Tamar Braxton announced her split from husband of nine years Vincent Herbert in late October.
But on Wednesday the 40-year-old reality TV star said things are not bad with the 44-year-old record producer as she talked to Jesse Palmer on DailyMailTV.
‘Vin and I are not in a horrible place, we still communicate,’ said the beauty, who is promoting season five of Tamar & Vince. ‘We’re not fussing and fighting. I think people associate divorce with a lot of fighting and arguing – we’re not doing that right now!’
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Ready to talk: Tamar Braxton announced her split from Vincent Herbert in October. But on Tuesday the TV star said things are not bad with the producer as she talked to DailyMailTV
The star looked elegant in her black dress as she wore her blonde locks down. Missing were her wedding rings.
‘Fans will see what happens when you’re in a relationship for over 14 years and, you know, the honeymoon phase starts to wear off and you start to live real life,’ the All The Way Home singer said.
She added: ‘I’m OK.’
And the sister of Toni Braxton of Unbreak My Heart fame added they are staying on good terms for the sake of their son Logan, aged four.
![Good attitude: 'Vin and I are not in a horrible place, we still communicate,' said the beauty, 40, who is promoting season five of Tamar & Vince](https://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2017/11/08/22/46251F9300000578-5063879-image-a-89_1510179721396.jpg)
Good attitude: ‘Vin and I are not in a horrible place, we still communicate,’ said the beauty, 40, who is promoting season five of Tamar & Vince
![Her take: 'We're not fussing and fighting. I think people associate divorce with a lot of fighting and arguing - we're not doing that right now!' she said](https://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2017/11/08/22/46251F7F00000578-5063879-image-a-90_1510179741783.jpg)
Her take: ‘We’re not fussing and fighting. I think people associate divorce with a lot of fighting and arguing – we’re not doing that right now!’ she said
‘I just believe we are dedicated to living our best life for our beautiful, amazing son.’
As far as her sisters, Tamar said they are there for her.
‘We’re talking a whole lot,’ said the star. She had a look on her face that made it seem as if she was overwhelmed.
![The truth: 'Fans will see what happens when you're in a relationship for over 14 years and, you know, the honeymoon phase starts to wear off and you start to live real life,' the All The Way Home singer said](https://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2017/11/08/22/46251F7700000578-5063879-image-a-91_1510179764706.jpg)
The truth: ‘Fans will see what happens when you’re in a relationship for over 14 years and, you know, the honeymoon phase starts to wear off and you start to live real life,’ the All The Way Home singer said
‘We’re doing a lot of unsolicited advice,’ she added.
Braxton also said her views on marriage and divorce have changed.
‘You don’t know till you know,’ she said, meaning sometimes things cannot be worked out in a marriage.
![A long relationship: Tamar and Vince have been together for 14 years but married for nine; here they are seen in 2014 in Hollywood](https://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2017/11/08/22/45FB1D0400000578-5063879-image-a-86_1510179563153.jpg)
A long relationship: Tamar and Vince have been together for 14 years but married for nine; here they are seen in 2014 in Hollywood
![Their family: They have have son Logan together; here they are seen in 2016](https://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2017/11/08/22/45FB1D0C00000578-5063879-image-a-82_1510179225482.jpg)
Their family: They have have son Logan together; here they are seen in 2016
‘When we started Braxton Family Values, Vince and I had just gotten married and everything was amazing. And you do a lot of judging. Real life hasn’t hit you in the face.’
The songbird added that she ‘appreciates’ her family for ‘being there’ for her.
The performer also talked her Bluebird Of Happiness album, which will be her last. ‘It does feel final for me but I’m not going to stop singing,’ she explained. ‘It’s just my last studio album.’
![Having fun on her own: Tamar looked radiant in gold at the Soul Train Awards in Las Vegas on Sunday](https://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2017/11/08/22/460EF3C700000578-5063879-image-a-85_1510179370642.jpg)
Having fun on her own: Tamar looked radiant in gold at the Soul Train Awards in Las Vegas on Sunday
As far as her son Logan, who she is reportedly asking for sole custody of, Tamar said all is well: ‘He’s not a baby anymore which I’m devastated about. He’s in the Spider-Man phase jumping from wall to wall. He likes to play outside, he likes to play soccer. He’s such a boy.’
Tamar & Vince debuts on WETV on Thursday.
A source told TMZ in October that the marriage took a bad turn in May after she left the TV show The Real. ‘It wreaked havoc on her marriage that ultimately failed,’ said the insider.
It was added that her marriage ‘suffered an irreparable fracture after going through a time of depression’ from leaving the series.
And ‘losing the gig created bigger issues because it compounded an already teetering relationship.’
![Siblings: Tamar is the younger sister of superstar singer Toni Braxton, 50, of Unbreak My Heart fame; seen in 2014](https://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2017/10/26/17/45AA49DA00000578-5016375-Siblings_Tamar_is_the_younger_sister_of_superstar_singer_Toni_Br-a-55_1509034072352.jpg)
Siblings: Tamar is the younger sister of superstar singer Toni Braxton, 50, of Unbreak My Heart fame; seen in 2014
It was added she moved out of their LA mansion four months ago. Now she resides in a high-rise in Beverly Hills, it has been alleged. The pad has two bedrooms and costs $15k a month.
And she does not want to give Herbert any spousal support – according to divorce docs obtained by TMZ.
Things have seemed to be off for the couple – who have no prenup – for the past year.
In August 2016 Tamar and Vincent had a domestic dispute. Police were called to their Atlanta hotel after he allegedly ‘bit her hand during an argument.’
![They way it was: Tamar left The Real in May and then became depressed, it was claimed](https://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2017/10/26/17/45B5432C00000578-5021251-image-a-21_1509036244136.jpg)
They way it was: Tamar left The Real in May and then became depressed, it was claimed
Earlier this month, the two listed their Mediterranean mansion in Calabasas, California for $15 million.
The R&B singer turned reality TV star and her Herbert bought the 13,716-sq-ft mansion in 2013 for $10.5 million.
The seven-bedroom, eight-bath home at Estates at The Oaks sits behind two gates at the end of a quiet cul-de-sac and is in the same suburb where Kourtney and Khloe Kardashian live.
The wrought iron and glass entry doors open to a large foyer.
![For sale: Braxton's Mediterranean mansion in Calabasas, California, has been put on the market for a cool $15 million](https://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2017/10/25/14/4578BDE500000578-0-Tamar_Braxton_s_Mediterranean_mansion_in_Calabasas_California_ha-a-6_1508937259678.jpg)
For sale: Braxton’s Mediterranean mansion in Calabasas, California, has been put on the market for a cool $15 million