A Michigan couple who have 14 boys are finally expecting female addition to their family – a grandchild who is due to be born on Friday.
High school sweethearts Jay, 44, and Kateri Schwandt had three children while they were students at Ferris State University, starting with Tyler, their oldest, who now is 25.
After him came Zach, then Drew, Brandon, Tommy, Vinnie, Calvin, Gabe, Wesley, Charlie, Luke, Tucker, Francisco and Finley, who entered the world in April.
Standing from left are Tommy, Calvin, Drew, Tyler, Zach, Brandon, Gabe, Vinny and Wesley. Seated, starting at upper left are Charlie, Luke, mother Kateri holding Finley, father Jay with Tucker and Francisco in the foreground.
Drew and his girlfriend, Anelene Mellin, are now expecting a girl.
‘I’m really excited about it,’ said Mellin, a student at Central Michigan University. ‘She’ll be extremely loved and probably spoiled.’
The odds of having 14 boys in a row are 1 in 16,000 genetics experts said and by comparison the odds of being struck by lightning in one’s lifetime are 1 in 3,000.
Spaghetti night for the family involves three pounds of pasta and one night, a shepherd’s pie weighed in at 30 pounds.
Mr Schwandt, 44, a lawyer, revealed that the family receive unkind comments saying: ‘There are some really mean people in the world. And it doesn’t matter.
‘We happen to be this great big family with 14 boys that has so much fun every second that we’re together. And we still get horrible comments.’
Some comments focus on whether are capable of giving each child enough attention, a criticism their fourth son, Brandon, dismisses.
‘It’s just what we grew up with. I don’t know how to explain it. It’s just life. It’s our life,’ said Brandon Schwandt, a 19-year-old hockey standout who recently signed to play with a junior team in Florida.
The 14 brothers of the Schwandt family pose for a photo at their farm in Lakeview, Mich. From left are Tyler, Zach, Drew, Brandon, Tommy, Vinny, Calvin, Gabe, Wesley, Charlie, Luke, Tucker, Francisco and Finley. The boys range in age from 2 months to 25 years
Brandon’s mom describes life at home in the Grand Rapids suburb of Rockford as ‘organized chaos.’
While his dad, a 44-year-old lawyer and owner of a land surveying business, sees it this way: ‘Crazy. Chaotic. Noisy. Messy. But, we enjoy it. If we didn’t, we wouldn’t have continued to have this many children.’
The newborn’s middle name is inspired by a tale Kateri’s dad – himself the father of 14 – and tells about an American Indian chief who was the father of many boys.
The chief believed his last child would be a girl, but when the baby was a boy, the chief named him Sheboygan. As in ‘she is a boy again.’
‘So, we decided to have a little fun with it,’ Kateri Schwandt said.
‘He’s got a lot of brothers standing behind him, so if anybody wants to make fun of his name, they can try.’
Mom, dad, all 14 boys, and several of the older ones’ girlfriends recently met up at the family farm in rural Lakeview, where they crowded around the table to enjoy dinner supplied by members of their church before scattering.
Gabe, 11, took off for a spin around the 200-acre property atop a four-wheel ATV. Francisco, 3, lounged on the carpet, watching cartoons on a flat-screen TV.
Drew, 21, battled Brandon in a game of 8-ball while 6-year-old Luke looked on.
The most popular activity was hugging, kissing, or holding baby Finley, which it seems just about every Schwandt did at one point or another.
‘I have said, steadfastly, that we are done having children,’ Jay Schwandt said. ‘But I have been reminded that I said the exact same thing after Tucker (who’s now 4). And after Francisco. It just feels like we’re done.’