A dating pro has lifted the lid on the top signs that the man you’re crushing on doesn’t like you – so you can forget him and build a ‘roster’ instead.
Sarah Lauren is a New York City-based influencer who frequently shares fashion, beauty, and relationship advice with her over 418,000 followers on TikTok.
Most recently, she took the video-sharing platform to give viewers advice on how to know if men like them.
The content creator bluntly shared the signals that a guy doesn’t reciprocate your feelings for him – including the ‘code word’ they use when they don’t care about you.
A dating pro has lifted the lid on the top signs that the man you’re crushing on doesn’t like you – so you can forget him and build a ‘roster’ instead
Sarah Lauren is a New York City-based influencer who frequently shares fashion, beauty, and relationship advice to her over 418,000 followers on TikTok
Most recently, she took the video-sharing platform to give viewers advice on how to know if men like them
In a series of viral videos, which have so far collectively amassed over 20.9 million views, Sarah broke the hearts of women who have been desperately attempting to decipher what the actions of their love interest mean.
In the first clip, which garnered over 4.2 million views, she said: ‘Here are the things guys do when they don’t like you, and by don’t like you I mean not trying to pursue you to be more than a fling, a hookup, or a situationship.’
The first sign your beau may not have feelings for you is if they only text you on the weekends or at night.
Sarah noted that these are their ‘fun’ times and they aren’t trying to be serious with you.
‘If all you see is his bedroom, that is the only place in his life he wants you to see,’ she said of the second sign.
The influencer noted that if he doesn’t take you out on proper dates, he most likely won’t ever change his ways.
‘If he’s not doing that,’ he doesn’t want you to be involved in his life in that way,’ she added.
Next, she advised women to watch out for men who claim to be ‘bad texters.’
‘Any guy will text you and find time and make time to text you if they want to and if they’re interested and want to pursue you.
The content creator bluntly shared the signals that a guy doesn’t reciprocate your feelings for him – including the ‘code word’ they use when they don’t care about you
In a series of viral videos, Sarah broke the hearts of women who have been desperately attempting to decipher what the actions of their love interest mean
The first sign your beau may not have feelings for you is if they only text you on the weekends or at night
‘And if not, they will call you. So they will make time to put that effort in, and if they don’t and he says he is a “bad texter”, no sweetheart, he’s not a bad texter he’s just not that interested,’ Sarah explained.
In a follow-up video, Sarah revealed even more warning signs that men aren’t into you.
This time, the influencer noted that these are ‘the next level.’
‘Coming in strong with number one, the code word. If they use this code word, they don’t care about you that much.
‘If they say that they are “busy”, they aren’t trying, they don’t even want to try. They just aren’t that into you and they’re just “busy” so that they can avoid anything to do with you,’ she explained.
Sarah added that people make time for those they want to see. So, if your crush isn’t making time in his schedule to see you, then he just doesn’t care to.
The next signal a man may not be interested is if he isn’t ‘touchy.’
Sarah explained that men love physical touch, so if they aren’t ‘going in for a hug’ or ‘touching your leg’ or holding your hand, then ‘he’s not that into you.’
The next signal a man may not be interested is if he isn’t ‘touchy’
Sarah explained that men love physical touch, so if they aren’t ‘going in for a hug’ or ‘touching your leg’ or holding your hand, then ‘he’s not that into you’
The influencer continued: ‘Number three, are you the person he tells good news to? Or do you find out later from his friends?’
She noted that if a man isn’t rushing to rave about the good things that are going on in his life to you, then he probably doesn’t care for your opinion.
The dating pro noted that the next signal is a ‘bit of a sad one.’
‘If you see that he’s getting frustrated by you a little too often, chances are he is just annoyed by you and he’s annoyed by your presence and he will never like you because you frustrate him and guys get frustrated very easily.
‘They can only be with a girl, yes for sexual attraction – if they are just looking for that – but also if they want to be with a girl, they have to be with someone they can get along with because guys get frustrated very easily and if you’re frustrating him and that’s just your personality, he’s just not that into you,’ she explained.
Viewers flooded the comments section and praised the dating pro for her advice, while sharing their shock at the signs, which weren’t sugarcoated
Lastly, the expert said that if he isn’t listening to you, or liking your posts on social media, then he doesn’t care about you.
At the end of the clip, she advised women to ‘build their rosters’ and not focus on one man if he isn’t giving them what they want.
Viewers flooded the comments section and praised the dating pro for her advice, while sharing their shock at the signs, which weren’t sugarcoated.
One person said: ‘I got my feelings hurt by watching this.’
Someone else wrote: ‘Just watched both and now I feel like I’m gonna cry lol.’
Another user added: ‘Honestly, she’s spot on.’
‘These are so good,’ one user said.
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