Do you want to know who is truly your friend? Women reveal a simple way to find out

Women reveal the one trait all true friends exhibit – and how to easily sniff out a faux connection.

Models and TikTok stars Sahar Dahi and Danisha Carter recently came together to unmask the one ‘horrible’ behaviour most fake friends have in common.

The women revealed that true friends will always be wary of people who have wronged you in the past, even if you have since forgiven them.

If a friend does not treat someone hurting you as a black mark on their character, they probably do not care about you. 

People should always take note of how their friends interact with the people who have caused them harm.

Sahar explained her theory in a video.

‘If you ever want to see who your real friends are and who truly loves you, see how they treat the people who hurt you,’ she said.

‘Because when my friends get hurt by someone, I despise [the perpetrator].’

Sahar immediately relegates the attackers to ‘horrible human beings’ who ‘did not deserve’ her friend in the first place.

‘And even when my friend is friends with them again, or they’re good with them and everything’s fine – I’m still on edge.’

‘If your friends aren’t like that towards the people who hurt you – they don’t care about you,’ she revealed.

The woman also added: ‘When you genuinely care about someone, it’s your instinct to dislike the people who hurt them.’

Danisha Carter [pictured] agreed that friends should always be loyal to each other

Many agreed with Sahar’s statement and shared instances where their friends have disappointed them.

‘You’re so right for this – your friends should back you!’

‘One of my best friends is best friends with the person who hurt me.’

‘You’re not loyal if you don’t hate the same people even if they did nothing to you.’ 

‘My friend literally goes to parties with the people who bully me.’

‘I was harassed by someone in my friend group and my other friend said he didn’t feel comfortable rocking the boat and taking sides.’ 

But others weren’t so quick to pull the chord. 

‘I disagree with this respectfully – I don’t care if my friends are friends with them, it’s not their drama, it’s mine,’ one woman said.

‘You can’t just drag your friends into your life, it creates an echo chamber.’ 

‘This is a very backward way of thinking, you can’t dictate what someone else does.’

‘Nobody owes you anything, you will have no friends at this rate.’