A man has revealed he plans on breaking up with his girlfriend if she decides to follow through with her planned breast augmentation procedure.
Speaking to Dear Jennifer the New Zealand man explained that although he is madly in love with the woman, 40, he doesn’t want to be with her if she has ‘fake boobs’.
One of his reasons is because he believes them to be ‘too tacky’.
‘My personal opinion on fake boobs is that I hate them. They don’t look or feel real. Years ago I slept with a woman with implants and the feel of them just totally put me off,’ he said.
A man has revealed that he plans on breaking up with his girlfriend if she decides to follow through with a breast augmentation (stock image)
Although the couple have been seeing each other for 10 months and he thinks he’s ‘found the girl of my dreams’, he is seriously considering the break up.
The reason the woman is looking at having the procedure done is because she doesn’t believe her B cup sized breasts are big enough.
She plans to use the money from the settlement with her ex to pay for the surgery.
Although he understands that she struggles to fill a bra and hold up a strapless dress without padding, he thinks her body is perfect just the way it is.
The reason the woman is looking at having the procedure done is because she doesn’t believe her B cup sized breasts are big enough (stock image)
The man claims he told her how he felt but said he wouldn’t stand in her way because he understood he didn’t have the right to tell her what to do with her body.
‘But to me she is intentionally disfiguring her own body. I don’t know if I can stay with her if she does go through with it… She doesn’t know that I’m in two minds about ending it if she does go through with it, as I don’t want to emotionally blackmail her,’ he said.
He explained that he thinks she has amazing breasts and doesn’t think it’s worth changing something he thinks is ‘perfect’.
The man claims he told her how he felt but said he wouldn’t stand in her way because he understood he didn’t have the right to tell her what to do with her body
Jennifer, who previously owned an escort agency and now runs an advice column, told him that it’s clear his girlfriend is trying to find a way to make herself feel good about her body.
Unfortunately, she didn’t have the answers he wanted.
She believes trying to convince the woman to change her mind will make her more determined.
She reminded him that one day his girlfriend’s whole body will change as she ages and hopes that he will be accepting of that as the years go on.
‘Are natural breasts more important to you than the sum of all her parts? I sincerely hope not. This is your decision, but understand that the woman you’ve fallen in love with is more than just breasts, real or false,’ she said.