A polyamorous events planner has revealed how she’s aiming to organise the world’s biggest orgy – with 1,000 people at the same marathon sex party.
Pearl Derriere, 29, from Denver in the US, said she stopped counting her own sexual partners when she hit the figure 100 at the age of 21.
Two years ago, in 2016, she started her first events company, Menage Life, with a DJ pal, inspired by her experiences of attending numerous private sex parties – and now she’s aiming to smash the current record of 500 people at one orgy with her ‘sex positive’ extravaganza.
Pearl said she hoped the impact of the upcoming event – details of which remain shrouded in secrecy – would be ‘historically monumental to the sex positive community’.
Still openly polyamorous, she currently lives with her boyfriend Dan Patrick, 35, who works in hospitality, and also has a girlfriend Tomi Tailey, 30, a homemaker, in Dallas.
Polyamorous events planner Pearl Derriere, 29, from Denver is planning a sex party with an attendance of 1000, to smash the Japanese record of 500 revellers
Two years ago, in 2016, Pearl started her first events company, Menage Life, with a DJ pal, inspired by attending numerous private sex parties
An advocate of the ‘sex positive’ movement, which embraces safe and consensual sexual experimentation, Pearl, said: ‘People may think my lifestyle makes me greedy for sex, but that isn’t the case.
‘I stopped counting how many people I’d slept with once it hit over 100.
‘People assume sex parties are something which have surfaced very recently – the truth is they have always existed, they’ve just been underground and under our noses the whole time.’
Formerly a member of staff at an insurance company, Pearl moved into the sex industry in 2012.
In her office job, she claims to have been sent to HR because her relationship with a married woman at work had made her co-workers ‘feel uncomfortable’, despite her girlfriend’s husband having given it his blessing.
And her own two current partners, who have shared a bed with her, but have not had sex with one another, are also happy for her to have casual liaisons with other people at orgies.
Pearl, who lost her virginity to a boy at 16 and had her first group sex experience the following year, said: ‘For me, I could never imagine one person fulfilling my every physical and emotional need for the rest of my life, which is why being a poly swinger suits me.
‘I may go to a sex party with Dan and sleep with someone else, sometimes even a friend I know, but it doesn’t bother him, that’s just how our relationship works.
Still openly polyamorous, she currently lives with her boyfriend Dan Patrick, 35, (seen) who works in hospitality, and visits her ‘homemaker’ girlfriend Tomi Tailey, 30, in Dallas
Pearl first discovered her love for orgies and non-monogamous relationships when she was working as a burlesque dancer in 2012
‘We don’t need to feel insecure, because we know our value to each other. My boyfriend is human and understands me and my needs.
‘As long as I’m safe, sane and everything is consensual there’s no problem!
‘We both get immense satisfaction knowing each other’s sexual, physical and mental needs are being met.’
Pearl first discovered her love for orgies and non-monogamous relationships when she was working as a burlesque dancer in 2012.
Hired to perform at a private sex party that spring, although she had engaged in group intimacy before, she had never seen what a real orgy looked like.
She said: ‘The moment I walked in, I saw someone involved in an intimate act and was caught off guard a bit, but I soon realised it was just like any other party, with people chatting and dancing, too.
‘People could have sex and be intimate, or just watch if they wanted to.
‘I made plenty of friends that night and have been enthralled by it all ever since.’
But, despite her liberated approach to intimacy, Pearl has stringent rules when it comes to orgies, always providing condoms for guests and making safety her priority.
‘I get tested for sexually transmitted infections every six months and the results are always clear,’ she said.
Pearl Derriere stopped counting her sexual partners when she hit 100, aged 21, and attended her first sex party in 2012
‘To make sure that people are accounted for and not too drunk and messy, we only let people in to parties if they come with a friend or partner.
‘That way, if someone passes out or makes other people uncomfortable, we can alert whoever they came with.
‘Being filmed is also a worry at orgies – so no one is allowed in with recording devices or mobile phones.
‘We need a trusting environment for everyone to have fun.’
Luckily, Pearl’s mom is non-judgmental about her daughter’s choice of career and is very close to her.
She has been less open with her dad, who thinks she is an ordinary events planner.
While Pearl’s life revolves around the sex industry, she admits that, a fan of bondage, she usually only makes love to her boyfriend and girlfriend once a week
And while Pearl’s life revolves around the sex industry, she admits that she usually only makes love to her boyfriend and girlfriend once a week.
She said: ‘Jobs and projects going on get in the way of my sex life sometimes.
‘By the time I’m done with work I just want to sit down and read or watch TV.’
Pearl, who goes to orgies once a month, is now hoping that the sexual extravaganza she is planning may lead to a ‘sex positive revolution.’
The date and location of the party remain a closely guarded secret within the sex positive community.
She said: ‘I’m not sure what will happen, but I just know I want to be part of something I consider historically monumental to the sex positive community.
‘For the most part, our community is hidden, no one wants to be ‘outed’ to other people as someone who attends these events, so it can be very isolating.
‘I hope our huge event can change that and we can lead a sex positive revolution.’
Her own partners, who have shared a bed with her, but have not had sex together, are also happy for her to have casual liaisons with other people at orgies.