Grace Millane’s killer is a ‘pathological liar’ who would have ‘enjoyed the power’ during her murder, according to his own step-brother.
Jesse Kempson, 27, was today found guilty of throttling the British backpacker to death, photographing her body then stuffing her in a suitcase, before dumping it in bushland.
The serial fantasist made up a tissue of lies to feed his obsession of having violent sex with young women.
Grace Millane’s (right) killer Jesse Kempson (left) is a ‘pathological liar’ who would have ‘enjoyed the power’ during her murder, according to his own step-brother
Grace Millane (pictured) was on a round-the-world trip when she died on the eve of her 22nd birthday last December – the 27-year-old man who killed her was found guilty of murder today. He will be sentenced in February 21 2020
He told New Zealand’s One News: ‘[He] lies over pointless things and continues to lie until the point where he’s got no out, absolutely no out, and then he breaks downs and cries and runs away.
‘But he can’t do it any more, thankfully, just absolutely terrible that a life had to be lost because of that.’
But the step-brother does not believe that Kempson had set out to kill Grace.
He said: ‘It’s in that moment, yes he had the opportunity and he kept going and took Grace’s life. I don’t think it’s a violence thing. To me, I think it was power. It was just in a split moment, he enjoyed the power and kept going.’
Jesse Kempson told would-be sexual partners that he had cancer, his parents were dead and his cousin was an All Black rugby star in bizarre attempts to seduce them.
But in reality the 27-year-old was just a failed salesman who was sacked shortly before he murdered Ms Millane – a former student from Wickford, Essex, on a gap year – in an Auckland hotel room after a Tinder date last December.
Despite those he associated with describing him as a ‘creep’, Kempson got into a relationship with a woman in Sydney and the couple had a daughter. But he did not stay around and is understood to have had no further relationship with the mother.
While in Sydney, Kempson played for a softball team, but he did not fit in well with the other players off the field.
Harrowing CCTV shows smiling Grace entering the hotel holding the hand of her killer Kempson where he would take her life in his apartment
CCTV footage from inside the hotel lift captured the last time Grace was seen alive not knowing she was in the company of a murderous pervert
Described by teammates on the amateur softball side he played for as an ‘oddball’ and ‘loner’, the good-looking sportsman said he has a law degree and was a successful businessman.
Indeed Kempson’s family describe him as a ‘complex character’ who had fallen out with his father two years ago and doesn’t speak to most of his other relatives.
His grandmother says that he was ‘a very confused young man’ and paints a picture of his chaotic life after his parents split up.
His grandfather said that he ‘loved his sport’ but in more recent times he’d been ‘at a bit of a loose end’.
‘He was a nice kid but he sort of fell out with everybody, which is what happens with broken up marriages,’ he said.
He added that the killer, who had a child with a woman in Australia, was estranged from his father because of ‘a difference in opinion on life’.
One woman who shared a flat with him and two other women in Auckland in 2016 was forced to tell him to leave because he made them feel uncomfortable.
Speaking outside court, his voice breaking with emotion, David Millane broke down as he remembered Grace as a ‘beautiful, loving, talented daughter’
‘A liar and a fantasist, that’s him,’ said the woman, who now lives in London. ‘His personality would totally change when he drank. When I found out it was him who had been arrested it almost made me ill.’
She added: ‘He told us that his parents were big in buying up property and restaurants in Australia and we believed him. But then later he told us that he was negotiating to buy a restaurant in The Viaduct in Auckland and I knew that had to be a lie.’
By a remarkable coincidence, the woman’s family owned the restaurant, ‘and I knew my relative wasn’t selling up’.
After being given his marching orders, Kempson told the three flatmates that he had to go back to Australia anyway because his mother had died.
‘We later found out that she was alive and he had stayed on in Auckland, having not paid a month’s rent he owed us,’ the woman added.
Another woman who crossed paths with Kempson said he had ‘seemed like a decent guy… the only weird thing I thought about him was that he asked me for feet photographs and of me with my high heels on’.
Kempson admitted in a Facebook post that he had problems. Just two months before he killed Grace, he reflected that he had made bad decisions which had greatly affected others.
‘My clear arrogance and selfishness has truly affected the relationship I have with people in my personal life.
