Sex therapist who ‘disciplines’ women is slammed by thousands over his ‘horrific’ dating advice: ‘If you wear jeans I’m going home’

A sex coach has been labelled as ‘controlling’ after sharing ‘barbaric’ dating advice to his predominantly male audience.

Stirling Cooper, who claims to be the ‘world’s number one sex coach for men’, was criticised for his strict opinions about what women should wear and how they should act on a date. 

Chatting to Frank Lopinski on the ‘Frankifyy’ podcast, the controversial 37-year-old claimed it’s a major turn off when women wear jeans and drink too much on a date. 

‘I hate when women wear jeans on a date. It’s like the least feminine thing I can think of,’ Stirling said.

‘I would say before we meet up ‘don’t wear jeans’. If you wear jeans, I’m going home. Pretty clear.’

Stirling also disapproves of women who drink too much alcohol.

‘I will stop a woman from drinking if I think she’s had too much to drink,’ he continued. 

‘She’s had one drink. Two drinks. She’s having way too much and then she goes to order another one. I will tell her. I will stop the waiter and be like, “no you’re not getting her a drink, get her a water instead”.’

Self-proclaimed sex coach Stirling Cooper (left) was criticised for his strict opinions about what women should wear and how they should act on a date

‘It’s kind of like a dad disciplining his daughter in a way.’

Stirling claimed women have told him it was the ‘sexiest thing a guy has ever done’ when he’s been strict with them on a date.

A short video from the podcast quickly went viral and sent shockwaves through the internet, with many branding the comments as ‘misogynistic’. 

‘He doesn’t like jeans on a date? Well I don’t like misogyny and daddy-related control issues on a date,’ one wrote. 

‘I don’t even drink but this makes me want to go out with him and drink just to piss him off. In my favorite jeans,’ another said.

‘Completely understand why he’s single at his age,’ a third added. 

Someone else said: ‘There is a reason women are having a third drink on these dates.’ 

‘I thought I signed up for a date, not an adoption interview with a man who thinks he can be my dad,’ one more wrote. 

‘Did he really say that he’s giving his date the father-daughter treatment?? Ew.’

Stirling left the Australian adult film industry in 2020 now his mission is to ‘teach guys how to be the type of lover their woman has always craved.’