The Queen’s playboy cousin was jailed for ten months today for a violent sexual assault at his ancestral home in the Highlands where the Queen Mother grew up and Shakespeare was inspired to write Macbeth.
Simon Bowes-Lyon, 34, who was named in the top 50 of the UK’s most eligible bachelors by Tatler in 2019, has also been placed on the sex offenders register for a decade after abusing his victim, 26, at Glamis Castle in Scotland last February.
Sitting at Dundee Sheriff Court this morning, Sheriff Alistair Carmichael, told Bowes-Lyon, known as Sam to friends, that the offence was so serious that he had to go to prison because it would send the wrong message to others, ignoring the laird’s plea for a suspended sentence.
Bowes-Lyon forced his way into the woman’s room, grabbed her breasts and forced her on to the bed telling her he was ‘going to f**k her’.
His victim, who cannot be named for legal reasons, had undergone ‘cognitive behaviour therapy’ in the wake of the attack and still has nightmares more than a year after the incident, the court heard.
Sheriff Carmichael told him as he stood in the dock: ‘She had no sexual interest in you and had done nothing that could be interpreted by you to the contrary.
‘You went to her bedroom and persuaded her to open the door, pushed your way into the room, pushed her onto the bed and grabbed her hard on the nipple and tried to push her nightdress up.
‘You told her that you were going to f**k her and that she needed a shafting. You continued to pull at her and tried to kiss her. Throughout all this she made it clear she wanted you to stop.’.
The 19th and 6th Earl of Strathmore and Kinghorne was styled Lord Glamis until his father’s death in 2016 and among his famous friends are Made In Chelsea TV stars Hugo Taylor and Oliver Proudlock, Bryan Ferry’s son Otis and model and socialite Poppy Delevingne.
He is a first cousin twice removed of Queen Elizabeth II. His family owns Glamis Castle – the childhood home of the Queen Mother and the home of Macbeth in William Shakespeare’s play – and inherited a share of his father’s £40million estate.
Simon Bowes-Lyon, the Earl of Strathmore, arrives at Dundee Sheriff Court today where he was jailed for ten months for a sex attack
The violent incident, to which the 34-year-old aristocrat has admitted, took place at Glamis Castle – the childhood home of the Queen Mother. The castle, found near the village of Glamis in Angus, Scotland is the seat of the Earl and Countess of Strathmore and Kinghorne
Bowes-Lyon (circled) – who as a 15-year-old walked behind Prince William in the Queen Mother’s funeral cortege – issued an apology to his victim as he left court, adding that he is ‘greatly ashamed’ of his conduct and that ‘alcohol is no excuse’
The current Earl of Strathmore and Kinghorne found himself in the dock after he barged his way into the woman’s bedroom while she was sleeping during an event he was hosting at Glamis Castle – the childhood home of the Queen Mother and the home of Macbeth in William Shakespeare’s play.
Bowes-Lyon – who as a 15-year-old walked behind Prince William in the Queen Mother’s funeral cortege – issued an apology to his victim as he left court after pleading guilty last month, adding that he is ‘greatly ashamed’ of his conduct and that ‘alcohol is no excuse’.
He repeatedly grabbed his victim and told her he wanted to have an affair with her – although he is unmarried – during the drink-fuelled assault, which lasted more than 20 minutes.
He is said to have tried to pull up her nightdress, and pushed her up against a wall and groped her bottom and genitals.
Even after she managed to get him out of the room, the terrified woman heard Bowes-Lyon coming back and trying to get back in a second time.
Sheriff Alistair Carmichael said today: ‘She was afraid to the extent that she locked the door and wedged a chair under the handle. She was left shaking.
‘Even now, one year on, she still has nightmares and feels panic because of being sexually assaulted by you. It was made worse that you were her host.
‘You assaulted her in the face of repeated protestations to stop and you repeatedly prevented the complainer from getting away. The force, aggression and persistence you used are concerning.
‘The sentence must reflect the gravity of this crime and the need for punishment to adequately express society’s disapproval.’
He imposed an initial sentence of 15 months and reduced it to ten months to recognise the plea of guilty at the first opportunity by Bowes-Lyon.
Counsel for the accused, John Scott QC, asked the court to impose a non-custodial sentence and said his client had expressed genuine remorse for his behaviour.
He said: ‘His sense of deep regret and deep shame comes through. It is entirely out of character for the accused.
‘He does not wish to be treated better than anyone else and nor should he be. Nor should he be treated any worse.
