An Instagram model has revealed she caught her boyfriend cheating with other women and prostitutes through his Apple Watch.
Neyleen Ashley, 30, from Miami, Florida, who boasts 1.6M followers, met her ex-boyfriend, who has not been named, through mutual friends back in 2016.
She thought he was immature at first and wasn’t suitable for her long-term, but her affection for him grew and things soon became serious.
However, Neyleen always saw red flags throughout their long-distance relationship, but would sweep it under the rug as she was completely smitten by him.
‘My feelings about him were that he was very immature and not ready to settle down,’ she explained. ‘But as things progressed the feelings grew and eventually we became very serious about each other.’
‘But I always saw red flags, being that we were in a long distance relationship things were easy for him to keep under wraps.
Neyleen Ashley (pictured), 30, from Miami, Florida, told how she caught her boyfriend cheating with other women and prostitutes through his Apple Watch
The Instagram model, who boasts 1.6M followers, met her ex-boyfriend through mutual friends back in 2016
Neyleen continued: ‘He would never post me on social media, and he was very secretive about his phone.
‘I always posted him on my stories and made it known I was in a relationship, and my phone was always at his disposal.’
After they moved in together, Neyleen became the sole bread winner and helped pay for all her partner’s expenses – but little did she know, he was seeing other women behind her back.
The model had a hunch something was wrong and admitted their relationship was always ‘rocky’, but she said her caring nature often took over and she became blind-sided to his behavior.
‘Our relationship was always rocky,’ she added. ‘He never made me feel secure as a woman, or that I was worth anything.
‘I figured dating a normal man from a small town that he would be in “awe” of me, but he treated me like I was anyone else.
While Neyleen (pictured) thought he ex was immature at first, her affection for him grew and things soon became serious
‘At the time he was trying to get his life in order, so I was the sole money maker towards the end of the relationship, and he used my money and his free time to see prostitutes, go to massage parlors or even have another girlfriend in another city.
‘He left me to see these prostitutes on my mother’s birthday knowing how stressed I was, and wouldn’t even talk to me on my birthday or post anything because he didn’t want his other girlfriend to see.’
One day, Neyleen noticed her boyfriend’s Apple Watch buzzing repeatedly with notifications while he was outside of their home.
Out of curiosity, she decided to check it up and was mortified to find pictures of a girl in lingerie, along with dozens of messages from prostitutes.
She soon found out he had been corresponding with these girls for months and was meeting prostitutes every week since they had started dating.
‘I found out he cheated because I had a hunch for a long long time,’ she explained. ‘I am very intuitive and I knew something was off.’
‘Although I wanted to trust him, I felt like I was getting taken advantage of. Not only financially, but personally because I’m such a loving and caring person.
‘One day I was home and he was washing his truck outside, I saw his Apple Watch going off buzzing and buzzing and buzzing.
‘I got curious because I saw a small square that looked like a picture of a girl’s butt in underwear and I opened it.
The model (pictured) told how one day when her ex was out of the house, she noticed his Apple Watch buzzing repeatedly – and so she checked it out of curiosity
Neyleen (pictured) discovered pictures of a girl in lingerie, along with dozens of messages from prostitutes
‘In utter shock and disbelief, I found numerous attempts to meet prostitutes at massage parlors, hotels and their home.
‘One girl even said: “I can’t, my parents are home.”‘
‘I saw numerous girls sending him pictures on his birthday, and texts from his ex as well.
She continued: ‘I then decided to take the Apple Watch with me and I left the house and parked by a spot with open land close to my house because I could not breathe…
‘I kept investigating and I found messages and calls from one specific number. I saw messages saying: “I wanted to f*** you’ the same day he left me and told me he loved me.’
‘I saw messages saying how much he missed her and liked her, all while he never acknowledged my presence and often left me with arms wide open when trying to hug him goodbye or hello.
‘I found out that he had a whole other girlfriend for several months, side chicks, talking to his ex and meeting with multiple prostitutes weekly.’
Neyleen decided to confront her boyfriend at the time, but he ended up downplaying the entire incident.
After their break up, she claimed her ex begged for her back and even contacted her friends and family to convince her he had ‘changed’.
However, Neyleen said she has no plans of going back to him and now hopes to move forward with her life.
‘I am feeling empowered and actually very strong,’ she said. ‘Unfortunately, I can’t say I’ve never had a good relationship or partner because I love too hard and give too easily and conform.
After further digging, Neyleen (pictured) found out her ex had been corresponding with these girls for months and was meeting prostitutes every week since they had started dating
Since her shock discovery, the Instagram model has spoken out in the hope of making others realise that if they have been cheated on, it’s not their fault
‘So, I allow myself to be a doormat, because I didn’t know my worth back then. But now I know how indestructible I truly am, and how strong and beautiful I have become.
Neyleen stressed the importance of believing in one’s worth, and advised others who’ve experienced what she has to know it is not their fault if their partner cheats.
She said it’s people’s ‘insecurities’ which reflect their behavior and urged others to focus on loving themselves from within.
‘Please know this is not your fault, this is not because of you,’ she said. ‘Cheaters become that way because they have their own insecurities and need fulfillment in the form of other people.
‘It’s not your fault, it never was and it never will be. They say time heals all, and it is true.
‘I used the pain I was in to rebuild myself using the bricks life has thrown at me, and now I’m an indestructible power house.’
She added: ‘I am learning to move on by truly looking at myself from the inside out and knowing that I was a good person. I was good to him. I was there for him when he had nothing and all he did was take and take.’
‘I learned that a good heart will always be a good heart, no matter how much people try to destroy it.
‘I know my worth now more than ever. In the words of Selena Gomez, “I needed to lose you, to love me.'”
Neyleen (pictures) said how she knows her self-worth now, more than ever before and is speaking out to help others feel the same