Paulina Porizkova has opened up about the relief she feels after reaching a settlement with her late husband Ric Ocasek’s estate, saying she has ‘finally gotten to swim away from the sinking ship.’
The supermodel, 56, took to Instagram on Tuesday to share a photo of herself with journalist Andrew Goldman to celebrate her appearance on his Los Angeles Times podcast, The Originals.
The episode, which dropped on Sunday, was recorded in her New York City apartment last month. During the conversation, she revealed that would be receiving what was owed to her per New York state law, which is one-third of Ocasek’s estate.
‘Here I am with @andrewgoldmanwrites, who did the podcast where I revealed that I reached a settlement with my husband’s estate. It was a fair one, and I’m so relieved to have that stress behind me,’ she captioned the snapshot.
Smile! Paulina Porizkova, 56, took to Instagram on Tuesday to share a photo of herself with journalist Andrew Goldman after appearing on his Los Angeles Times podcast, The Originals
Over: Porizkova revealed on the podcast that she has finally reached a settlement with her late husband Ric Ocasek’s estate after he secretly cut her out of his will weeks before his death
‘Now I’m ready to make some good financial decisions for myself, aided by my new financial advisor,’ she continued. ‘I went with @UBS, yes, the same people I did my little financial talks for early this year. I have a female advisor, and I feel enlightened and supported. No more relying on anyone else but myself for my decisions.’
Earlier this year, Porizkova spoke candidly about the financial mistakes she has made over the years during a two-part conversation with UBS as part of her paid partnership with the bank.
She shared her regret over not signing a prenup when she married Ocasek, who cut her out of his will, saying she had to rely on friends to buy her groceries after his death.
At the end of her latest post, she used a metaphor to explain how she was finally able to move on two years after her husband’s death.
‘I’m infinitely grateful to be on the other side of this,’ she wrote. ‘I have finally gotten to swim away from the sinking ship, and am heading for the shore.’
The writer discussed the settlement in depth on the latest episode of Goldman’s podcast. She didn’t share how much money she was getting, but she said it was the amount owed to her.
Loss: Porizkova and Ocasek were separated and going through a divorce when she found him dead in their Manhattan townhouse in September 2019 at age 75
‘I know exactly how much I’m owed under New York law, how much is due to me. And I am getting it. The estate is settling with me,’ she said.
Porizkova and The Cars frontman were separated and going through a divorce when she found him dead in their $10 million Manhattan townhouse in September 2019 at age 75.
The next day, she learned he had cut her out of his will just weeks before, claiming she had ‘abandoned’ him. He left her without any money to live off of, including her own earnings.
‘It completely sideswiped me, I had no idea,’ she said. ‘I didn’t know how to make heads or tails out of anything. The shock of finding him and the grief of him being dead and then “Oh, guess what? You get no money. He wants you to have no money and he disinherited his two oldest sons.”‘
Ocasek left behind six sons, two from each of his three marriages. His oldest sons from his first marriage to Constance Campbell, Chris and Adam Otcask, were also left out of his will.
‘So, I was really messed up, and I won’t ever have the answers because we can’t ask him,’ said Porizkova, who shared she is close with both Chris and Adam’s families.
Mystery: Porizkova didn’t share how much money she was getting, but she said it was the amount owed to her under New York law, which is one-third of Ocasek’s assets
Memories: Porizkova was only 19 when she met Ocasek on the set of the music video for The Cars’ hit ‘Drive’ in 1984. They married five years later
The Sports Illustrated Swimsuit alum explained that up until three weeks before her husband’s surgery, she was set to inherit everything, which she admitted ‘wouldn’t have been fair at all’ because they were going through a divorce.
‘I’m totally fine with inheriting a half, which I thought was mine,’ she said. ‘Turns out it’s not a half under New York law, it’s only a third, but still, you know, I’m fine.’
At the time of Ocasek’s death, his assets were listed as $5 million in ‘copyrights,’ $100,000 in ‘tangible personal property,’ and $15,000 in cash.
However, Porizkova insisted reports that he was only worth $5 million were ‘bulls**t.’ When Goldman asked if the low number was ‘for tax purposes,’ she claimed ‘it was.’
‘In the very early days, they just had to put down a number,’ she said. ‘So they just put down a low sum, so that it wouldn’t seem like he was maybe holding away a lot of money from me? I don’t know. I’m not sure.’
When Porizkova explained that she was getting the amount that was owed to her under New York law, Goldman bluntly asked, ‘How much is it?’ But Porizkova declined to give an exact number.
‘That I cannot tell you, [but] I am gonna be fine. I am gonna be fine. … I settled last week. There you go. … I settled last week with the estate. They were very fair,’ she said. ‘They gave me what is mine under New York state law, and we’re done.’
Family: Porizkova has two sons, Jonathan and Oliver, with Ocasek. The rocker left behind six sons, two from each of his three marriages
Thoughts: Porizkova claimed that up until three weeks before Ocasek underwent surgery, she was set to inherit everything. She believes his lawyers had him make the changes to his will
The model stressed that the $5 million number was ‘just a sum that somebody put in for some reason.’
