I woke up to find my boyfriend locked in the toilet kissing another woman

A woman sparked a heated debate online after seeking advice on what to do about her two-timing partner.

The unnamed woman took to UK parenting website Mumsnet to say she was ‘heartbroken’ after catching her partner of four years in a steamy embrace with another woman.

She said the couple had spent the day out, before retiring to a friend’s house for the night.

Later, she awoke to find her boyfriend missing from the bedroom, after claiming he needed to pop out for a cigarette.

The shocked woman later found him locked in the toilets kissing another woman. 

The advice was pretty much one-sided with users urging the woman to leave him and never look back.

She said: ‘Advice please? Been with my boyfriend for four years and at the weekend we went out and back to someone’s house.

‘We went upstairs to go to sleep and I woke up and realised he wasn’t there, he said he went for a cigarette.

‘I then found him locked in the toilet with another girl, he admitted they kissed but said nothing else happened.

‘I’m absolutely heartbroken because before this everything was perfect.

The woman was torn between leaving her cheating partner or putting it all behind her for a romantic getaway

She added that the embattled lovers had planned a two-week holiday to Thailand, but following the horrifying discovery, she was in ‘complete turmoil.’

She continued: ‘I’m in complete turmoil about whether to end the relationship or give him another chance and try get through it.

‘What would you do? Advice appreciated.’

‘You immediately end the relationship’ one person replied, before adding: ‘What little respect and care he has for you that he would so brazenly cheat on you, right in front of you and others.’

‘I’d break up with him’ said another.

Comments were generally one-sided, with fellow users urging the woman to leave the man and never look back

Someone else said: ‘Of course you end things. He only admitted to what he could get away with because he was caught.

‘To be so brazen, it’s probably not his first time cheating and I would fully expect he has had sex with someone else, even if he got caught before having the opportunity this time. Leave the b**tard and get a sexual health check.’

Meanwhile one person thought the rendezvous ended at a kiss for lack of time, adding: ‘Sorry but I don’t believe it was only a kiss or intended to be only a kiss.’

Another instructed the woman to chuck him in the trash. They wrote: ‘Sorry love, he has no respect for you whatsoever and you will never be able to trust him again.

‘Bin him. See if you can get a friend to come on holiday or worst case just go on your own. Don’t give him any attention whatsoever, other than to ask that he pays back the holiday money so you’re not out of pocket.’

Some commenters believe her boyfriend intended to do much more than kiss after locking himself in the toilet

Another person recounted a similar experience: ‘My ex did this to me – we all passed out after a night drinking at a “friend’s” house.

‘When I woke up in the night he was in the next room kissing my friend. He blamed it on the drink.

‘I don’t honestly believe he did it with anyone else while we were together, but it was certainly representative of his general attitude to our relationship. That’s why he’s now my ex.’

Only one commenter had a glimmer of hope for the future of the relationship, but still advised the woman to break up with him and go on holiday alone. 

‘His reaction will tell you how he really feels about you,’ she said. ‘If he’s not bothered, you won’t want to spend weeks away with him….it will be torture for you, but if he fights for you, there may be hope for a way forward.’