in women 

1. Smile

2. Eyes

3. Bum

4. Breasts  

Top physical attributes women look for in men 

1. Smile 

2. Eyes 

3. Teeth

4. Hair and bum

2. Engaging body language

What Louanne means by body language isn’t necessarily the most obvious signs, but rather ‘how you move as a woman, how you walk and talk in a room and your mannerisms’. 

‘Those things can be very seductive and very alluring to a man,’ she said.

‘Slow everything down so he has a chance to take you all in. The other important factor here is eye contact – never be afraid to look him directly in the eye.

‘Let him know there is a queue… that he can come over and talk to you. Get more than a glance happening. Get the eye contact, look away and then reconnect all in the same three to four seconds.’

Louanne reasons that it’s being flirtatious without being obvious that will land that first conversation with a potential partner. 

'Get the eye contact, look away and then reconnect all in the same three to four seconds,' she recommends

‘Get the eye contact, look away and then reconnect all in the same three to four seconds,’ she recommends

What Louanne means by body language isn't necessarily the most obvious signs, but rather 'how you move as a woman, how you walk and talk in a room and your mannerisms'

What Louanne means by body language isn’t necessarily the most obvious signs, but rather ‘how you move as a woman, how you walk and talk in a room and your mannerisms’

3. Your character, language and actions

A man is building a perception and ideas about what your character might be like before he even walks over.

‘Think about how you’re acting when you’re out in a public domain. If you have the opportunity to connect with a man your kindness and ability to open up and show some authenticity will be really appealing to him,’ she said.

‘He’s going to remember how you made him feel. Be engaging and be genuine.’

She recommends women try to create the ‘attraction in the first place’ and put themselves in the dating game.  

A man is building a perception and what he thinks your character might be like before he even walks over

A man is building a perception and what he thinks your character might be like before he even walks over



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