Daughter, 18, is divided over whether she should tell her mum’s ‘amazing’ fiancé she’s been cheating on him for YEARS: ‘She’s slept with 15 other men’
- A teenager has revealed she wants to dob her cheating mum into her step dad
- She claims her mum has slept with at least 15 people in two and a half years
- She says her step dad is loving, kind, hard working and has a huge heart
A daughter has been forced to choose between family loyalty and ‘doing the right thing’ after discovering her mum has had 15 illicit affairs in the last two years.
The 18-year-old woman explained her mum is currently engaged to a man she has been with for three years, but for most of the time she hasn’t been faithful.
‘My mum’s cheated on him with one of her exes and multiple, more than 15, other guys she’s met while in the relationship. I honestly don’t know how she hides it so well,’ the teenager wrote in a Reddit post.
A young woman has been forced to choose between family loyalty and ‘doing the right thing’ after discovering her mum has had 15 illicit affairs in the last two years
She described her mum’s partner as an amazing man and father figure – with a good work ethic and a huge heart.
‘I hate seeing him give her all her love and her just throw it away for a bunch of other random dudes,’ she said.
The teenager went on to explain she had known about the affairs for some time, and at first didn’t see it as a big deal.
But every time she is forced to defend her mother or hide something from her stepfather she feels dreadful.
‘I’ve told her it’s wrong and that I hate what she’s doing to him but she doesn’t care.’
The teenager wants to tell her stepfather because she would want to know if she were in shoes.
But doesn’t want to damage her relationship with her mum or cause her pain if the relationship breaks down.
She decided to take her dilemma online to see if it helped – and the opinions flowed in quickly with many people suggesting an anonymous tip off.
‘I would let him know, but make it anonymous or set her up to get busted by her fiancé,’ one man wrote before revealing his wife had cheated on him.
Some people told her to warn her mum and give her a chance to confess before speaking with her step father.
‘If you tell him it will likely destroy your relationship with your mother, with this in mind I would suggest giving her a chance to come clean,’ one woman said.
The 18-year-old woman explained her mum is currently engaged to a man she has been with for three years, but for most of the time she hasn’t been faithful
Other people told the teenager to save her own relationship with the step father and tell him.
‘If you tell him, there’s a chance you can still be friends since your mum clearly won’t confess. If you don’t tell him, and he finds out you not only knew and knew for years, he won’t talk to either of you,’ they said.
Before adding: ‘If you tell him, ask he doesn’t say you told him when he confronts your mum.’
‘Tell him so he can move on with someone else and stop wasting his life with your mum,’ said another.
One woman said the teenager would need evidence when she went to her stepfather otherwise her mother could lie her way out of everything.
‘Record her admitting everything or send screenshots from her phone,’ she said.
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