A dating guru has lifted the lid on how to be ‘the best boyfriend a girl’s ever had’ by lifting the lid on things women want but will never admit to.
Chloe Taylor, from Birmingham, who hosts a dating podcast called Pretty Brutal, has revealed what girls really want but will never ask for – including random acts of kindness and ‘bad day pick me ups.’
The video racked up 3.3 million views, almost 467,000 likes and more than a thousand comments.
Chloe calls herself ‘the TikTok big sister’ because she makes content that helps people from all walks of life – whether you are single, dating or have been in a relationship for years.
She said: ‘These are things girls want but will never ask for. If you want to be the best boyfriend she has ever had, then I think you should click follow and take some notes.
‘Okay number one, let’s set the scene. You have been hanging out, she needs to go home. If for whatever reason you cannot take her home, trust me, tell her to call you if you if she feels unsafe.
‘We know you care about our safety and then feel protected even when you aren’t there.’
Moving onto the second tip, Chloe says that ‘bad day pick me ups’ is another thing that women want when they are feeling sad.
She then goes on to give examples, such as ‘random hugs from the back,’ and asking if they want to talk about what has happened.
If she does agree to this, Chloe advised that you should ‘hear her out, listen,’ but if she doesn’t, Chloe said: ‘You’re gonna say something like “if and when you want to talk about it, I’m here, but should we go and get food?”
If the girl vents to you, the TikToker advises saying that you are proud of her, that you believe in her or ‘we will get through this together.’
If those three sayings apply, you could use them all, followed by ‘if you really want to push the boat out, take us for food. Food is the answer to everything.’
Continuing with her top tips, Chloe said: ‘You should know by now that we are all hopeless romantics,’ followed by writing ‘random acts of kindness’ as the third tip.
Chloe Taylor, an influencer from Birmingham, has revealed what girls really want but will never ask for
Chloe said that if you
‘She’ll never ask for these though because it won’t be random if she does. Random hand-written notes.
‘Random phone calls followed by you saying “I just wanted to hear your voice” and remembering our coffee order and randomly bringing it to us, just one day out of the blue.
‘I would never turn down a coffee. And that right there is what would be the thing that makes me think, “Yep I’m going to marry this man, this man is my husband”.’
The fourth piece of advice that Chloe gave was that a compliment goes a long way.
But she added that the ultimate goal is to ask your girlfriend if you can take a photo of her or with her when she’s looking ‘cute’, and will guarantee she’s ‘bragging about you in the group chat’.
Users took to the comments to discuss the video, with some people writing that they had noted the tips down
People took to the comments to discuss the video, with some people writing that they had noted the tips down.
One user wrote: ‘Thanks, I was taking notes while I watched this video.’
Another said: ‘So true, for real!’
A third penned: ‘I wish my boyfriend actually used TikTok so these videos might come to him.’
A fourth commented: ‘Giving the cheat codes.’
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