Well known mummy blogger and mother-of-four, Constance Hall, has shared her tips on how to increase your sex drive when you are in a long-term relationship.
The 34-year-old from Perth has posted her findings to Facebook for her followers, who number more than a million.
And Constance didn’t hold back when it came to her most important lesson – the need for consideration.
Well known mummy blogger and mother-of-four, Constance Hall, (pictured) has shared with her tips on how to increase your sex drive
The Perth-based mum has posted her findings to Facebook for her over a million followers
‘Who the f*** wants to root a bloke that hasn’t considered them???’ she wrote.
‘When someone leaves muddy footprints on the floor you just swept, or comes back from work before you but doesn’t put dinner on, or slept in while you did school run.
‘Not me. You can stick to w****** and so will I.’
Constance spoke to the well-known sex expert Nikki Goldstein about why people’s sex drives decline in a long-term partnership and why people ‘would prefer to have a cup of tea or eat toast then to have the man we love get us off’.
Constance claimed that the average amount people are having sex is decreasing which she puts down to the fact that women are now working more.
Dr Nikki explained to her that to overcome this couples needed to involve themselves in ‘after-play’.
Constance spoke to the well-known sex doctor Nikki Goldstein about why people’s sex drives decline
Constance claimed that the average amount people are having sex is decreasing which she puts down to the fact that women are now working more
‘Sex is often considered over when the man e********* his holy love syrup, rolls over and goes to sleep,’ Constance wrote.
‘Guess what???” It’s not all about you. Fingers, mouths and sex toys are the way of the future, I know it’s hard to accept that the glorious p**** rarely finishes the job,’ the blogger added, with her trademark candour.
She also explained that she learnt that people’s sex drives vary, with some couples sleeping together once a week and others once a month.
Constance announced her findings on Facebook where she said she ‘interviewed a couple of people about sex’
‘Sex is often considered over when the man e********* his holy love syrup, rolls over and goes to sleep,’ Constance wrote
She said that Dr Nikki told her one of the reasons people are having less sex is when the woman doesn’t feel considered or appreciated by their partner.
‘Another problem is the lack of importance put on the female orgasm, I saw a sex therapist say “a women not c****** is like both of you getting dressed up for an amazing day out, you get on the train, it stops at the place, but only he gets out”.’
She finished the post telling her followers to keep in mind that ‘life is foreplay’.
Constance explained that she learnt that people’s sex drives vary, with some couples sleeping together once a week and others once a month
Constance said that Dr Nikki told her one of the reasons people are having less sex is when the woman doesn’t feel considered or appreciated by their partner
‘Remember that blokes, help us, give us some none sexual [sic] physical touch and above all consider us.
‘Because what you do out of the bedroom is going to impact what we do in it.’
Earlier this year Dr Nikki spoke to Daily Mail Australia on how to ensure you are having the best sex possible.
‘Remember that blokes, help us, give us some none sexual physical touch and above all consider us,’ she said
She explained that although touching and kissing can sometimes be very prominent at the start of a sexual relationship, they can die down as time goes on.
‘We’re a hyper sexual society that doesn’t incorporate a lot of touch. Upping touch not only brings more intimacy, it can help women to get more aroused and into sex,’ she said.
‘Kissing a lot and touching a lot is a great way to reinvigorate your sex life.’
Dr Nikki also said that while watching porn with your partner may be fun and exciting studies have shown it can lead to decreased sexual sensation.
Earlier this year Dr Nikki (pictured) spoke to Daily Mail Australia on how to ensure you are having the best sex possible
‘Porn is something that is a fantasy. Porn has to keep doing things people can’t do themselves to keep them interested. It’s a cycle.’
Although she suggested that people should cut down the amount of porn that they watch she still believes that they should find ways to spice up their sex life.
‘Don’t be scared to experiment with pleasure and try out things you actually want to do, and not what you think you should want,’ she said.