The Bachelorette: Gabby Windey and Rachel Recchia both learn their suitors are NOT ready to propose

Gabby Windey and Rachel Recchia both came to the same shocking revelation that they might not receive proposals on Tuesday’s live finale of The Bachelorette.

The first part of the two-part finale featured Gabby, 31, and Rachel, 26, in front of a live studio audience with host Jesse Palmer, 43, as they watched their final suitors meet their families in Riviera Maya, Mexico.

‘He just has everything that I’ve even looked for in someone,’ said Gabby in a confessional of her remaining suitor Erich Schwer, 29, a real estate agent from Bedminster, New Jersey. ‘I really, really, really hope at the end that he’s proposing to me.’

Season finale: Gabby Windey and Rachel Recchia both came to the same shocking revelation that they might not receive proposals on Tuesday’s live finale of The Bachelorette

Erich told her he truly loved her, but wanted to first date her in the real world.

‘Getting engaged before that happens is not how things usually go,’ Erich said. ‘I’m sorry if this has been upsetting.’

Gabby stormed out of the room and told a producer what Erich said.

‘I don’t want anyone to be forced,’ Gabby said. ‘He said ”I want to date you.” That’s what he said.’

Tears flowing: Rachel sobbed as she split with Aven Jones after he admitted he wasn't ready to propose

Tears flowing: Rachel sobbed as she split with Aven Jones after he admitted he wasn’t ready to propose

Live show: The first part of the two-part finale featured Gabby, 31, and Rachel, 26, in front of a live studio audience

Live show: The first part of the two-part finale featured Gabby, 31, and Rachel, 26, in front of a live studio audience

The host: Jesse Palmer hosted the first part of the finale on ABC and promised that it would be one to remember

The host: Jesse Palmer hosted the first part of the finale on ABC and promised that it would be one to remember

Stormed away: 'I don't want anyone to be forced,' Gabby said. 'He said ''I want to date you.'' That's what he said'

Stormed away: ‘I don’t want anyone to be forced,’ Gabby said. ‘He said ”I want to date you.” That’s what he said’

‘I want to be with Erich forever,’ Gabby said in a confessional. ‘I want him to propose. So here we are, a big fat dumpster fire.’

The season 19 show opened with Rachel standing with two roses on the table in front of Zach Shallcross, 25, of Anaheim, California; Aven Jones, 28, a sales executive from San Diego; and Tino Franco, 28, a general contractor from the Playa del Rey area of Los Angeles.

Before she could hand out the roses, Zach pulled her aside. He told her that their Fantasy Suite date seemed a little off. Zach said he also felt blindsided by her concerns about his age.

Dumpster fire: 'I want to be with Erich forever,' Gabby said in a confessional. 'I want him to propose. So here we are, a big fat dumpster fire'

Dumpster fire: ‘I want to be with Erich forever,’ Gabby said in a confessional. ‘I want him to propose. So here we are, a big fat dumpster fire’

‘I did really love you,’ Zach said. ‘I saw a future with you but I need to go.’

‘I truly need you to know that I wish I could have gotten there,’ Rachel said.

Rachel walked Zach out and he got into a waiting car and left.

Rose ceremony: The season 19 show opened with Rachel standing with two roses on the table in front of Zach Shallcross, 25, of Anaheim, California; Aven Jones, 28, a sales executive from San Diego; and Tino Franco, 28, a general contractor from the Playa del Rey area of Los Angeles

Rose ceremony: The season 19 show opened with Rachel standing with two roses on the table in front of Zach Shallcross, 25, of Anaheim, California; Aven Jones, 28, a sales executive from San Diego; and Tino Franco, 28, a general contractor from the Playa del Rey area of Los Angeles

‘Over just like that,’ Zach said as the car drove away. ‘This still doesn’t feel real. She was in my mind the future Mrs. Shallcross.’

Zach cried in the car and questioned whether she ever really cared for him.

‘Or if that was just an act,’ Zach said.

