Experts reveal male erogenous zones women should focus on during sex

Sex experts reveal the top male erogenous zones that women should pay attention to on their partner during intercourse.

While you may have thought there were only a few hot spots on the male body to focus your attention on during sexual encounters, there are actually quite a few major focal points on the male body that when triggered, can instantly lead to an orgasm.

From focusing on the inside and outside of the bum to humming on the nape of the neck, Women’s Health spoke to a series of experts to get the low-down on the zones that have the most heightened sensitivity.

Zones: Sex experts reveal the top male erogenous zones that women should pay attention to on their partner during intercourse

Zones: Sex experts reveal the top male erogenous zones that women should pay attention to on their partner during intercourse

1. Mouth

Kissing boosts levels of dopamine in the brain, a desire-spiking neurotransmitter in both men and women, according to a study in The American Journal of Medicine.

Sexologist Carol Queen suggests: ‘Trace his lips slowly with your tongue or softly bite the edge of his lower lip with your teeth.’

Kissing also releases the hormone oxytocin which is also referred to as the ‘love hormone’ because of its role in bonding with another partner, according to Greatist.

The lips are actually quite sensitive and can increase in sensitivity with proper kissing techniques, Dr. Bartlik tells Cosmopolitan.

‘The mucous membranes that comprise the lips have a dense supply of nerve endings.

‘Plus, the skin here is very thin, so that network of nerves is closer to the surface, making it more responsive to stimulation,’ Dr. Bartlik continued.

Shockingly, aside from the mouth many men admitted that their chin is a hot spot that they wish women would pay attention to more and admitted that getting their chin tickled is a turn on, according to

2. Ears

Touching the ears is second to the scrotum as a body part that can help men ‘reach their peak.’

In a survey, ears ranked just behind the scrotum as a body part that, when touched, can help men reach their peak. Who knew it was such a turn on?

One technique suggested is: ‘Try delicately nibbling or licking his ears as he’s getting closer to orgasm while whispering something like: ‘Do you like it when I touch you?’

Aside from whispering in his ear, another technique can just be touching the ear, according to Woman’s Day.

Amy Levine, a New York City-based sex coach said to take your thumb and index finger placing them in the corner where the ear lobe meets the face.

‘Then, gently pull down and let your fingers slide off so you can start again,’ she suggests.

3. Scrotum

The scrotum is very sensitive to any type of touch which is why sex coach Charlie Glickman warned not to bite or pinch the area.

Instead, Charlie suggests: ‘Gentle sucking, squeezing or cupping, which may help some men reach climax more easily during sex.’

As for foreplay, the sex coach said to try this technique: ‘Start with your hand around both balls, then bring your fingertips together over them – like you’re picking up a napkin off the floor.’

4. Neck

A study published in the journal Ergonomics states that the nape of the neck is fond of ‘low-frequency vibrations.’

Sex expert Emily Morse suggests: ‘Take advantage by kissing the back of his neck with your mouth slightly open and hum.

‘The combination of heat and vibrations will help prompt some serious sensations for him.’

5. Penis shaft

A survey published in the journal BJU International states that men find the shaft the most prone to ‘orgasmic sensitivity’ compared to the rest of the bottom area.

‘Because the internal erectile tissues lie deep beneath the skin’s surface, when it comes to how to get your grip on, the best sex tips for women will tell you that many guys like the shaft handled pretty firmly,’ Women’s Health stated.

As for how to perform this task: ‘Form a fist around it, moving up and down and adding pressure as you go,’ the site states.

6. Nipples

In a study done by the journal Cortex, men confessed that nipples are one of their biggest turn-ons.

Carol Queen suggests, ‘Suck on one while stroking your man’s penis with your hand.

‘Adding the two erogenous zones together can be very pleasurable,’ she says.

Carol also suggested to Cosmopolitan, ‘Lightly dance around his nipples and the areolae with your fingertip to draw out the excitement.

‘Hold it between your lips and suck, bite lightly, then gently swirl your tongue around it and give it a kiss.

‘Periodically, pull away and just graze the area with your hair or your lips, letting your hot breath linger on one nipple, then the other.’

7. Glans

The glans or the head of the penis has many more nerves than the shaft does which Dr. Dany Cordeau compares to a clitoris, ‘Though it’s not nearly as sensitive.’

Carol suggests: ‘After coating your fingers in lube, loop them into an O shape and slide them over the glans. Then use short, slow pumps that tighten around the tip.’

Another way to use the glans to your advantage Carol says is to, ‘Run your tongue all over the glans and use some soft suction during oral.’

8. Bum

Charlie Glickman said in his book The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure that the prostate gland, ‘located a finger’s length inside the bum,’ is the ‘male G-spot’.

Carol suggests, ‘To hit this orgasm-inducing region, you’ll need to insert a well-lubricated digit into your man’s behind, directed toward the front of his body.’

‘If neither you nor him is up for that, you can also stimulate the prostate by touching the perineum,’ she continued.

9. Perineum 

The perineum is located ‘behind the scrotum and before his rear entry,’ and the area holds the man’s ‘ejaculatory muscles.’

Charlie said, ‘When massaged, can make his blast-off feel even more intense.’

Emily Morse suggested utilizing this area during oral sex: ‘Use your thumb to gently rub the perineum in a circular motion, keeping in rhythm with what your mouth is doing.

‘Right before he is about to finish, press the spot firmly to give him an orgasm to top all orgasms.’

According to Love Panky, the cowgirl sex position is the best position to reach his ‘P-Spot’ as they call it.

The site suggests that while you’re on top of him in that position, ‘Press the area between his anus and testicles with the knuckle of your index finger,’ but they warn to be gentle because you may accidentally scratch the sensitive area.


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