American woman who moved to the countryside in Wales lifts a lid on the shocking downsides to living in the UK

An American woman living in the countryside in Wales has lifted a lid on the shocking realities of residing in the UK… warning others it’s not as dreamy as you’d think.

Jessica Hanson, 42, originally from Miami, Florida, was living every American girl’s dream when she met and fell in love with a ‘dashingly good looking British’ guy.

The two wed in 2023, and purchased a house in a small village in Wales called Conwy.

Hanson was excited to move to the quaint town, but soon after settling in, she quickly realized that life there was very different from life in America.

From sky-high prices and terrible weather to unfriendly neighbors and strict rules, Hanson admitted to the Daily Mail there were a lot of downsides to residing in the UK that took her by surprise.

Living in such a small village also meant there weren’t a lot of food options, stores and restaurants closed super early, and things like Uber and DoorDash were non-existent there.

It was a shocking adjustment for the Florida-native, who admitted it feels a little too ‘dystopian’ for her liking.

‘Regarding ease of life,  I expected it to be the same. But it just isn’t,’ she explained during an exclusive chat with the Daily Mail.

An American woman living in the countryside in Wales has lifted a lid on the shocking realities of residing in the UK… warning others it’s not as dreamy as you’d think

Jessica Hanson, 42,  from Miami, Florida, was living every American girl’s dream when she met and fell in love with a ‘dashingly good looking British’ guy

The two wed in 2023, and purchased a house in a small village in Wales called Conwy (seen), and she quickly realized that life there was very different from life in America

‘Admittedly, that is because I’m not in central London, but rather in a small town in Wales. But the lack of conveniences is what I have the hardest time with. 

‘At time of day or night [in the US], I can have anything I want delivered. Groceries are brought to your doorstep in half an hour. 

‘Hot food from every type of cuisine you could think of is available. Everything is just so easy there.’

And that’s not all. Hanson also explained that setting up the WiFi in their new home was a nightmare.

‘Setting up my utilities for the UK house was wild to me. In the US, everything is click the package you want and put in your credit card, and you’re set up,’ she continued.

‘Getting WiFi for the house was a nightmare that included me having to talk to an actual person for nearly half an hour, and then I had to set up a UK bank account because the only way to pay was by connecting an account that had a sort code (ours don’t).’

She also slammed the immensely high cost of energy and gas – as well as the constant bleak weather.

‘Holy hell,’ she exclaimed. ‘Where I lived [in the US] gas was $2.36 a gallon. In the UK it’s something like $10 for the same measurement. 

It was a shocking adjustment for the Florida-native, who admitted it feels a little too ‘dystopian’ for her liking. She’s seen left in Florida and right in the UK

She said it’s cold and windy for ‘two thirds of the year and practically ‘gray all the time,’ adding, ‘It gets to me, mentally. I get lethargic and sad’

‘And the cost of heating? I don’t know how people afford it there, since it’s generally always freezing (to me anyways).’

She added that it’s cold and windy for ‘two thirds of the year and practically ‘gray all the time.’

She added that there’s a slew of bizarre ‘rules’ and ‘expectations’ in place that are hard for her to adjust to, including 20 mph speed limits in her town

‘Where I live, specifically, there seems to be a 75 percent chance on any given day that it’s going to be cold and misty,’ she shared.

‘It gets to me, mentally. I get lethargic and sad when I’m over there because I don’t want to go outside. 

‘I miss just being able to go outside in a T-shirt and shorts and walk around comfortably.’

Hanson also claimed that the people are not nearly as outgoing in the UK as they are in the US.

She explained that people in the community in Florida where she lived were ‘super friendly,’ and recalled getting ‘waves and hellos from so many strangers.’

But in her new neighborhood, it’s the total opposite. 

‘In the US, people talk to you wherever you go. They check in. The ask about what you do, where you’re from,’ she said.

‘Children run in and out of houses on neighborhood streets, to the point where sometimes I laugh when I’m in a house and ask a friend or family member, ‘Whose kid is that?’ And they just shrug. 

‘That’s not been my experience in the UK. Of course, this could be because of the weather. 

‘Not many people are out running around streets to begin with, I guess, since it’s so cold and windy for two thirds of the year.’

She added that there’s a slew of bizarre ‘rules’ and ‘expectations’ in place that are hard for her to adjust to.  

She said: ‘In general, British freedom feels, to me, like a polite prison where there are rules for everything, forms for every exception, and you’re expected to say thank you for the privilege’

In the end, she said she’s ‘trying to find the positives and focus on those.’ She’s seen with her step-children

‘The nanny state mentality creeps me out. They lowered the speeding limit in my entire county to 20 mph recently. That is bananas to me,’ Hanson revealed. 

‘It feels a little dystopian. CCTV and speed cameras are omnipresent. 50 mph [speed limit] on the freeway. Why?

‘In general, British freedom feels, to me, like a polite prison where there are rules for everything, forms for every exception, and you’re expected to say thank you for the privilege.’

When asked if there were any upsides to living in the UK, Hanson said the groceries are slightly cheaper and the views when you drive through the countryside and ‘gorgeous.’ 

‘Oh, and the dairy. All dairy is fantastic,’ she added. ‘Once I was introduced to British cheese, I simply couldn’t eat the American nonsense we pass off as ‘cheese’ anymore.’

Hanson recently posted a video to TikTok in which she shared her opinion on living in the UK and naturally, it did not sit well with Brits.

It went viral, but resulted in her facing immense backlash.

In response to the hate, she told the Daily Mail, ‘I have a very thick skin and I don’t mind being made fun of by all of the British people who poke at me in the TikTok videos. In fact, I get quite a chuckle out of how outraged people get.’

‘In the end, I’d say, “Life is what you make it.” You can choose to see the best things about a place or dwell on the negatives,’ she concluded. 

‘I’ve been trying lately, super hard, to find the positives and focus on those, like when there’s a warm day and the sun is shining on the rolling hills and doesn’t set until 9pm and you can sit outside without a sweater on. 

‘I try and cement those days in my head. Or when I get to hear my amazing step-children talk in their posh little British accents to my nieces and nephews and hear them all giggle. 

‘Maybe the Daily Mail’s readers can give me some tips on what to look for so I can keep looking for the best parts of Great Britain in my newest journey of this crazy life. I think that would be helpful indeed.’

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