A single mother was rejected by a man on the Plenty of Fish dating website as he was repulsed by the idea of her ‘cleaning someone else’s a**’.
Chloe Hawke, from Bodmin in Cornwall, had been chatting to ‘Chris from Devon’ for a couple of days.
He was initially keen and showered her with compliments until she mentioned her one-year-old son Noah.
When he found out she was a mother he said: ‘You wipe your child’s a** when he’s had a s***? F*** being with someone who cleans someone else’s a**’.
Disgusted by the comment Miss Hawke said: ‘Anyone who doesn’t respect me as a mother is just not worth my time.’
She has now spoken out about her experience in a stark warning to other women searching for love online.
Chloe Hawke was rejected by a man on the Plenty of Fish dating website because of her one-year-old son Noah (pictured together)
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Miss Hawke signed up for the Plenty of Fish site after several of her friends found success on it
Recalling the incident she said: ‘We spoke for a couple of days, telling stupid, funny jokes and then he said “you seem interesting, tell me more about yourself”. As soon as I said I was a single mum, that’s when he said it.
‘The tone turned completely. He replied “You wipe your child’s a** when he’s had a s**t? F**k being with someone who cleans someone else’s a**.’
‘As soon as he said that he was an utter a**hole in my eyes. I blocked and deleted him straight away.
‘Anyone who doesn’t respect me as a mother is just not worth my time.’
Miss Hawke, a photographer, had decided to sign up for the dating website after several of her friends had success in finding love online.
She said: ‘I’m a single mum but I’m also 21, still young, so I thought I’d download Plenty of fish and see what happens.
‘I know a couple of close friends who have Plenty of Fish and have said it’s worked for them too, so thought it wouldn’t hurt to try it out.
‘I’m a person who likes to joke around and have a laugh and I guess people either get that sense of humour or they don’t.
‘Me and Chris were only talking for a couple of days. My description clearly states I have a child so he obviously didn’t read that.
‘I’m glad I didn’t put effort in talking to him loads for that to come up. I’m glad it was done quite quickly.’
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Miss Hawke has spoken out about her experience in a stark warning to other women searching for love online
She is now urging other mothers not to get despondent while looking for love.
She said: ‘Honestly, one person doesn’t signify how everyone else is, but it shows there are immature people in this world.
‘My general message to other young mums is that even though you’re a mum, you’re still you.
‘Someone will fall in love with you and respect you, it just takes time. I believe it takes longer when you’re a mother because you have your head screwed on and you don’t fall for the immature ones.
‘Having a child makes you more grown up, so I think you’re more careful with who you choose to come into your life.
‘It might take a while, but it’s definitely worth it when you find someone who gets you.’