‘Character references speak to his otherwise exemplary behaviour and a picture of some of the challenges he has had in life that might not necessarily be widely understood or known, and rather assumptions are made about his privilege.
‘He has recognised he did something very bad and he is sorry for it. He is only at medium risk of reconviction.’
Simon Bowes-Lyon, pictured left with his friend Made In Chelsea star Hugo Taylor in his Rolls Royce, has been warned he faces prison after a sex attack at his ancestral home
Bowes-Lyons, pictured here with friend Hugo at a party, in an Instagram post liked by his friend Poppy Delevingne, who used several heart emojis
The Earl poses with his brothers John and George, who have homes in London, County Durham and also lived together at the family castle in Scotland
Troubled Laird’s brushes with police and how his sex assault conviction is another cursed day for the Bowes-Lyon family
The fourth season of The Crown tells the tragic story of the Queen’s ‘hidden’ cousins Katherine (left) and Nerissa Bowes-Lyon (right), who were locked up in an asylum and neglected
Simon Bowes-Lyon is facing jail for a violent sex assault – but it is not the first time he’s been in trouble with the law – and yet another stain on the Queen Mother’s family.
The troubled Earl is a first cousin twice removed of Queen Elizabeth II, and a great-great-nephew of the late Queen Elizabeth The Queen Mother. His family owns Glamis Castle and inherited a share of his father’s £40 million estate.
His father was known for his chequered relationships and struggles with alcohol.
In June 2020, Durham Police contacted the Earl for violating the COVID-19 related travel restrictions then in place.
A report said he travelled 200 miles to Holwick Lodge, Middleton-in-Teesdale, and was outed when his butler went to the shops.
In 2010 he was banned from the road for nine months after he was clocked riding his motorbike at 100 mph on a 60 mph stretch of road.
And now he faces up to five years in prison for an appalling sex attack on a guest to his home.
The latest episode is yet another stain on the Bowes-Lyon family.
The latest series of The Crown told the tragic story of the Queen’s ‘hidden’ cousins who were locked up in an asylum and registered as dead after being born with severe learning difficulties.
The Netflix drama offers its take on the shameful scandal that saw sisters Katherine and Nerissa Bowes-Lyon – the Queen Mother’s nieces – neglected and forgotten about for decades.
At the ages of 15 and 22 respectively, the pair, who were unable to speak due to their condition, were secretly placed in the Royal Earlswood Institution for Mental Defectives in Redhill, Surrey by their parents in 1941.
They remained at the institution, cruelly dubbed The National Asylum for Idiots, for the majority of their lives and, according to reports, were barely ever visited and registered as dead.
Mr Scott told the court that Bowes-Lyon had childhood issues but had not fully expressed them to social workers as he preferred to focus on the happy parts of his upbringing.
The aristocrat was hosting a party for a luxury lifestyle magazine, where guests enjoyed gin tasting, helicopter rides, shooting and a tour of the castle.
His victim took pity on her attacker when she noticed no-one was talking to Bowes-Lyon during dinner and she engaged him in conversation, he then took her outside to show her one of his many classic cars.
The following evening there was a black tie dinner and, after the victim went to bed, Bowes-Lyon carried on drinking before arriving uninvited at her room at 1.20 am and carried out the attack on the woman, who cannot be named.
In a statement outside court after pleading guilty last month, Bowes-Lyon apologised and said he is ‘greatly ashamed of my actions which have caused such distress to a guest in my home’.
He said he had ‘drunk to excess’ on the night of the attack, which he said was ‘no excuse’ for his actions.
He added: ‘I did not think I was capable of behaving the way I did but have had to face up to it and take responsibility.
‘Over the last year this has involved seeking and receiving professional help as well as agreeing to plead guilty as quickly as possible.
‘My apologies go, above all, to the woman concerned but I would also like to apologise to family, friends and colleagues for the distress I have caused them.’
Bowes-Lyon, known for his love of fast cars and holidays with reality TV stars, was named one of the UK’s most eligible bachelors by Tatler in 2019.
Last month MailOnline revealed that just weeks after the sex attack, in June 2020, Durham Police contacted the Earl, whose friends call him Sam, for violating the COVID-19 related travel restrictions banning from people leaving home.
He had travelled 200 miles to England to stay at one of his second properties, a lodge on the family’s £20million Holwick estate in Middleton-in-Teesdale, just outside Barnard Castle, where Dominic Cummings went on his notorious lockdown drive to test his eyesight a month earlier.
