An Aussie radio duo have slammed a famous married couple live on air after they appeared in Netflix’s Ashley Madison documentary.
In 2015 the Ashley Madison breach saw 37million people named and shamed after they’d signed up to the notorious ‘affair’ dating site.
One of those was Sam Radar, a YouTube star touting family values who signed up for the site when he found himself ‘bored’ as a night nurse and new dad.
Sam denied having any involvement with the site initially or of cheating on his wife Nia – but eventually came clean about his affairs, visits to massage parlours and strip clubs.
And in the shocking interview he did with an Australian radio he admitted he still thinks about other women.
The Radars, who share four children, are devout Christians and revealed on air that ‘God’s forgiveness’ helped them find a path to marital bliss.
Nia said the decade since the affair scandal has been the best of her married life – with her relationship, including their sex life, stronger than ever.
But radio duo Pete and Kymba called the couple out on their claims that their relationship is solid and questioned why Nia would take a cheater back after he lied about it for so long.
Sam Radar was one of the people named in the 2015 Ashley Madison data leak
Nia forgave her husband – and said she decided to follow God’s path which doesn’t include divorce
‘Actions have consequences and I think Nia is a very forgiving person,’ Kymba said. ‘I don’t think you would have come out and been honest unless you were caught.’
In the interview on Mix94.5 Sam openly admitted to signing up to the cheating site after seeing an ad at work which read ‘Life’s short, have an affair’.
‘I signed up with all my real info which was a stupid decision, they told you how protected you were and I trusted they were locked down hard,’ he said.
He added that signing up to the website was the worst mistake of his life.
‘Life was complicated I had a lot of responsibilities, I hated my job as a nurse and I was looking for something exciting,’ he said.
‘Life is short, I connected with that. Have an affair – the answer to this boring monotonous life.’
It has been nine years since Sam confessed his infidelity to Nia and 14 since his last ‘betrayal’.
Nia choosing to look past the years of cheating and lying had Kymba stumped.
The radio host asked Nia if she was just so obsessed with her Disney Princess life that she happily drank the Kool-aid to ‘keep it’.
This fired Sam up who stressed everyone makes mistakes and has sin. He asked Kymba what makes his sin of infidelity and lying any worse than her sins.
‘There has to be consequences,’ Kymba said.
Her co-host defended her position.
‘It sounds like you are using God as a scapegoat for doing all the devilish things you do,’ he said.
Nia argued that she thought about leaving Sam when the truth came out – but had been with him since she was 16 so didn’t want to rush into a decision.
She said she consulted the Bible and couldn’t find anything in the religious text which told her she should leave her husband for infidelity.
The couple have been together since Nia was 16 – they have four children and a very popular YouTube channel
In fact, it appeared the opposite was true.
‘God hates divorce,’ she said.
‘I wanted to be obedient and couldn’t find peace in my heart with divorcing him,’ she said.
The couple added that their 14-year-old, who was a newborn at the time of her father’s infidelity, is not worried about his mistakes.
She ‘thanks her mum’ for working through the betrayal so that she could have a ‘whole’ family.
Kymba revealed her concerns with the message Nia and Sam’s relationship could send the younger generation.
Sam says he still makes confessions to Nia, after lusting for other women, that ‘99.99 per cent of men’ have the same impulses
She said young women should know it is okay to stand up for themselves and to leave relationships.
Nia claimed their relationship is transparent now, with Sam continuing to prove his efforts for the family.
‘Sam showed true repentance level regret I saw unlike anything ever thought I would see,’ she said.
Sam admitted he often confesses when he is struggling with fidelity – adding it had been a few months since his last confession.
He admitted to being attracted to his barista, but said he stopped going to the local café when she ‘gave him a look’.
Kymba questioned whether the couple’s success on YouTube and their tied-up financial interests may have made it easier to stay together than leave and rebuild.
Sam also said men who don’t admit to having thoughts about other women are lying citing 99.99 per cent of men like other women.
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