How important is romance in a relationship? Singles share what REALLY matters to them – and whether you should kiss on a first date
- Australian singles say they believe romance is crucial in all relationships
- But there was a fierce debate on whether kissing on the first date was okay
- Some think a kiss on the cheek is fine, however others say ‘only a real kiss’ will do
Australian singles have debated whether romance is important in modern relationships and if it is appropriate to kiss on the first date.
While most people agreed it is important to make romantic gestures in a relationship, no-one could agree on a firm rule for first date kisses.
One woman said ‘if you are really into someone’ a kiss on the cheek is sufficient. Her post was liked by both men and women.
Australian singles have debated whether romance is important in modern relationships and if it is appropriate to kiss on the first date (stock image)
However other women said they do like to be kissed on the first date, if it ‘feels right’.
The majority of men on the thread appeared to think a first date kiss was essential, with one adding both men and women have ‘a lot of options’ in 2021, so a kiss helps to seal the deal.
‘If she wants a second date it has to be yes. There’s too many options nowadays,’ he said.
While a love therapist on the thread said kissing on the first date, or not, ‘won’t make any difference’.
Another woman said the answer is ‘YES’ and added it is no longer the 1900s.
Others said it depends on the chemistry in the moment – and each date has to be played by ear.
Everyone agreed romance to be important, with some saying small gestures every day help keep relationships strong (stock image)
Everyone agreed romance to be important, with some saying small gestures every day help keep relationships strong.
Another woman said she was lucky to have a very romantic partner.
‘He put in my diary (via calendar invitation) ‘surprise dinner, dress up be ready for 6pm’ I’m just getting ready,’ she said.