Singing Marsh family apologise for ‘remarkably tasteless’ Gisèle Pelicot parody of Paul Simon’s 50 Ways To Leave Your Lover and insist they weren’t cashing on rape trial

A musical family-of-six has apologised after they released a ‘remarkably tasteless’ Gisèle Pelicot parody of Paul Simon’s 50 Ways To Leave Your Love, as critics attack them for trying to cash in on her rape trial. 

The Marsh family, from Faversham, Kent, excitedly announced over social media that they had ‘hastily assembled’ what they described as a ‘work of heart rather than of art’.

But the subject matter – pertaining to the biggest rape trial in French history – has left many feeling outraged.

Their song came just hours after Dominique Pelicot was sentenced on Thursday to 20 years in jail for orchestrating and committing the mass rape of his now ex-wife.

Firefighters, soldiers, lorry drivers, a DJ and a journalist were among those found guilty of raping and sexually abusing 72-year-old Gisele at the behest of her husband over the course of a decade at their home in Mazan, southern France – all without her knowledge.

The 51 men face a collective sentence of 400 years given out by a panel of five judges, such was the seriousness of their crimes.

In the wake of the sentencing, history lecturer Dr Ben Marsh, 48, his wife Danielle, 47 and their four children – Alfie, 18, Thomas, 16, Ella, 15 and Tess, 12, shared their rendition of the Paul Simon classic, which they have named Legal Case That’s Like No Other.

But the song was met with backlash from fans, forcing the family to take down the video and apologise. 

The musical Marsh family has  apologised for its remarkably tasteless’ and ‘shameful’parody song exploring the Gisele Pelicot mass rape trial

Their controversial song came just hours after Dominique Pelicot was sentenced on Thursday to 20 years in jail for orchestrating and committing the mass rape of his now ex-wife, Gisele Pelicot

Their controversial song came just hours after Dominique Pelicot was sentenced on Thursday to 20 years in jail for orchestrating and committing the mass rape of his now ex-wife, Gisele Pelicot

The Marsh family took to X today to issue an apology

The Marsh family took to X today to issue an apology 

Speaking today at the front door of the family’s bricked semi-detached home on a small new-build estate near Faversham Dr Ben Marsh acknowledged that the family had taken down the controversial video. 

Asked if they wanted to add anything Mr and Mrs Marsh declined. 

In a statement posted today on X the family said: ‘Thanks for comments and responses. The message we intended from the song – commending Gisèle Pelicot’s remarkable resilience and bravery in waiving anonymity, and utterly condemning those convicted – was not getting across, [and] we’ve taken it down. 

‘At no point was it being monetised. At no point was it intended to trivialise, or upset people. We’ve always covered difficult news stories / subjects (murders, war, gendered violence) in musical commentary, and don’t think anything should be off limits. But we’ve pulled this one, and will assess how we revisit.’ 

Their statement comes after the parody, which has been viewed more than 307,000 times on X, sparked a torrent of comments from those who said it ‘misses the mark’ and is ‘really really poor taste.’ 

Many simply said: ‘Please delete’. 

One X user wrote: ‘This badly misses the mark. It trivialises Gisèle Pelicot’s ordeal and her courage, and it’s an extremely ill-chosen melody given the inevitable association in most people’s minds with the original lyrics. 50 convictions for rape is not a clever play on the original.’

Another said: ‘This is so disgusting. Using the horrific gang rape of a woman to get attention for your Van Trapp wannabe family. Shameful.’

Dr Ben Marsh and his wife, Danielle, alongside their four children, presented their twist on Paul Simon's 50 Ways To Leave Your Lover earlier this week

Dr Ben Marsh and his wife, Danielle, alongside their four children, presented their twist on Paul Simon’s 50 Ways To Leave Your Lover earlier this week 

Actor James Dreyfus, best known for playing Constable Kevin Goody in The Thin Blue Line, called the song 'remarkably tasteless and opportunistic'

Actor James Dreyfus, best known for playing Constable Kevin Goody in The Thin Blue Line, called the song ‘remarkably tasteless and opportunistic’

 

The song has sparked a torrent of comments from those who say it 'misses the mark' and is 'really really poor taste'

The song has sparked a torrent of comments from those who say it ‘misses the mark’ and is ‘really really poor taste’

A third wrote: ‘Can you talk us through the mental process which led to you thinking a jaunty song about prolonged gang rape was a good idea at all, before you chose to then do it in the style of a song about lovers?’

Some fans queried whether their children should have been involved in such a song given the adult content matter.

