Man had always the need to survive. From the old times that he lived in the jungles until today.
Surviving in a modern society is based on your ability to make and control money.
From the time that money made it to be the main benchmark for the value of matter, everything began to be directly related to the amount of money we handle.
When a man is unemployed, he is stressed and usually tends to focus on securing again financially.
So that is his top priority because without money he cannot live a decent life.
For a woman this could not be a top priority but we should have in mind that securing financially is usually more important than doing relationships due to the nature of modern surviving.
In life, communication is very important, and true communication makes our lives better.
Modern research have shown that real communication, in other words being able to be yourself and exchange thoughts, or do common activities with others makes us more happy.
It doesn’t really matter if we communicate face to face or through a distance, but it matters for our communication to be real and not to let anyone take advantage of our kindness.
Life sometimes force people to keep a distance. Some circumstances like having a job at another place may create the need to keep a distance in our relationships, but also people sometimes choose to love from a distance because it may be the only way to keep love and not terminate completely the relationship.
I’m not talking about the selfish immature behavior of deliberately keeping distance from people to punish them, but for the real need to keep love without having to stop completely communicating with someone.
Sometimes things don’t go well and people cannot share their inner self with someone and maybe it is better to keep a distance than to push yourself to pretend and do behaviors that are fake and you don’t like. It’s not necessary to insult or hurt others when things don’t go well. Clever people usually choose to keep a distance.
We all know how important love is. The immeasurable power of love can reach across any distance, everything else is in our head.
But I’m not saying that this is easy, because usually we miss the common activities we used to share when we were together and it’s not easy to convince ourselves that everything is in our head, because also the common activities are in our head, so it may need some time to get used to the new balance. Loving from a distance will give space for our thoughts and feelings to come to a new balance and we may realize how important or strong is our relationship, so it may also be wise to keep distance for a while.
Life itself is always in very good balance and even though we can’t have everything many times, the contrasts to these balances are the ones that make us happy.