Wet eyes: Zach cried in the car and questioned whether she ever really cared for him

Wet eyes: Zach cried in the car and questioned whether she ever really cared for him

Rachel returned to the rose ceremony and told Aven and Tino about what had happened.

Rachel then gave both Tino and Aven roses.

Back at the live finale in Los Angeles, Zach and Rachel faced each other for the first time since the show wrapped.

Two roses: Rachel then gave both Tino and Aven roses

Two roses: Rachel then gave both Tino and Aven roses

Together again: Back at the live finale in Los Angeles, Zach and Rachel faced each other for the first time since the show wrapped

Together again: Back at the live finale in Los Angeles, Zach and Rachel faced each other for the first time since the show wrapped

‘I want you to know those feelings that I had, those were real,’ Rachel said.

‘I saw a future with you and the reality was it just wasn’t going to happen,’ Zach said. ‘That was a hard thing to just realize.’

Jesse said people were wondering what happened during the Fantasy Suite date that seemed to make their relationship come crashing down.

People wondering: Jesse said people were wondering what happened during the Fantasy Suite date that seemed to make their relationship come crashing down

People wondering: Jesse said people were wondering what happened during the Fantasy Suite date that seemed to make their relationship come crashing down

‘It felt like we were two strangers in a way,’ Zach said.

On the show, Rachel and Gabby’s families and friends traveled to Mexico to meet the remaining men. Aven talked to Rachel’s father ‘Big Tony.’

‘This is my daughter,’ Tony said. ‘She’s my pride and joy and nobody is going to take her away from me without a fight.’

Candid conversation: Aven talked to Rachel's father 'Big Tony'

Candid conversation: Aven talked to Rachel’s father ‘Big Tony’

‘I’m falling in love with your daughter,’ Aven said.

Aven told Rachel’s two best friends Nate and Sam that he could see himself getting to the point of proposing. Nate asked him if he had made it clear to Rachel he wasn’t ready for an engagement.

‘She is ready for an engagement,’ Nate said. ‘If she comes home not engaged that’s going to be really hard.’

She's ready: 'She is ready for an engagement,' Nate said. 'If she comes home not engaged that's going to be really hard'

She’s ready: ‘She is ready for an engagement,’ Nate said. ‘If she comes home not engaged that’s going to be really hard’

Nate later told Rachel that Aven couldn’t give him an answer about whether he would be ready for an engagement at the end. Rachel was upset.

‘This is shocking because this is not what he told me,’ Rachel said.

Rachel spoke to Aven after about her concerns.

Shocking development: 'This is shocking because this is not what he told me,' Rachel said

Shocking development: ‘This is shocking because this is not what he told me,’ Rachel said

‘I’m falling in love with you,’ Aven said. ‘I want to get to that point with you so much. I just want to make sure that it’s 100 percent right for both of us right now.’

‘You know this is what I want,’ Rachel said.

‘I just want to make sure that it’s right,’ Aven said. ‘This is both our lives.’

Hundred percent: 'I'm falling in love with you,' Aven said. 'I want to get to that point with you so much. I just want to make sure that it's 100 percent right for both of us right now'

Hundred percent: ‘I’m falling in love with you,’ Aven said. ‘I want to get to that point with you so much. I just want to make sure that it’s 100 percent right for both of us right now’

‘That’s hard for me to hear,’ Rachel said as she started to cry.

Aven said he was just being honest with her.

‘I just feel shook up,’ Rachel said crying in a confessional. ‘I feel really confused and blindsided.’

Getting emotional: 'That's hard for me to hear,' Rachel said as she started to cry

Getting emotional: ‘That’s hard for me to hear,’ Rachel said as she started to cry

Gabby then had her family meet her remaining suitor Erich. She told them she already told Erich that she loved him. Gabby’s father Patrick asked Erich how he knew that their daughter was the right person.

‘I am obsessed with her,’ Erich said. ‘I can’t imagine my life without her at this point.’

Patrick asked Gabby the same question.