One, who called it ‘absolutely disgusting’, said ‘you should delete, apologise, and reconsider subjecting your children to this. For their sake if nothing else.’

Actor James Dreyfus, best known for playing Constable Kevin Goody in The Thin Blue Line, called the song ‘remarkably tasteless and opportunistic.’

He added: ‘To use the horrific exploitation & abuse of Gisèle Pelicot & set it to the tune of 50 Ways To Leave Your Lover for clicks seems bafflingly tone deaf to me….’

When the song was first released by the Marsh family, they described it as ‘super-topical’ in a joint statement. 

‘It’s our twist on Paul Simon’s fantastic ’50 Ways to Leave Your Lover’ released in December 1975, but parodied to address the culmination of the mass rape trial in France which ended today with the conviction of 51 men in Avignon’, the family added. 

‘It’s a news story we’ve been following, like many others, with a mix of horror and disbelief, and one that we touched on in our latest song reflecting on sexual pressure, workplaces, attitudes. 

‘But we were very struck by the incredible courage of Gisèle Pelicot, and the inspiring solidarity shown by supporters.’

Dominique Pelicot, who has been dubbed 'The Monster of Avignon', was sentenced on Thursday to 20 years in jail for orchestrating and committing the mass rape of his now ex-wife

Dominique Pelicot, who has been dubbed ‘The Monster of Avignon’, was sentenced on Thursday to 20 years in jail for orchestrating and committing the mass rape of his now ex-wife

Firefighters, soldiers, lorry drivers, a DJ and a journalist were among those found guilty of raping and sexually abusing 72-year-old Gisele at the behest of her husband over the course of a decade at their home in Mazan, southern France - all without her knowledge

Firefighters, soldiers, lorry drivers, a DJ and a journalist were among those found guilty of raping and sexually abusing 72-year-old Gisele at the behest of her husband over the course of a decade at their home in Mazan, southern France – all without her knowledge

The family also swapped out the names from the original song for those of the convicted men. 

Lyrics for the otherwise jaunty tune include ‘La honte change du camp’ (shame must change sides), Dom, You’re facing the can, man’ and ‘It’s a pretty long haul, Paul, For your sexual assault.’

Other lines include ‘can’t take it back, Jacques, knew it was wrong, Jean,’ and ‘just pull up your pants, Vince’.

Among the dissenters there were however those who applauded the family.

One fan called it ‘so powerful and very sensitively accomplished.’ 

The Marsh family first found fame in 2020 during lockdown with their version of Les Misérables’ One Day More, which went viral.

They followed up on this success with their rendition of the Bonnie Tyler classic, Total Eclipse of the Heart, now renamed Totally Fixed Where We Are.

Their viral fame has seen the family appear on Jimmy Kimmel Live, BBC’s Comic Relief and Children In Need. 

Legal Case That’s Like No Other: Lyrics in full

The problem was not inside her head as she believed 

In some ways, it’s ingrained in our societies 

But she exposed it … waving anonymity 

It was a … legal case that’s like no other 

She sat through testimony, hollowed and subdued I

n the court, they showed demeaning evidence of her abuse 

But each repeat in turn – she just met with fortitude 

It was a … legal case that’s like no other 

Fifty rapists now discovered 

[Chorus] « La honte change du camp », Dom 

You’re facing the can, man 

You ain’t gonna enjoy, boy 

Might struggle to sleep 

It’s a pretty long haul, Paul 

For your sexual assault, oh 

Just sentenced as guilty 

And sick as can be 

Ooh, can’t take it back, Jacques 

Knew it was wrong, Jean 

You crept in in the dark, Charles 

She’s drugged and asleep 

No longer your object 

She had her whole life wrecked 

But that woman’s got strength, see? And such bravery 

She first used sunglasses to help to shield the pain 

She was the subject of attention – feeling tired and ashamed 

And then one day they were gone, because stoically, again, 

She saw her … legal case (was like no other) 

In other cases little proof can come to light 

It’s the victims in the shadows 

Of the demons in the night 

But she’s standing for her sisters and the wrongs that they can’t right 

It was disgraceful how she suffered 

But she’ll be saving many others 

‘La honte change du camp’, Dom 

Caught in the act, Mat 

Don’t cry and beg, Greg 

Have you lost your esprit? 

Tell you where you can go, Mo 

You don’t have an excuse, no! 

Just pull up your pants, Vince 

And to the bastille 

She didn’t cry, Si 

Lyin’ on the bed, Red 

Thought you were safe, Saif? 

To abuse family 

Shout from the rooftops 

You all really disgust us 

She woke up the world, see? 

Now let her be free. 

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