‘Putting all that aside, I just want anyone who I’ve hurt or let down to know I’m truly sorry from the bottom of my heart.’
Grace’s parents sat through the entire three-week trial where their daughter’s killer told lie after lie, which the jury saw through
A former teammate told Mail Online: ‘He was creepy towards girls. His life revolved around girls, taking to girls.
The parents of the British backbacker sobbed today as the man who ‘ripped their lives apart’ when he throttled her to death after a Tinder date was found guilty of murder following a harrowing trial 11,000 miles from the UK in New Zealand.
David Millane broke down on the steps of Auckland High Court as he paid tribute to his ‘beautiful, talented, loving daughter’ and blasted her 27-year-old killer who ‘brutally’ took away Grace’s life on her 22nd birthday in December last year.
Her shattered mother Gill quietly wept as the guilty verdict was delivered to murderer Jesse Kempson after just five hours of deliberations by the jury.
And outside court, a tearful Mr Millane said: ‘Grace was a beautiful, talented, loving daughter. Grace was our sunshine and she will be missed forever’.
Kempson used the three-week murder trial to tell poisonous lies about Grace dying accidentally during rough sex he falsely claimed she had enjoyed and even encouraged because she was a fan of the 50 Shades of Grey films.
In fact he had choked her to death for his own sexual pleasure, watched porn afterwards and stuffed her body in a suitcase. The pervert even left Grace in his blood-soaked room to go on another date before he decided to bury her in a muddy hole a New Zealand forest. He will be sentenced in February.
Mr Millane said after the verdict: ‘She did not deserve to be murdered in such a barbaric way. Grace was taken away from us in the most brutal fashion a year ago and our lives and family have been ripped apart. This will be with us for the rest of our lives’.
He added: ‘The verdict of murder today will be welcomed by every member of the Millane family and friends of Grace. It will not reduce the pain and suffering we have had to endure over the past year’.
Graduate Grace died on December 2, her 22nd birthday, after going home with the murderer who she met on Tinder while on a dream post-graduate backpacking holiday, travelling in Auckland, New Zealand.
The jury at Auckland High Court pronounced their verdict after little more than five hours deliberations at the end of a three-week trial.
At 5.45pm local time, they filed into the jury box. smartly-dressed Kempson remained impassive before he was led away to the cells.
He was then brought back to the dock, wearing a dark suit and black open necked shirt, to be told by Judge Simon Moore that he would be sentenced on February 21 next year.
Grace’s mother Gill’s silently sobbed as the verdict was read but recovered her composure to be comforted by her husband David, a property developer from Wickford, Essex.
Mr Millane thanked the police and prosecutors, who he said had ‘never flinched away from the more intimate details of the case’ and were ‘compassionate and thoughtful’ to the family.
He continued: ‘Last but not least we would like to thank the people of New Zealand.
‘They have opened their hearts to Grace and our family. I cannot express our gratitude enough for all the offers of gifts and kindness that we have received over the last year.
‘Finally, we must return home to try and pick up the pieces of our lives day-to-day without our beloved Grace. Thank you.’
Her death shocked many in New Zealand, which prides itself on welcoming tourists and where many people travel abroad as well.
Hundreds of people attended candlelight vigils after she died, and Prime Minister Jacinda Ardern spoke about New Zealanders feeling ‘hurt and shame’ that she was killed in their country.
Tourism is also one of New Zealand’s largest industries, accounting for more than 20 per cent of foreign exchange earnings and about 6 per cent of the overall economy. The case has been closely followed in Britain as well.
This is the moment that the defendant is caught on CCTV smuggling Grace Millane’s naked body out of his hotel home in a suitcase on this trolley
The killer was then seen wheeling the trolley across the lobby of the hotel and out of the door
A photo issued Auckland City Police showing the use of luminol to highlight the blood stains on the floor of the killer’s apartment
Pictures of the bedroom where Grace was strangled to death during sex were shown to the jury
Forensic examiners are pictured marking out the area where the suitcase containing Grace’s body was buried
Shocking pictures played to the jury reveal the moment police discovered the body of murdered British backpacker Grace Millane dumped in this muddy hole in the ground
The guilty verdict brings to an end an 11-month saga of pain for the close-knit family, who waved goodbye to their daughter in October last year as she set out on a world tour after graduating from Lincoln University.
