Woman shares how to guarantee “princess treatment” – and the three things you should always do

A woman has shared her controversial opinion on how anyone can garner ‘princess treatment’ from boyfriends in three simple steps.

Ashtin Evans, from New York, is a real estate agent and self-proclaimed dating expert.

The 25-year-old has spent her years in the dating pool doing ‘market research’ on what techniques fail and which ones guarantee a great night.

The woman recently spent a night out gathering ‘intel’ on what men think think about during first dates and the factors that prevent them from going on a second one.

Ashtin’s thesis was that: ‘girls who want princess treatment need to act like a princess.’

1. Do not act too impressed

Ashtin stated that it’s an instant turn off when women ‘fangirl’ and are easily pleased.

She insisted on being grateful when a date does something right – such as taking you out to a nice dinner or calling you a car – but any steps further can be detrimental.

‘You should be appreciative but not overly impressed,’ she said.’

‘[One of my friends] took a girl on a date to an upscale rooftop bar, and they ordered caviar and champagne service.’

‘He said his date was fangirling- like she had her phone out taking videos, said ‘Oh my god, caviar!’ and ‘I can’t believe we’re drinking Dom Perignon’.’

Ashtin’s friend revealed that it would have been more attractive to receive a simple ‘Thank you so much, I love caviar’ or ‘This is my favourite type of champagne’. 

She added, ‘The girl should’ve acted like the princess who has done this before and deserves this.’

2. Know how to order at nice restaurants 

Princesses are extremely cultured when it comes to food and wine – and you need to do research on menus at high-end restaurants before you visit them.

‘If you know you’re going to a nice steakhouse, you should already know what temperature you like your steak cooked. For example, a 6oz filet cooked medium.’  

‘Or, if you’re going to a wine bar you should research wines that you like so that you can sound knowledgeable when you order.’ 

The New Yorker revealed that such behaviours were ‘impressive and attractive – and just princess behaviour.’

3. Look like a princess

The last aspect of guaranteeing princess treatment is looking the part.

‘It’s superficial,’ Ashtin admitted, ‘but girls who look the part – get the part.’

It is recommended to put extra effort into your hair and makeup, and to play around with different clothing styles until you find the aesthetic that aligns with your physical attributes.’ 

‘You really need to emphasise your beauty.’ 

The 25-year-old has spent her years in the dating pool doing ‘market research’ on what techniques fail and which ones guarantee a great night

Many were grateful to Ashtin for sharing her tips while others branded her superficial and questioned if she was joking.

‘This TOTALLY WORKS. Act like this is your norm. You expect it!’

‘When men know your expectations – they step up!’ another said. ‘I used to regularly go for dinners that cost upwards of $700.’

‘This is great advice and also embarrassing that I didn’t already act like this.’ 

‘Why are there so many rules? God forbid you just be yourself and have a good time.’

‘This is a really shallow and high maintenance take.’ 

‘Instead of orchestrating an entire persona to get the treatment you deserve, why not be with someone who gives you what you want without having to perform?’

‘This is so technical. I just want to be in love!’

‘Or, be your genuine, authentic self and meet someone who likes you for you.’