A computer whiz mother has launched a one-woman mission to expose as many love rats as possible – by tracking down their wives and girlfriends.
Erin Colleen, 34, from Washington, D.C., claims she has been cheated on several times over the years and decided enough was enough – so is now determined to stop others falling victim to womanizers.
Downloading Tinder to get back into the dating scene herself, the single mother was horrified to see men openly advertising themselves as married or ‘looking for something discreet’.
She took it upon herself to use the investigative skills learned in a career in data mining to track down men’s partners – and expose them.
So far, she has successfully outed five men to their partners and claims that while each woman has been upset, they have been thankful.
Erin Colleen, from Washington, D.C., claims she’s been cheated on several times over the years and she is now determined to stop others falling victim to womanizers
She took it upon herself to use the investigative skills learned in a career in data mining to track down men’s partners – and expose them. Pictured – one message she said to a wife
After one lecher’s wife saw what her husband had been up to, she wrote to Erin and said: ‘I really wish there were more people like you in the world.
‘I’m a nurse who worked 80 hours last week so we could go to Disneyland. Kind of ironic working to go to the most magical place on earth when something like this was going on back at home.’
Erin has now made it her mission to expose as many cheaters as possible – to ensure no other women go through what she has.
Erin said: ‘I can’t stand cheaters. I was cheated on [in the past]. It was devastating to learn he’d been doing it right under my nose for years, and that nobody ever said anything to me about it.
Erin, pictured with friends, has made it her mission to expose as many cheaters as possible
She decided to use the investigative skills learned in a career in data mining to track down men’s partners and expose them. Pictured: messages exchanged with one girlfriend
Last weekend, Erin outed two more men to their partners after chatting with them over Facebook and Snapchat for a number of months
‘Whenever I see a profile that says ‘married’ or ‘looking for something discreet’, I immediately swipe right to see if I can out the guy.
‘I do this to protect other women. I don’t want any other woman to go through what I went through.
‘Women are starting to really look out for other women, even ones we don’t know, so if you want to cheat you had better expect it to get back to your partner. It’s 2019 now and cheaters can’t hide any more.’
Last weekend, Erin outed two more men to their partners after chatting with them over Facebook and Snapchat for a number of months. During one chat, Erin received x-rated pictures and videos – causing her to fear a man had been secretly filming his partner.
The women worked together to out the men (left) and Erin shared some screen grabs of what the cheaters have said to her (right)
He had sent Erin topless pictures showing his hairy bloated stomach, while also talking about making ‘porn videos’ after work. After Erin exposed him to his girlfriend, both women plotted how to get more evidence from the shameless sleaze.
Erin said: ‘This guy messaged me a year ago and had been flirting with me on and off since. I noticed on his Facebook that he had a girlfriend. When I asked him about it he lied and said they broke up but he hadn’t changed his Facebook yet because he got a 30-day ban.
‘I knew that was a lie because he was messaging me through Facebook and you can’t message when you’ve been banned.
‘I messaged the girlfriend and showed her everything. She said he was defending himself saying that I was trying to ruin his life and it wasn’t true. I see right through the men’s excuses.
Some women have thanked Erin (right) who have outed their men while another said that she has been working 80 hours a week while he cheated on her (left)
After a career in data mining, Erin (pictured)claims she can hunt down a cheater’s family in as little as an hour – even if they only use their first name on their profile
‘[An ex] used to say that he was unfaithful because he was lonely. I used to feel bad for him. It turns out he was unfaithful long before our [relationship] had issues. These men are manipulators.
‘They expect free emotional labour from women, especially their partners, but they still want to be able to fool around with whomever they want.’
After a career in data mining, Erin claims she can hunt down a cheater’s family in as little as an hour – even if they only use their first name on their profile. On the latest occasion, she had been chatting to one man for a month.
His profile stated: ‘Married but lonely. We both work nights opposite of each other. Looking for something discrete to share my nights with. Watch movies, intimacy etc. I can send pics if requested’.
Erin admitted that whenever she sees a profile that says ‘married’ (right) or ‘looking for something discreet’, she immediately swipe right to see if she can out the guy. Erin shares some messages that a married man has sent to her (pictured left)
After he asked her to go to his house for sex while his kids were asleep, she decided to start digging. Within 60 minutes, Erin had tracked down the man’s mother and wife – who ‘couldn’t thank her enough’.
Erin said: ‘I have been on Tinder for two years. ‘I met this guy about a month ago, he added me on Snapchat immediately, and I chatted with him for a bit to be sure he was in fact a cheater.
‘This guy’s profile, as you can see, says he’s married. He added me on Snapchat and asked me if I was cool with him being married. I said I didn’t care.
‘Then he invited me to come over to his place to have sex that night, because his wife was at work and his kids were asleep. We had only just met a few hours before.
After one man asked her to come to his for sex while his wife was out, she decided to start digging. Within 60 minutes, Erin had tracked down the man’s mother and wife – who ‘couldn’t thank her enough’
‘I told him I would feel kind of weird with his kids there, and he told me not to worry because they’re deep sleepers.
‘Like, this man was willing to have a stranger come to his home while his children were there to have sex.
‘As soon as my suspicions were confirmed I simply grabbed his name off his Snapchat – he didn’t even think about hiding it – and messaged his wife and mother.
‘I used to do data mining as a job so I’m good at finding people on social media. It took about an hour to find his wife, but I was determined.’
Now she has outed her latest man, she hopes to send a message to other cheaters that they’re not safe – and they will be outed
Now she has outed her latest man, she hopes to send a message to other cheaters that they’re not safe – and they will be outed.
Erin said: ‘I’m hoping she is getting a lawyer and filing for divorce right now, but I don’t know.
‘She did say she had suspected him for a while and had tried to confront him but didn’t have any solid proof.
‘She was very kind and thankful. I was expecting her to respond with anger or denial, but she didn’t.
‘This is the third guy I’ve exposed. Watch out men.’