Men and women are revealing relationship secrets and break up stories online to winniebluuesss

Furious exes reveal the horrifying reasons it didn’t work out: ‘He left me for his step-sister’

Australians took to popular Instagram
Shared shocking stories about their exes

By Bridie Pearson-jones For Daily Mail Australia

Scorned lovers are revealing incredibly salacious stories about their ex partners and chaotic breakups after being asked to ‘spill the tea’ online.

From getting dumped via email to leaving someone because they wouldn’t ditch their pets – people have been sharing the craziest stories from being unlucky in love.

Hundreds of men and women were quick to dish the gossip on their past relationships after being begged for stories by ‘internet ratbag’ Winnie Blues.

One person claimed their ex left them for his own step-sister of 14 years, while another said they broke things off when they discovered their ex was lying about having cancer.

‘My ex got my dog’s nickname “ratboy” tattooed on their face after we broke up,.’ one person wrote.

Australians took to popular Instagram account Winnie Blues , to share stories about their break-ups and exes (stock image)

‘Saw them on a local laser removal page having it taken off eight months later,’ they added.

Another person shared how their ex ‘took the ice cube trays out of the freezer when she left’.

While one unlucky singleton said they caught their ex red-handed using Tinder.

‘He was on a work trip away and sent a screenshot of something “funny” to me but tinder was in the background on the top left corner as the last app he was on,’ one wrote.

Another person explained how their ex, who they hadn’t seen in five years, contacted them after welcoming a baby to ‘ask if it was theirs’.

Others discussed how their exes drug habits effected their romance.

Hundreds of men and women were quick to dish the gossip on their past relationships after being begged for stories by ‘internet ratbag’ Winnie Blues (pictured)

What is the narcissistic abuse cycle and how does it work?

According to psychologists, the narcissistic abuse cycle broadly takes the form of three-too-four stages. These are:

1. Idealise

Once a narcissist has latched on to a new form of supply, they will pursue them vigorously, showering them with affection to ensure they can secure their source of supply.

They will ‘love-bomb’ and throw praise upon the new object of their affections to hook them in.

They may use the word ‘love’ early on in the relationship and suggest their victim is their ‘soul mate’.

2. Devalue

Once the narcissist is sure their new form of supply is hooked and unlikely to go anywhere, their attitude towards that person changes and the words of affection stop.

The narcissist will become cold and uncaring, and in many cases, will tell their victim things that make them feel inadequate.

They may pick at the person’s appearance or personality, which gradually chips away at their confidence and leaves them feeling incredibly confused.

3. Discard

This is when the narcissist decides they want to find a new form of supply and breaks up with their vicitim.

Many victims of narcissistic abuse may feel that the relationship has been ended very suddenly and in a cold, hurtful way.

Often, they will put the blame on the victim, telling them they are ‘crazy’ and making them feel small.

They will enact a smear campaign to leave their victim feeling as low and broken as possible, which can leave them with severe mental health implications.

4. Hoover

This stage of the narcissistic abuse cycle does not always occur, but can happen in many cases.

It happens when the narcissist makes attempts to bring their victim back into their life after a period of distance.

In order to suck their victim back in, they will tug on their heartstrings and turn the charm back on.

They may find a random excuse to get in touch so they can be back in contact with the victim.

If the victim decides to give the narcissist another chance, the likelihood is the cycle begins all over again.

Sources: Psychology Today, Narcissistic Abuse Support

‘My ex did ayahuasca one time…

‘Got a five page email dumping me to become a celibate shaman,’ wrote one.

‘Just got dumped because the relationship was “too good so it’s easier to end it on a high now rather than waiting until things get bad”,’ said another.

‘Sued me for $50k after he cheated on me because me dumping him “ruined his future”,’ commented one.

‘He cheated on me in the days of my father passing away because I was “emotionally unavailable”,’ said one.

Others shared their reasons for ending the relationship, including one man who broke up with his ex because she ‘never watered his plants’.

Another wrote: ‘He told me I had to give away some of my cats so I gave him away instead,’.

‘My ex screamed at me in the car once before his club footy game for wearing “embarrassing shoes” because he didn’t want his teammates to make fun of him for it,’ wrote another.

‘My ex used to get out of the shower, dry himself and leave his wet towel on our clean bed EVERY SINGLE TIME,’ said another.

‘My current bf soon to be ex, cheated on me with a 50 year old, multiple chicks who rejected him, and after a year when I finally trusted him again – HE CHATTED UP A 19 year old for an entire month on DISCORD,’ commented one.

The post attracted over 700 comments from furious exes keen to get issues from their past off their chests.

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