After spending time in Peru, she arrived in New Zealand in mid-November and arranged her fateful Tinder for the night of December 1, planning to celebrate her 22nd birthday the next day.
She greeted her killer with a hug, standing beside a Christmas tree in the courtyard of the SkyCity casino. They toured several bars, drinking cocktails and, as she told one of her best friends in a text message, she was clearly impressed.
‘I click with him so well,’ she wrote to her friend Ameena Ashcroft. ‘I will let you know what happens tomorrow.’
By the morning, however, Grace was lying dead in the £190-a-week third-floor apartment at the CityLife hotel in central where the killer, a local man, lived.
She had been strangled during sex and the killer had taken a series of intimate photographs of her naked body before watching hardcore pornography through the early hours.
The man began December 2, Grace’s 22nd birthday, by buying a suitcase to transport her body to a shallow grave in remote bushland.
But even before he did so, he was arranging another Tinder date for that afternoon, in which he told a woman a bogus story about a supposed friend who had killed a woman during sex.
He was first snared by a message he left on Grace’s Facebook profile page the night before, as he waited to leave the Bluestone Room bar around the corner.
Contacted by police, he wove an elaborate web of lies, at first claiming he and Grace had parted as friends, planning to meet the next day.
Trapped by CCTV showing him buying the suitcase, however, he changed his story, claiming Grace had told him she had learned BDSM sex games with a former boyfriend and had asked him to choke her during intercourse.
He said they had each taken photographs of each other’s private parts on their cellphones and that after sex he had fallen asleep, drunk, under the shower without suspecting Grace was in danger.
His lies were exposed by data recovered from his mobile phone which showed he had searched for ‘Waitakere Ranges’, the hills where he later buried Grace, and ‘hottest fire’, minutes before taking the photos of her.
That, the verdict confirmed, was proof that, as Crown prosecutor Brian Dickey had told the jury, he had ‘eroticised her death.’
‘It’s not safe sex play that killed Grace Millane, it’s strangulation,’ said Mr Dickey. ‘At some point of which she lost consciousness and would have become limp and lifeless and he had to carry on.
‘And if that’s not reckless murder someone will have to explain to me what is.’
5.45pm, December 1 2018: CCTV footage shown to jurors the defendant (whose face is obscured) walked into view and open his arms for a hug with Grace Millane as they met for the first time on December 1 in Auckland, New Zealand
6pm: The CCTV footage followed the couple through their date, including their first stop: A casino containing Andy’s Burger Bar
At 7.12pm, the footage aired in court shows the couple left the burger bar and walked through the casino atrium and down the escalator walking out onto the street and past the Christmas tree
8.30pm: the pair (seen stood at right-hand end of the bar) were paying after spending an hour at the Mexican Cafe
8.45pm: Three hours after their first meeting Miss Millane and the defendant are shown kissing repeatedly in Auckland’s Bluestone Bar, where her killer was drinking before the date
9.40pm: Just over an hour later Grace Millane and the defendant leave the lift at the hotel where he lived and head for room 308. The footage is the last time she was seen alive
A video of the killer’s (left) interview with police was played to jurors at Auckland High Court in New Zealand today. A photograph of Grace lay on the table in front of him
Chief defence lawyer Ian Brookie listens to Justice Simon Moore as he addresses the jury at Auckland High Court
Justice Simon Moore speaks to the jury as he sums up the case at Auckland High Court today
How marketing graduate Grace Millane’s last act of kindness was to cut off her flowing locks and send them to a charity that makes wigs for sick children before she set off on year-long trip around the world
British backpacker Grace Millane was a young woman with the world at her feet.
She dedicated her spare time to helping charities close to her heart, and had saved her money to pay for a round-the-world trip after studying hard for three years and graduating from the University of Lincoln with a Bachelor’s degree.
But she was killed on the eve of her 22nd birthday, by failed salesman and amateur softball player, Kempson.
Grace Emmie Rose Millane, from Wickford in Essex, had graduated with a degree in advertising and marketing, and waved goodbye to her family as she embarked on a world tour.
She was just six weeks into it when her life was cruelly cut short.
Before she travelled abroad, she cut off her long hair and donated it to the Little Princess Trust, which makes wigs for children who have lost their hair because of cancer.
