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NRL WAG Zoe Marshall calls for end to surrogacy questions after suffering miscarriage 

‘You never know what a woman is going through’: NRL WAG Zoe Marshall, 34, calls for an end to surrogacy questions after suffering her heartbreaking miscarriage

Zoe Marshall has called for people to stop asking women about their pregnancy plans, after suffering a devastating miscarriage.

The NRL WAG revealed she has been asked if she would use a surrogate, and feels the question is ‘loaded’ and should not be asked. 

In an Instagram post shared on Saturday, the 34-year-old wrote at length: ‘A stranger asked me last night ‘would you use a surrogate?’ 

Keen mum: Zoe Marshall has called for people to stop asking women about their pregnancy plans, after suffering a devastating miscarriage. The NRL WAG revealed she has been asked if she would use a surrogate. Pictured with husband Benji Marshall and son Benjamin

‘It’s so loaded. Asking these questions has to stop. Asking a woman if she’s trying for a baby? Or when are you having ANOTHER baby? Or suggesting, you should have another, you make such cute kids. Stop. 

‘You never know what a woman is going through. Has she just miscarried? Is she physically or mentally trying to recover from a loss, or from the constant disappointment of ‘trying’, is she battling fertility issues? 

‘Is she due to get an operation? Is she happy being child free? Happy having just one baby? Two? I’ve been guilty of asking one of those mindless questions without thinking and I get it’s usually not meant with malice. 

In an Instagram post shared on Saturday, the 34-year-old wrote at length: 'A stranger asked me last night 'would you use a surrogate?' It's so loaded. Asking these questions has to stop'

 In an Instagram post shared on Saturday, the 34-year-old wrote at length: ‘A stranger asked me last night ‘would you use a surrogate?’ It’s so loaded. Asking these questions has to stop’

‘But let this be your hot tip. It’s not a helpful question – really, ever. So no I haven’t thought of having a surrogate. Because I’ve not needed to cross that bridge. 

‘To all of the women that have had to dodge these questions. I see you. I feel you. Be patient with your nosy Aunty or the stranger on the internet, they really don’t get it.’

In April, Zoe revealed the devastating miscarriage she suffered late last year. 

In an Instagram video, Zoe, who is married to footballer Benji Marshall, poured out her emotions in a candid post, at times breaking down in tears. 

Hard: In April, Zoe revealed the devastating miscarriage she suffered late last year. In an Instagram video, Zoe, who is married to footballer Benji Marshall, poured out her emotions in a candid post, at times breaking down in tears

 Hard: In April, Zoe revealed the devastating miscarriage she suffered late last year. In an Instagram video, Zoe, who is married to footballer Benji Marshall, poured out her emotions in a candid post, at times breaking down in tears

Tragic: She told her fans that she fell pregnant just 16 months after the birth of her first son, Benjamin Fox, two.  However, after warming to the idea of having another child, at her 10 week scan, Zoe received tragic news

 Tragic: She told her fans that she fell pregnant just 16 months after the birth of her first son, Benjamin Fox, two.  However, after warming to the idea of having another child, at her 10 week scan, Zoe received tragic news

She told her fans that she fell pregnant just 16 months after the birth of her first son, Benjamin Fox, two.   

However, after warming to the idea of having another child, at her 10 week scan, Zoe received tragic news. 

‘I just remember a woman saying “there’s nothing in there”. I was just so floored and so upset. There were no signs of it. No bleeding, no pus. And I just felt so betrayed by my own body.’

Zoe wed NRL Wests Tigers star Benji Marshall, 34, at a private estate in Byron Bay back in 2013, and they share their son, Benjamin Fox. 

Family: Zoe wed NRL Wests Tigers star Benji, 34, at a private estate in Byron Bay back in 2013, and they share their son, Benjamin Fox

Family: Zoe wed NRL Wests Tigers star Benji, 34, at a private estate in Byron Bay back in 2013, and they share their son, Benjamin Fox

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