Jayindi Jade, from Sydney, offers her company to wealthy older men in exchange for extravagant dinners and expensive gifts
A 24-year-old student has opened up about her life as a Sugar Baby.
Jayindi Jade, from Sydney, offers her company to wealthy older men in exchange for extravagant dinners and expensive gifts.
The young woman has been leading a lavish lifestyle after she signed up to Seeking Arrangements about six months ago.
And since then, she has been on fancy dates with five different men, including a 48-year-old who works in hospitality.
‘I got a lot of messages from guys on other dating apps but they don’t offer the same beneficial arrangements like Sugar Daddies,’ Jayindi told Daily Mail Australia.
‘A lot of of the time on Tinder, the messages just go back and forth… you don’t get anywhere. And it’s really hard to find out what they want
‘You don’t know if they just want “Netflix and chill” or drinks, or hang out at home. At least with Sugar Daddies, you know why they’re there.’
She leads a lavish lifestyle after she signed up to Seeking Arrangements about six months ago
She explained the older men she has met are different to the guys from popular hook-up app such as Tinder.
‘With the men I’ve met up with so far, they’ve been generous, nice and they’re are welcoming people,’ she said.
‘I haven’t had any dramas with the guys. They seem to know what they want from it and they’re willing to be generous and spoil you.’
Despite not having a weekly allowance, Jayindi said she usually spends two hours of her time going on each date – and in exchange, they fund her shopping habits.
‘I don’t get a weekly allowance. Instead, I’ll probably hang out with them for two hours maximum,’ she said.
‘Usually we arrange to meet up either once a week or month. You arrange to do things what you really want to do.
‘I’ve been to fancy restaurants, I’ve planned a day out with them – go shopping on a date. They’ve taken me out to nice places – and we’d grab food and drinks.
‘I’ve been on walks along the beach, or we’d go get a coffee – just basic things like that. I’ve even gone to a bar where we’d just sit and chat – they’re happy with that.’
The 24-year-old has been on fancy dates with five different men, including a 48-year-old
The young woman said she decided to turn to the dating website to meet older men after her friend told her about the arrangements
The young woman said she decided to turn to the dating website to meet older men after her friend told her about the arrangements.
‘My friend said it was a good way to kind of make ends meet,’ Jayindi said.
‘So the good thing is I can spend my own money on my bills and rent and have the luxury things be paid for by Sugar Daddies.’
Jayindi – who is currently studying a diploma in youth work at TAFE – revealed her gifts have ranged from clothing, perfume and make-up.
‘I’m just getting things that you want to use in your day to day life,’ she said.
‘You don’t have to spend that money because you can just ask these Sugar Daddies who are willing to help you out. They compensate you for your time with them.’
The student said she has never felt pressured to engage in any intimacy because most of the Sugar Daddies are only after companionship (stock image)
The student said she has never felt pressured to engage in any intimacy because most of the Sugar Daddies are only after companionship.
‘None of the men I’ve met have pressured me into getting intimate,’ she said.
‘If a Sugar Daddy wants to get intimate, they’re usually upfront with you.
‘There’s a range of different guys on the website – 30s, 40s 50s. Two guys I met were young and cute.’
Jayindi said the oldest man she has been on a date with was 48 years old.
‘At first, I felt the age gap was big. He was double my age,’ she laughed.
‘But age isn’t a thing to me anymore. Personality is the main thing. If you click with somebody, doesn’t matter with their age.’
For any young women who are interested in joining, Jayindi said: ‘Be open minded’.
‘These men are looking for a girlfriend experience, they are not looking for a quick Tinder date,’ she said.
‘I feel like people are becoming more accepting in this day and age. You can love who you love, it doesn’t matter. I feel like the taboo is fading out.’