As they laid her to rest, Ms Millane’s family asked for any donations to be made to charities close to her heart – The Little Princess Trust, White Ribbon UK, Mutts in Distress and Smile Train.
Grace had spent six weeks in South America and Peru, arriving in New Zealand on 20 November 2018 and travelling around the upper North Island.
She arrived in Auckland on 30 November – two days before she was killed.
She had also been planning a second long-haul trip to Asia.
Grace’s mother Gillian is recovering from a breast cancer operation, which stopped her from flying to New Zealand to join the search for her daughter’s body. Grace posted this heartwrenching picture of her in September 2011, captioning it, ‘Me and Mummy Millane’
Left, Grace in April 2017. Right, Adventure-loving Grace is pictured here in September 2016, in front of San Francisco’s Golden Gate Bridge
The Millanes: (L-R) father David, brother Michael, mother Gillian, brother Declan and Grace, who died in Auckland, New Zealand in December last year
Declan Millane posted this photo after his little sister’s death. He wrote: ‘You are my sunshine, my only sunshine. You make me happy when skies are gray. You’ll never know, dear, how much I love you. Please don’t take my sunshine away’
Her father David, 60, said in an interview that he hoped his daughter’s death would ‘not deter even one person from venturing out into the world’
Kempson denied murdering Ms Millane (left and right) on December 1 last year, the night before her 22nd birthday
Grace’s parents sat through the entire three-week trial where their daughter’s killer told lie after lie, which the jury saw through
She leaves behind her mother and father Gillian and David, and big brothers Michael, 29, and Declan, 26.
Her family said the ‘beautiful’ 22-year-old had a ‘passion to see the world’ and even had a trip to the Far East planned.
Her mother Gillian is currently recovering from a breast cancer operation and was unable to join the hunt for their daughter’s body in New Zealand because of the procedure.
Her father David, 60, said in an interview that he hoped his daughter’s death would ‘not deter even one person from venturing out into the world’.
Mr Millane added: ‘We all fly the nest. Her death should not deter any man or woman from following their dreams.’
Mr Millane runs a family construction business with Miss Millane’s brothers, Michael and Declan.
In an emotional tribute after her death, Grace’s big brother Declan posted a heartfelt note to his sister, quoting the words of a famous 1940 song by Jimmie Davis.
‘You are my sunshine, my only sunshine. You make me happy when skies are gray. You’ll never know, dear, how much I love you. Please don’t take my sunshine away.’
Little Grace with her big brothers Michael and Declan. In an emotional tribute after her death, Declan posted a heartfelt note to his sister, quoting the words of a famous 1940 song by Jimmie Davis
Grace Emmie Rose Millane, from Wickford in Essex, had a ‘passion to see the world’
Speaking outside court, his voice breaking with emotion, David Millane broke down as he remembered Grace as a ‘beautiful, loving, talented daughter’
In October, Grace’s family and friends filled donated handbags with essential and luxury items and gave them to homeless women in refuges in a bid to help victims of domestic abuse.
Her cousin Hannah O’Callaghan said the family had wanted to do something in her name to ‘give her a legacy’.
She said the idea started out when they saw a social media post about filling a handbag with items for homeless women.
Mrs O’Callaghan, 37, said: ‘We thought it was a great idea and thought ‘how could we do something similar in Grace’s name?’ It helps that Grace loved a handbag.’
More than 500 bags were donated to the campaign, called Love Grace x, exceeding the family’s initial target of 50.
Mrs O’Callaghan said: ‘It has been extremely difficult as a family and doing something like this is helping us get together, giving us something to focus on and it is helping others, which is all we can hope to achieve out of what we have been through.’
The appeal continues to be inundated with donations and there are four collection points for Love Grace x across Essex at Club Kingswood in Basildon, The Fox and Hounds Pub in Ramsden Heath, The Pyramid Centre in Thurrock and Hemming Too Stores in Ramsden Bellhouse.
Crippled with grief, how Grace’s devoted parents listened bravely as the horrific truth emerged
David and Gillian Millane started worrying when ‘happy birthday’ text messages to their backpacking daughter Grace went unanswered.
Grace had set out from her home in Essex to see the world, following in the footsteps of her mother decades before.