Her family: Gabby then had her family meet her remaining suitor Erich

Her family: Gabby then had her family meet her remaining suitor Erich

‘He just loves me in a way that I haven’t had before, which I know that I need,’ Gabby said. ‘I think when something is that good you are afraid to lose it.’

Gabby started crying and said her feelings were exacerbated because she felt unloved at a young age by her mother.

‘I want the best for her,’ said Gabby’s grandfather John.

Feels obsessed: 'I am obsessed with her,' Erich said. 'I can't imagine my life without her at this point'

Feels obsessed: ‘I am obsessed with her,’ Erich said. ‘I can’t imagine my life without her at this point’

Rachel brought Tino to meet her family. She told them she fell for Tino really early, but that his family didn’t like her.

‘I’m sure they will eventually come around,’ Rachel said.

Tino told Rachel’s mother Mary Ann that his family would come around.

Holding hands: Rachel brought Tino to meet her family

Holding hands: Rachel brought Tino to meet her family

‘I’m a million percent confident that they will love Rachel because I do, so they don’t have a choice,’ Tino said.

‘Today went better than I thought it could have,’ Rachel said in a confessional. ‘Big stamp of approval from everyone.’

Rachel then went to have a conversation with Aven in his room.

Big stamp: 'Today went better than I thought it could have,' Rachel said in a confessional. 'Big stamp of approval from everyone'

Big stamp: ‘Today went better than I thought it could have,’ Rachel said in a confessional. ‘Big stamp of approval from everyone’

‘These last couple days for me have been really hard,’ Aven said.

Aven said he just wanted to experience life with her outside of the show before taking the next step.

‘I want us to be fully, fully in love with each other,’ Aven said.

Tough time: Aven said he just wanted to experience life with her outside of the show before taking the next step

Tough time: Aven said he just wanted to experience life with her outside of the show before taking the next step

Rachel started crying.

‘I need you to know how hard it is for me,’ Rachel said. ‘I feel so blindsided by you.’

‘I’m sitting here trying to fight for it,’ Aven said. ‘I’m telling you my feelings towards you have not changed at all. And a life after this is something that I want with you.’

Felt blindsided: 'I need you to know how hard it is for me,' Rachel said. 'I feel so blindsided by you'

Felt blindsided: ‘I need you to know how hard it is for me,’ Rachel said. ‘I feel so blindsided by you’

‘I want to be engaged,’ Rachel said crying. ‘ I want someone who is sure about me and I’m not willing to sacrifice that at the end of the day.’

‘You can’t give me what I need right now,’ Rachel said. ‘I can’t move forward.’

‘I want you to be happy,’ Aven said.

Rachel walked out of Aven’s room.

Last hug: Rachel walked out of Aven's room.

Last hug: Rachel walked out of Aven’s room.

In a confessional, Aven said that he had ‘failed.’

‘I saw a life with her,’ Aven said.

‘I did see it being him and I at the end,’ Rachel said. ‘I’m having too many of these moments.’

Feeling failure: In a confessional, Aven said that he had 'failed'

Feeling failure: In a confessional, Aven said that he had ‘failed’

Rachel told show host Jesse that it still hurt to watch that interaction with Aven back.

Jesse brought out Aven to talk to Rachel on the live show.

‘I’m extremely, extremely sorry with the way things ended between us,’ Aven said.

Looking back: Rachel told show host Jesse that it still hurt to watch that interaction with Aven back

Looking back: Rachel told show host Jesse that it still hurt to watch that interaction with Aven back

Aven said he regretted not telling Rachel how he was feeling about the engagement first before he told her friends and family.

‘We weren’t on the same page at the end of the day,’ Rachel said.

The Bachelorette will return on Tuesday on ABC with the second and final part of the season finale.

Felt regret: Aven said he regretted not telling Rachel how he was feeling about the engagement first before he told her friends and family

Felt regret: Aven said he regretted not telling Rachel how he was feeling about the engagement first before he told her friends and family

Second part: The Bachelorette will return on Tuesday on ABC with the second and final part of the season 19 finale

Second part: The Bachelorette will return on Tuesday on ABC with the second and final part of the season 19 finale

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