Porizkova believes Ocasek’s lawyers were the ones who pushed him to make the last-minute changes to his will.
‘My husband had some lawyers, and he was supposed to go through surgery. … They just cobbled together a really fast, kind of stupid thing,’ she said.
‘I don’t think my husband had the brain capacity at the time to figure out what he was really doing. … He was a bit of a hypochondriac anyway. … I think he signed a piece of paper without spending a lot of time thinking about it.’
Porizkova was recovering from surgery at their shared Gramercy Park home when he passed away unexpectedly.
‘Nobody expected him to die — nobody, absolutely nobody,’ she said.
The mother of two explained that she and her estranged husband were still living under the same roof at the time of his death, saying: ‘It was a nice big house.’
Allegations: Ocasek claimed in his will that Porizkova had abandoned him. However, they were living together in their Manhattan townhouse when he died
Bad deal: Porizkova, who sold the Gramercy Park property for $10 million in September 2020, noted that the property was ‘underpriced by so much’ because of the pandemic
Porizkova, who sold the Gramercy Park townhouse for $10 million in September 2020, noted that the property was ‘underpriced by so much’ because she had to sell it during the COVID-19 pandemic.
‘We had separate bedrooms for, like, five years at the point of his death. We hadn’t been married. We were still living together, but, no, we hadn’t been a couple. We were family,’ she said.
‘I felt really bad about leaving him in this big, old, empty house,’ she added. ‘I thought I was being nice. I wanted to keep taking care of him because I knew he needed help.
‘He was so used to having things done for him, having been such a big star and having been married to me. … I loved him. I didn’t want him to have a hard time.’
Porizkova was only 19 when she met Ocasek on the set of the music video for The Cars’ hit ‘Drive’ in 1984. They wed five years later after they met, when she was 24 and he was 45. They went on to have two sons, Jonathan and Oliver.
In 2017, they quietly separated after nearly 30 years of marriage.
‘After we had separated and after I had announced our separation publicly, I did go in fall in love,’ Porizkova said. ‘But that is still not abandonment. I was absolutely present and Ric knew.’
Moving on: Porizkova said Ocasek’s estate was ‘very fair’ and she is ‘gonna be fine,’ adding: ‘They gave me what is mine under New York state law, and we’re done’
Candid: ‘After we had separated and after I had announced our separation publicly, I did go in fall in love,’ Porizkova said. ‘But that is still not abandonment. I was absolutely present
She declined to name the man she was seeing, but she noted that Ocasek knew him and their children met him when their father was still alive.
‘Ric was very much a part of this new world that we were inhabiting,’ she said.
Porizkova briefly dated Men in Black writer Ed Solomon in May 2019 while separated from Ocasek. They were together for several months before quietly breaking up. It’s unclear if he was the man she was referring to.
The cover star thought it was possible that Ocasek claimed she had abandoned him because she fell in love with someone else after they had separated, but she pointed out that isn’t the legal definition of abandonment.
‘It doesn’t make sense in a way because when you claim abandonment in the law, that means this person has not been present in the last year and you are unable to get a hold of them,’ she said. ‘So that was a lie.
‘And I think he might have felt abandoned, but I’m sorry you can’t not give your wife money because you feel she abandoned you.’
Porizkova’s first public relationship following Ocasek’s death was with screenwriter-director Aaron Sorkin, 60, whom she attended the Oscars with last spring. The outing was later revealed to be their second date.
Back to dating: Porizkova’s first public relationship following Ocasek’s death was with screenwriter-director Aaron Sorkin, 60, whom she attended the Oscars with last spring
Not the guy! She shot down speculation that Sorkin was the subject of a recent tearful Instagram post in which she opened up about struggling to ‘trust after being betrayed’
She announced their split on Instagram in July after roughly three months together.
In the caption, she gushed about how wonderful the Oscar-winning screenwriter is, calling him ‘witty’ and ‘sexy.’ She never explicitly revealed why their relationship came to an end, but she alluded to them being too different.
During the podcast, she shot down speculation that Sorkin was the subject of a recent tearful Instagram post in which she opened up about struggling to ‘trust after being betrayed’ by a man.
‘Oh, poor Aaron. No. Gosh, poor Aaron,’ she told Goldman. ‘It’s so unfair because he just happened to be my public boyfriend, and he got himself into this hole — and it’s really really not fair because he truly is, like, one of the greatest and nicest guys I’ve ever met.
‘There was a different man, and I couldn’t talk about it. … Don’t ask me the details because I cannot divulge them. Was I in love before I met Aaron? Yes.’
Porizkova has become known for sharing crying selfies and emotionally raw posts while struggling with depression, anxiety, and anger following the death of her husband.
‘Two years later, everybody wants me to be over it, but I’m not,’ she said on the podcast. She added that she just wants ‘to find a nice guy,’ saying: ‘I’m not angry anymore. I’m just hurt.’