But yesterday in New Zealand, her parents clasped each other for support as they told how their lives had been ‘ripped apart’ by a brutal killer who stole ‘our sunshine’.
For three weeks, the grieving couple had to draw on all their inner strength as they sat through every parent’s worst nightmare
For three weeks, the grieving couple had to draw on all their inner strength as they sat through every parent’s worst nightmare. Thousands of miles from home, in a cramped courtroom, they were forced to listen to how their daughter died, on the weekend of her 22nd birthday, at the hands of a man she met through online dating app Tinder.
They sat stoically through much of the harrowing evidence, including details of how fantasist Jesse Kempson, 27, choked Grace to death before callously squeezing her body into a suitcase and burying it in a shallow woodland grave.
After a jury took just five hours to convict Kempson of murder yesterday, Mr and Mrs Millane hugged in Auckland’s High Court before tears ran down their faces, with mixed expressions of relief and ongoing grief. Outside the court, as Mrs Millane struggled with her emotions, her husband’s tears and breaking voice made it difficult for him to read a statement.
‘You’ll have to forgive me because I’m not very good at this’, he told reporters as he paused to compose himself.
‘The verdict of murder today will be welcomed by every member of the Millane family and friends of Grace.
‘It will not reduce the pain and suffering we have had to endure over the past year. Grace was taken away from us in the most brutal fashion a year ago and our lives and family have been ripped apart. This will be with us for the rest of our lives.
Mrs Millane struggled with her emotions
‘Grace was a beautiful, talented, loving daughter. Grace was our sunshine and she will be missed for ever. She did not deserve to be murdered in such a barbaric way during her overseas experience year.’
Kempson faces life in prison for Grace’s murder, which he first denied in a succession of lies to the police. He then claimed it happened in a sex game gone wrong.
Her parents sat just feet away from him but he refused to give evidence, instead leaving his lawyers to drag Grace’s sexual history through the mud.
To face the world yesterday and speak with such sorrow about the daughter they clearly loved showed great courage – the same courage they showed each day as they were forced to listen to Grace’s travels through a subculture world of bondage and sadomasochism.
Sometimes the tears flowed – on one occasion during particularly graphic evidence, Mrs Millane fled the court – but through all the disturbing statements and testimony, Grace’s parents, neatly and respectfully attired each day, remained dignified. From time to time, one would reach out to the other, touch a hand, or offer a gentle smile of reassurance.
Their demeanour was a contrast to the murky evidence presented to the jury – including the fact that Kempson had taken photos of Grace’s naked body after he had choked her to death, before watching porn online.
When the guilty verdict was announced there were tears all around, in the eyes of hardened police officers, the jury and people who had crowded into the public gallery – strangers who could only guess the pain Grace’s parents had suffered.
The couple bravely faced up to a scenario that they could never have imagined when the University of Lincoln graduate, with a bachelor’s degree in advertising and marketing, kissed them goodbye and excitedly set off on her overseas adventures from their home in Wickford.
That they would not see her alive again, apart from through her frequent social media posts, was never in their thoughts.
One of Grace’s two brothers, 29-year-old Michael, said: ‘She had a passion to see the world before she settled into a job.
‘Her mind was set that she wanted to do this thing.’
With Grace away on her travels, the goodbye memories the family had all shared soon gave way to her frequent social media posts, leaving her family in no doubt that she was having a fabulous time.
She planned to spend two weeks in New Zealand, arriving on November 20 last year. In Auckland, she checked into a backpackers’ hostel, where she quickly made friends with other travellers, even spending the night with one of them. But she made sure she kept her family regularly up to date with tales of her adventures.
She even sent them a photo of a Christmas tree, a picture taken in the SkyCity entertainment complex on December 1.
It was to be the last communication with her parents.
She did not know then that the man the Tinder dating site had paired her with for a date that evening – the man she was waiting for when she took the photo of the tree – was to be her killer.
On behalf of his family, David Millane, a property developer, thanked the police officers who had worked tirelessly to track down their daughter’s killer. He expressed his gratitude to prosecution lawyers and the people of New Zealand who had ‘opened their hearts to Grace and our family’.
Now, he said, ‘we must return home and try to pick up the pieces of our lives, day to day, without our lovely Grace’.