Dating coach reveals the three REAL reasons why people ghost you – and one key piece of advice for handling it
- Sabrina Zohar, 33, is a dating coach who has revealed why people ghost others
- The California-based love specialist frequently shared relationship advice
- She said people ghost because they are scared of vulnerability
A dating coach has revealed the three reasons why your crush cut things off without saying a word.
Sabrina Zohar, 33, frequently shares advice with those seeking love and those already coupled up to her over 422,000 TikTok followers.
Most recently, the California-based love specialist detailed the reasons someone may ‘ghost you’, or stop all communication without an explanation.
In one of her most recent viral videos, Sabrina revealed that people often ghost others because they are afraid of vulnerability, don’t know how to handle conflict, or are exploring other connections.
Sabrina Zohar, 33, is a dating coach who has revealed the three reasons why your crush cut things off without saying a word
The California-love specialist frequently shares advice with those seeking love and those already coupled up to her over 422,000 TikTok followers
Most recently, Sabrina detailed the reasons someone may ‘ghost you’, or stop all communication without an explanation – beginning with the fear of vulnerability
She captioned the clip: ‘The three reasons why people ghost,’
Before diving into her explanations, the dating coach suggested her viewers remember something when it comes to love and communication.
She said: ‘The first thing to remember is that just because you think things seem to be going well doesn’t mean they might have felt the same.
‘They might on the outside have been feeling that but on the inside feeling a little bit different.’
The first reason your potential lover may stop talking to you is because they are scared of getting too close, according to Sabrina.
She explained: ‘The first reason is a fear of vulnerability, while someone could seem on the outside positive and super into it, on the inside they could be freaking out because vulnerability is terrifying to them.
‘The fear of rejection is so frightening that they will ghost and remove themselves so that they can protect themselves from getting hurt, even though it’s kind of doing the contrary and ends up hurting everybody involved. ‘
Next, Sabrina said people ghost others because they don’t know how to handle conflict.
The second and third reasons people ghost is to avoid conflict and because they want to explore another connection
She noted that if someone was never taught to handle disagreements they try their best to avoid it at all costs.
‘They will bolt so that they don’t have to deal with somebody else’s emotions.’
The last reason someone may ghost you is ‘no one’s favorite hear, according to the dating coach.
‘The third reason is exploring another connection. Sometimes people meet somebody else and they just think the other person will get a clue,’ she explained.
At the end of her video, she said: ‘It’s important to remember that ghosting has nothing to do with you.’
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