Bowes-Lyon was outed to local detectives when one of his servants was seen as he went to the shops. ‘It’s the talk of the village,’ a local source said at the time. ‘His butler was spotted buying newspapers.’ The Earl then agreed to return to Glamis Castle in Scotland – the childhood home of the Queen Mother, north of Dundee.
And in 2010 he was banned from the road for nine months after he was clocked riding his motorbike at 100 mph on a 60 mph stretch of road. It was noted in court, as the then 24-year-old was fined £500, that his licence had already accumulated 23 penalty points due to various speeding convictions.
His father, the rambunctious Mikey, was a larger-than-life character who battled alcohol problems, married three times, romped with escorts and was known as the ‘head of the Queen’s Scottish family’.
This highly-colourful lifestyle – and a series of scandals – meant the young Lord Glamis, along with his two brothers John ‘Jock’ Bowes-Lyon, 31, and George ‘Geordie’ Bowes-Lyon, did not have the most conventional start in life.
Glamis Castle is the seat of the earls of Strathmore and Kinghorne, part of the late Queen Mother’s family.
The nobleman and peer was styled Lord Glamis from 1987 until his father’s death in 2016. He is the eldest son of Michael ‘Mikey’ Bowes-Lyon, 18th Earl of Strathmore and Kinghorn, and Isobel Weatherall. His parents divorced in 2004, and he succeeded his father in 2016.
His father was known for his chequered relationships and struggles with alcohol. The former Scots Guards captain was considered to be ‘head of the Queen’s Scottish family’ and walked behind Prince Charles and Prince William at the Queen Mother’s funeral.
Bowes-Lyon, known for his love of fast cars and holidays with reality TV stars, was named one of the UK’s most eligible bachelors by Tatler in 2019. Pictured: Simon Bowes-Lyon with his father the Earl of Strathmore in 2000
Sam has reportedly spent time working in a mine in Zimbabwe, and is pals with the fast-living Chelsea set, some of whom have become TV stars thanks to the reality television show Made In Chelsea. In particular, he is close to the show’s star Hugo Taylor.
The pair shared an ill-fated skiing trip to Switzerland that saw Taylor end up in hospital with a fractured shoulder. Other friends include the show’s Oliver Proudjoined lock and fashionista Rosie Fortescue.
Another chum is Otis Ferry, the controversial son of Bryan Ferry and fox hunting advocate. He is also acquainted with the model and socialite Poppy Delevingne, older sister to the increasingly ubiquitous model Cara Delevingne. His royal connections, meanwhile, are never far away. George McCorquodale, cousin to Prince Harry and Prince William and nephew of the late Diana, Princess of Wales, is another pal.
The Bowes-Lyon brothers certainly seem at home at Glamis.
In one Instagram video posted by Geordie, a scene that wouldn’t be out of place in Brideshead Revisited unfolds as what appears to be Sam and a friend whiz up the main drive in a motorbike and sidecar.
Driving at some speed, they narrowly avoid clipping the verge while bemused tourists look on.
Indeed life for the trio seems to be something of a whirlwind of walked up grouse shoots, society parties and girls in pretty dresses – another of their father’s weaknesses.
The demise of Mikey’s first marriage to the boys’ mother was turbulent. Isobel – known to friends as Iso – demanded the right to live at Glamis until 2016, the year Geordie would reach the age of 25.
In the end, she accepted a £5million settlement which, at her insistence, included paintings and the couple’s matrimonial four poster bed.
She later sold the bed at auction in London, where she raised eyebrows by scribbling out the ‘Countess of Strathmore’ title from her name badge and writing in ‘Iso’ instead.
Earl’s castle was home to the Queen Mother… and Macbeth
Glamis Castle inspired Shakespeare and was the childhood home of the Queen Mother.
It has witnessed some of Scotland’s most momentous historical events over the past 1,000 years. King Malcolm II was killed at a hunting lodge on the site of the present-day castle in 1034.
In the Shakespeare tragedy, Macbeth lived at Glamis Castle in the 11th century, although in reality the king had no connection to the place.
Glamis has been the seat of the Bowes-Lyon family since 1372. The Queen Mother, who was born Elizabeth Bowes-Lyon in 1900 (pictured), grew up there.
During the First World War she worked as a nurse when part of her ancestral home was used as a hospital for wounded troops.
Glamis Castle was where she was wooed by the then-Duke of York – the future George VI – and they spent part of their honeymoon there.
The Queen Mother, pictured, gave birth to Princess Margaret on a stormy night at Glamis in 1930. She was the first royal baby born in Scotland since 1600.