A Michigan woman who sacrificed the chance to undergo chemotherapy in order to give birth to her sixth child died early Saturday.
Nick DeKlyen told The Associated Press that his wife, Carrie DeKlyen, died surrounded by family at University of Michigan Hospital in Ann Arbor.
He said among his last words to her were, ‘I’ll see you in Heaven.’
‘We stayed by her until she took her last breath,’ Nick DeKlyen said. ‘It’s in God’s hands now.’
Doctors removed Carrie DeKlyen’s feeding and breathing tubes on Thursday, a day after she gave birth to her daughter Life Lynn DeKlyen. Carrie, 37, chose to forgo chemotherapy to treat her brain cancer since it would have meant ending her pregnancy.
Last week, surgeons performed an emergency cesarean section to save her baby just five weeks after she was left unconscious from a stroke.
Carrie was 24 weeks and five days pregnant at 5.30pm Wednesday when doctors delivered her sixth child, a girl named Life.
Carrie DeKlyen, 37, found out she was pregnant with her sixth child, Life, after doctors found a terminal brain tumor that was causing her extreme headaches. She died early Saturday a few days after giving birth to her daughter, Life
Carrie and her husband (back row) have six children together. Their youngest daughter Life Lynn will remain in the hospital for four to five months
‘She’s going to be fine,’ Nick said. ‘She’s going to be here for four or five months, but we expect her to be a healthy baby. … The doctor just said the timing (of the birth) couldn’t have been more perfect.’
Carrie’s breathing and feeding tubes were removed on Thursday after the birth and her husband said she was hours away from dying.
‘My wife loves the Lord and she loves her children more than anything,’ he said Friday.
‘It’s painful,’ he added. ‘But this is what she wanted. She wanted to protect this child.’
Carrie discovered she was pregnant in April, days after she was diagnosed with a terminal brain tumor, the same one John McCain has.
On July 28, at just 19 weeks, Carrie suffered a traumatic stroke. She was unconscious on and off a ventilator ever since.
Doctors at the University of Michigan Hospital in Ann Arbor were trying to wait till end of September for Life to be delivered at 28 weeks, but they decided on Wednesday that they could not wait any longer, as the baby had been moving less and less and they were worried she would die in Carrie’s womb.
Surgeons warned the family that Carrie could die on the table during the delivery because she still relied on a machine to help her breathe and the cancer had worn down her body.
Her baby survived the delivery, weighing 1lb and 4oz. But Carrie’s body was no longer capable of handling the damage from the cancer.
The Cure 4 Carrie Facebook page announced her death with a Bible verse. Her husband Nick said: ‘My wife loves the Lord and she loves her children more than anything
Before her stroke: Carrie was diagnosed with terminal brain cancer in April. Pictured: Carrie in the hospital with Jez, Laila, Nevaeh and her husband Nick
Carrie was diagnosed with glioblastoma multiforme diagnosis, a terminal brain tumor that was originally the size of a clementine.
At the time, she and her husband Nick, 39, didn’t know she was pregnant.
When she found out she decided to forgo chemotherapy to keep the child. Although it could have extended her life and shrunk the tumor, it would have killed the baby.
Doctors have yet to test the risks of chemotherapy on a baby during the first trimester.
Those first months are crucial for a baby because most of the internal organs are developing and the drugs could hinder that.
Chemotherapy is also more likely to cause a miscarriage during the first trimester.
So Carrie opted for radiation treatment in hopes it would keep herself alive long enough to have her child.
She also had two surgeries, one to try to remove the tumor and the other to drain the liquid, but both have no helped her situation.
People with this aggressive form of brain cancer only have a 10 percent chance of surviving five years after diagnosis.
The mother, from Wyoming, Michigan, had been unresponsive at the hospital since the end of July.
Doctors had to put her into a medically induced coma after she suffered a dangerous stroke from the tumor that continues to grow in her brain.
The stroke left her off and on a ventilator for over a month as she fought to breathe on her own without exerting too much energy on her body.
Towards the beginning of her coma, she was responsive and would occasionally open her eyes or move her limbs.
Doctors were hopeful that she would maybe even wake up from the coma once the swelling in her brain went down.
Sonya, Carrie’s sister-in-law, has been keeping people updated on Carrie’s progress through a Facebook account. On Wednesday, doctors told the family they needed to deliver Life because of Carrie’s current condition
But the tumor continued to grow and with that growth comes the need to constantly drain her skull from excess fluid.
Doctors tested Life’s size and health on Wednesday because they were worried about her viability outside of the womb.
She measured last week in the three percentile range for size at 24 weeks and five days old.
Her mobility grew less and less over the weeks, which prompted the doctors to decide to deliver her tonight for fear that she would die in Carrie’s womb if they didn’t.
At 24 weeks, Life is considered in the extremely preterm category.
She also developed a small amount of fluid in her brain.
This fluid can cause minor symptoms for Life or severe brain damage, but doctors won’t know more until they monitor her more.
On average, 63 percent of babies born at 24 weeks survive in the United States, and Life is now another baby who so far is doing OK outside the womb.
The normal gestation period for an infant is 40 weeks old.
Some problems that doctors were worried about when they deliver a baby this young is the high risk of developing a neurological disability.
These disabilities can include something as severe as an inability to walk or control their muscles or something mild such as having a learning disability.
Nick said they expect her to remain in the hospital for four to five months to get her larger and more healthy.
He said she is gaining weight and almost breathing on her own.
Life has all of her organs intact but the fluid in her brain could cause her problems later on.
Carrie and Nick have been married for 17 years. Their sixth child was a shock but they decided together to forgo chemotherapy and keep her
Fighting: Carrie, pictured after her first surgery to remove her tumor. It was just days before she found out she was pregnant with her sixth child
Carrie’s husband Nick has been staying at the Ronald McDonald House in Ann Arbor, Michigan, since Carrie went unconscious so he can be close to his wife and baby while they fight for their lives.
Carrie and Nick have five other children besides Life: Elijah, 18; Isaiah, 16; Nevaeh, 11; Leila, four; and Jez, two.
Sonya DeKlyen Nelson, Nick’s sister, created a Facebook page, Cure 4 Carrie, to keep family, friends and supporters updated on Carrie’s struggle during her cancer diagnosis.
She also created a GoFundMe page to help raise awareness of what the family is going through to help pay for Carrie and the baby’s care.
So far, the page has made close to $98,000 with more than three thousand shares on Facebook.