A popular YouTube vlogger has become embroiled in a row with a hotel owner after asking for a free stay in exchange for promotion on social media.
Elle Darby, 22, of Bath, Somerset, wrote to Paul Stenson, the owner of the White Moose Café and Charleville Lodge Hotel in Dublin.
She asked about a ‘possible collaboration’ involving free accommodation for her and her partner, who were planning to visit for an early Valentine’s Day weekend.
‘I would love to feature you in my Youtube videos/dedicated Instagram stories/posts to bring traffic to your hotel and recommend others to book up in return for free accommodation,’ she wrote.
But her note was greeted with disdain by Mr Stenson, who not only poured scorn on the request but also posted the exchange online – and has now banned bloggers from his hotel.
YouTube vlogger Elle Darby has become embroiled in a row with a hotel owner after asking for a free stay in exchange for promotion on her social media channels
Ms Darby, based in Bath, Somerset, had told him she had 87,000 YouTube subscribers and 76,000 Instagram followers, and ‘work as a social media influencer, mainly lifestyle, beauty & travel based.’
But in Mr Stenson’s reply, he told her she lacked ‘self-respect and dignity.’
‘Thank you for your email looking for free accommodation in return for exposure,’ he said.
‘It takes a lot of balls to send an email like that, if not much self-respect and dignity.
‘If I let you stay here in return for a feature in your video, who is going to pay the staff who look after you? Who is going to pay the housekeepers who clean your room?
She asked about a ‘possible collaboration’ involving free accommodation at Charleville Lodge Hotel (pictured) in Dublin
Elle Darby wrote to Paul Stenson, the owner of the White Moose Café and Charleville Lodge Hotel in Dublin, asking about a ‘possible collaboration.’ He poured scorn on her request and shared it on Facebook
‘The waiters who serve you breakfast? The receptionist who checks you in? Who is going to pay for the light and heat you use during your stay? The laundering of your bed sheets? The water rates?
‘Maybe I should tell my staff they will be featured in your video in lieu of receiving payment for work carried out while you’re in residence?’
The Facebook post was greeted with mixed reactions, with some accusing Mr Stenson of bullying. Others accused Ms Darby of being a ‘spoiled brat.’
Ms Darby responded by posting a video on her YouTube channel, with the title: ‘i was exposed (SO embarrassing)’.
Ms Darby responded by posting a video on her YouTube channel, with the title: ‘i was exposed (SO embarrassing)’
Ms Darby claimed Mr Stenson’s actions had led to her being targeted by online trolls
In the video, she claimed people over the age of 30 ‘had no idea how social media works these days’ and revealed she had received hundreds of messages of abuse.
‘I feel disgusting having to say this. As a 22-year-old girl, who’s running her own business from her home, I don’t feel like I did anything wrong,’ she said.
The emotional vlogger accused internet trolls of targeting her.
She added: ‘These were all 30 years plus people internet bullying a 22-year-old girl who is just trying to run her own business and raise awareness of what appeared to be a stunning Dublin hotel.’
Ms Darby also claimed the response of hindering ‘the younger generation from doing what they enjoy’
Ms Darby also claimed the response was hindering ‘the younger generation from doing what they enjoy’ and that she ‘cried my eyes out in my car alone’.
In a follow-up post on Facebook, the hotel announced that all bloggers are banned from the business.
Mr Stenson wrote: ‘I never thought we would be inundated with negative reviews for the simple reason that somebody was required to pay for goods received or services rendered.
‘The girl in question was never identified in my original post, but she herself went on to create a video explaining how she was ‘exposed’ with ‘malicious intent’ for asking for a freebie.
‘This kind of victimisation is very prevalent in the blogging industry, and is in keeping with their general modus operandi of wanting everything for nothing.
‘If any of you attempt to enter our premises from now on, you will be ejected.’