90 Day Fiance: The Single Life stars Colt Johnson and Vanessa Guerra reveal they have separated

90 Day Fiancé: The Single Life stars Colt Johnson and Vanessa Guerra shocked fans when they revealed that they had separated during the show’s season two tell-all episode which aired last Friday.

Colt, 36, and Vanessa, 31, told host Shaun Johnson that his mother Debbie’s interference in their relationship was the reason behind their split. 

‘I moved out,’ Vanessa said as Colt chimed in, ‘We’re separated.’ 

Split: 90 Day Fiance: The Single Life stars Colt Johnson and Vanessa Guerra shocked fans when they revealed that they had separated during the show’s season two tell-all episode last Friday

Colt noted that Vanessa had left the home that the couple shared with Debbie, 69, three weeks before appearing in the tell-all episode.

‘I moved out. I’m tired of being under her roof. It’s nonstop,’ Vanessa explained.

She continued, ‘Even if the door is closed to our room, it’s “Hey, Colt! Hey, Colt!”‘

Trouble: Colt, 36, and Vanessa, 31, told host Shaun Johnson that his mother Debbie's interference in their relationship was the reason behind their split

Trouble: Colt, 36, and Vanessa, 31, told host Shaun Johnson that his mother Debbie’s interference in their relationship was the reason behind their split

She added, ‘I suffered a miscarriage and you know, we told Debbie about it. She didn’t know at first, we kept it from her. Her reaction was, “I’m sorry,” and she gave me a hug.’ 

In October 2021, Colt shared on Instagram that the couple had been expecting their first child together but Vanessa had suffered a heartbreaking miscarriage.

The pair were friendly for years before dating and quickly becoming engaged in November 2020. 

Back then: The pair were friendly for years before dating and quickly becoming engaged in November 2020. In April 2021, they secretly eloped in Reno, Nevada, without his mother's knowledge

Back then: The pair were friendly for years before dating and quickly becoming engaged in November 2020. In April 2021, they secretly eloped in Reno, Nevada, without his mother’s knowledge

In April 2021, they secretly eloped in Reno, Nevada, without his mother’s knowledge. 

The two had lived with Debbie since they tied the knot but Vanessa said that the tension in the household had put a strain on her pregnancy.

She explained, ‘I was just very stressed about well, one, are we gonna raise [a child] here in this house? It was just a lot of stress … so I kind of felt guilty, like maybe I did something wrong, and then I took it out on him a lot. It was just a lot.’ 

Sad: In October 2021, Colt shared on Instagram that the couple had been expecting their first child together but Vanessa had suffered a heartbreaking miscarriage

Sad: In October 2021, Colt shared on Instagram that the couple had been expecting their first child together but Vanessa had suffered a heartbreaking miscarriage

90 Day Fiance: The Single Life has followed Debbie’s efforts to find love again after she disclosed that she had not dated for 40 years.

However, Colt said that his mother was ‘absolutely not’ putting forth enough effort in her dating life during Friday’s episode.

Colt also voiced his frustration over accompanying his mother on a seven-hour road trip to San Diego.

Looking for love: 90 Day Fiance: The Single Life has followed Debbie's efforts to find love again after she disclosed that she had not dated for 40 years

Looking for love: 90 Day Fiance: The Single Life has followed Debbie’s efforts to find love again after she disclosed that she had not dated for 40 years

Ouch: However, Colt said that his mother was 'absolutely not' putting forth enough effort in her dating life during Friday's episode

Ouch: However, Colt said that his mother was ‘absolutely not’ putting forth enough effort in her dating life during Friday’s episode

After a clip of the two fighting during the road trip played, Colt told Debbie, ‘I’m upset that you just can’t do anything by yourself.

‘I’m the first person, the first call, the first everything with you.’   

Amid Debbie’s protestations, Vanessa added, ‘Colt is her go-to for everything, always.’ 

‘You’ve raised me to be just a subservient person to you and I just want to know why,’ Colt asked.

‘I need to know why you are this way. My wife was pregnant. I didn’t want to tell you at the time when I was driving out to San Diego that I didn’t want to leave her.’

He continued, ‘I shouldn’t be bothered with your life. This is your life. It’s not my responsibility.’ 

Drama: Colt then pressed his mother about when she was moving out of their house. After the heated exchange, Debbie walked off the stage

Drama: Colt then pressed his mother about when she was moving out of their house. After the heated exchange, Debbie walked off the stage

Heated: Debbie later returned to the stage to tell Vanessa and Colt to leave

Heated: Debbie later returned to the stage to tell Vanessa and Colt to leave

Colt then pressed his mother about when she was moving out of their house.  After the heated exchange, Debbie walked off the stage.  

Backstage, she tearfully vented her emotions, telling producers, ‘The thing is, he can’t even afford f***ing to live there. He doesn’t have a job. She doesn’t have a job. 

I’m paying all the f***ing bills. I’m going to tell him to get off the stage. He doesn’t need to be there.’

Debbie later returned to the stage to tell Vanessa and Colt to leave. After they refused, she explained that she had been hurt that the couple did not tell her about Vanessa’s pregnancy.  

Hope for the future? Vanessa left the door open to a potential reconciliation with Colt but emphasized that Debbie would have to move out first

Hope for the future? Vanessa left the door open to a potential reconciliation with Colt but emphasized that Debbie would have to move out first

Debbie went on to say that while she was dependent on Colt, he was also dependent on her.

‘You could have moved out years ago. I don’t want you in my life anymore, you make me miserable,’ she said.

Vanessa left the door open to a potential reconciliation with Colt but emphasized that Debbie would have to move out first.  

She told her mother-in-law, ‘I just feel very smothered because you’re constantly in Colt’s face.

 ‘If I need him, you’re in his face.’

As the episode cut to a break, Debbie replied angrily, ‘Stop putting crap in his head! What have you done to him? You f****d him up.’ 

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