A mother revealed she felt so terrorised by her son that she wanted to end her life as she begged police to arrest the teenager on 999 What’s Your Emergency last night.
Last night’s episode of the Channel 4 show focused on the shocking crimes of Sheffield’s teen tearaways – which included cops responding to a report of a 15-year-old harassing his mother and smashing up her bedroom.
The anonymous woman begged police to arrest her son on the programme, telling the officers the out-of-control boy had become so violent she was ‘willing to end her life.’
Many viewers were left stunned by the programme and conflicted over the way parents should most effectively discipline their children, with one commenting: ‘Parents have had control taken away from them. No longer allowed to smack our kids and frowned upon for harsh punishment. This is the result.’
An anonymous mother, from Sheffield, revealed she felt so terrorised by her son, 15, that she wanted to end her life as she begged police to arrest the teenager on 999 What’s Your Emergency last night
Police officers were wary about arresting the teenager, but his mother insisted his violent behaviour had been a last straw
Another wrote: ‘Parents are scared, kids think they are entitled to get what they want. Back in the day you get a smack or grounded, you can’t do that today. It be abuse. No wonder parents call the police.’
Call handler Sarah Birch explained: ‘We get so many calls from parents who are desperate for our help.
‘I’ve got a teenager, it’s an absolute nightmare. They think you’re wrong, they’ve got an answer for everything.’
Her colleague Megan Parker added: ‘Boredom plays a part, they don’t know what else to do so they think, “Oh we’ll go on the street and throw some rocks.”
Many viewers were left stunned by the programme and conflicted over the way parents should most effectively discipline their children
‘When you’re a teenager you do push boundaries. You don’t have anything to lose, you still live at home, you think, “why not?” It’s a natural part of growing up.
She continued: ‘Kids these days don’t have any respect for their parents any more.’
Terry Batchelor suggested parents being terrorised by their children had become a ‘much larger issue’, saying: ‘Parents scared of their child, they don’t know how to handle them or know what to do.’
PC Tom Casserly added: ‘We go to incidents like this a lot. When I joined the police, this isn’t what I had in mind. You see more and more parents losing control.’
During the programme, PC Nathan Warrilow said he initially felt ‘angry’ that the anonymous woman had called the police in order to discipline her son
The boy had smashed a TV screen down the centre during a violent outburst which prompted his mother to phone the police
He later told police at the station that there weren’t any family members who could come to accompany him, and said he was unable to read
The officers arrived at the woman’s house, where she described how her son punched the TV, smashing it down the centre of the screen.
PC Casserly said: ‘He was upset, upset about how he was being treated at home. There’s nothing uncommon for a kid that age.
‘But because she is unable to punish the child effectively herself, she passed that on to us.’
The anonymous mother told police she didn’t want her son being in the house, adding that she felt ‘scared’ of how he might behave.
Officers warned her that if there was nowhere else for him to go, they’d be forced to take him into custody.
The mother said: ‘There’s nowhere else for him to go. I’ve sugar coated it for way too long. Enough is enough now.’
PC Nathan Warrilow said: ‘The mother said she wanted him arrested…he’s 15.
‘We don’t want to arrest a child unnecessarily.
‘But when there’s nowhere else for him to be, it may make the situation worse.’
The mother added: ‘He wants to be a big man, he can live in a big man world.’
PC Casserly said: ‘[I] felt sorry for him. As a 15-year-old, you’ve got lots of anxiety anyway.
‘Then to be arrested, it just made him feel like nobody wants him but I think calling the police was probably the only thing available to her.’
PC Warrilow said: ‘Custody can shock people in a good way. But 15- that’s your formative years.
‘It’s the time you’re going to be effected the most.’
The boy was arrested for criminal damage, but when he arrived at the station to be booked into the station he told police officers he ‘couldn’t read’.
PC Warrilow added: ‘When we deal with kids in custody, we need an appropriate adult. Just to make sure they understand what is going on.
‘In some cases, we have children coming in to us and calling family members and they don’t want to help. Children then have to stay in custody overnight.’
The officers said they were left feeling ‘angry’ over the mother’s behaviour with her son and returned to her home to take a statement.
The woman told them: ‘There isn’t anywhere for him to go. It’s been going on for too long.
‘At the end of the day, I’ve got two other kids to safeguard at the same time. If I keep saying yes, I can’t safeguard them.’
She explained she had been having issues with her son for four years, adding: ‘He doesn’t go to school, he gets excluded.
‘Teachers take him to the inclusion centre, he jumps out of the car when she’s driving him.
‘He’s had 17 interventions and he doesn’t get any better.’
She continued: ‘I can’t describe the feeling. Last week I was willing to end my life.’
PC Warrilow said: ‘You’ve always got teenagers rebelling against the parents but when it becomes a criminal offence…it’s an issue.’
It was later revealed the boy was taken back home to his mother the following day.
Police said the experience of being arrested appeared to have changed his ways.
Viewers were conflicted over how parents should discipline their children after watching the programme.
One wrote: ‘I was dealt punishments by my parents and I have a close relationship with them and show them the respect they deserve.’
Another wrote: ‘I was bought up to respect my elders and police. There are no boundaries for kids, far too much of everything they want.
‘Do I sound like my mother? Yes? Do I care? No – because she did a great job as a widow!’